Sh! Orgasm Guides

Hello, Thanks for creating such a positive and supportive vibe to your site :) I am close to 50 and have not yet achieved an orgasm. I’ve decided it’s time...

Hello! I was wondering if you could advise me on what toy(s) might be good for someone who has never had an orgasm? I have used a rabbit vibrator and a...

Hi Sh!I would like some advice if you can. I never orgasm by penetration, but I do by clitoral stimulation. The strength and pleasure of the orgasm are vastly increased...

Experiencing more than one orgasm during a single sex session is something many of us strive for. And it's not surprising, given the amount of pressure women & vulva owners...

Anyone who's ever experienced an orgasm knows just how ruddy marvellous they are. Your heart races, your toes curl, and your breathing speeds up... The feeling builds in waves all...

National Orgasm Day, celebrated on the 31st of July, is something we should all be shouting Oh-Oh-Oooh about. It's not yet a national holiday (though it should be), so for...

Would you be surprised if we told you that National Orgasm Day on 31st of July is our favourite day of the year? Probably not! Of course orgasms are good...

Dear Sh!I'm so disappointed with my orgasms - they are nothing like the earth-shaking orgasms I keep reading about... Mine are merely little blips - nothing that would register on the...

Dear Sh!I am 27 and my fiance is 35. We have been together for 3 years. I have always complained to him that I have never enjoyed sex with him...

Hi,I was wondering if you could help. I have never had a problem in reaching an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but my legs have to be together and rigid. This...

Dear Sh!I was on top of my man last night and all of a sudden I was soaking. I was literally pouring over him, in fact it was him who said...

Certain things are just ‘de rigour’ when it comes to sex - like a positive attitude to personal hygiene, for example!  But what else? We posed the question on Twitter...

After reading articles about exercise-induced orgasms earlier this week, I was itching to get home and try it out for myself.  Although I’ve enjoyed exercise for most of my adult...

The words below are just some suggestions to help you get to know yourself. There is no normal when it comes to sexual arousal, and perhaps none of this works...

Dear Sh! I have never been in a sex shop and I have no experience about sex toys. I started few days ago looking for some information about them in...

If you have never had an orgasm, the concept may seem baffling. How do you know if you've had one? What is it supposed to feel like? And - how...

Read our advice on the best sex toy for multiple orgasms.

Squirting is something we're asked about a lot. Very little studied, argued as mythical (mostly by male doctors) and awash in a million porn films (where you'd believe that every...

Our online sex course Becoming Orgasmic is specifically designed for women & vulva owners who want to delve deeper into orgasmic pleasure. This course, rated 5 stars by our customers,...

The orgasm gap is a name given to the statistical fact that women in heterosexual relationships enjoy far fewer orgasm than their male partners and are bottom of the climax table in relationship...

Most couples have their tried & tested go-to positions for sex. You start in one, move to a second and finish in a third – with something extra fancy for...

Hi, Over the last 4 years, I have had issues with my joints. Despite this, until last year I was still able to enjoy sex and masturbation. Last year, after...

Hi Sh!, I'm looking for a new sex toy. I have the Fun Factory Stronic Bi Fusion and although it worked for me at first,  it's now not doing the job....

Hi, I'd like to ask for your help in a serious matter. I've been married for 20 years and have only ever had one orgasm when I was much younger....

  We all know that sex is toe-curlingly, sheet-bitingly, and swooningly fantastic, but did you know that the benefits of sex go beyond simply feeling good?  Whether alone with a...

The inability, or seeming inability, to orgasm affects millions of women. The medical profession refers to this as Anorgasmia.  As a side note, we'll say we prefer using "pre-orgasmic" when talking...

Are you unable to orgasm when you are with your lover?Is striving to orgasm with your lover leading you down the soggy path of frustration rather than to the pinnacle...