First Sex Toy Advice

As the calendar resets and we step into a fresh new year, it’s the perfect time to embrace change, set exciting goals, and - most importantly - have more fun!...

Taking the plunge and buying your very first sex toy is exciting and a little bit scary – what if you don’t like it? Or what if you like it...

Hello, I'm looking for advice. I've been procrastinating messaging you over embarrassment but I am reading Dr. Karen Gurney's 'Mind the Gap' and trying to overcome this! I'm a 25-year-old cis...

This is our beginners guide to buying your first strap-on. Buying your first strap on, especially when both partners are total beginners and have never tried strap-on play before, can...

Do you feel overwhelmed by all the different types of sex toys available? Not quite sure where to start? It's common for first-time buyers to feel bogged down by choice,...

Anal beads are a popular sex toy option for anal play newbies. A string of small ball-shapes, anal beads are designed to be popped into the anus and then gently pulled...

New to sex toys? Confused by all the options? Want to share the experience with a partner who's also new to toys? Eek - so many questions!  We know buying...

Dear Sh! I’m 21 and have yet to have an orgasm. My mates tell me that trying a vibrator is a good idea, but there are so many amazing sex toys out there I...

This is our beginner's guide to G-spot vibrators. Before we delve deeper into the vagina, we should discuss the G-spot. Is there such a thing? Rumour has it there is...

If you're a beginner to anal toys, read our lowdown on what you need to know as a newbie. First and foremost - anal toys need to be safe This means...

Hi Sh! I've been with my male partner for 12 years - we're married and have two tweenies. Our sex life is so-so. After two kids, I don't fancy it...

Hi Sh! I have a question regarding the lipstick vibe. I've now used the Sh! mini bullet several times and have not quite been able to orgasm with its use. This is...

Anal sex is one of the topics we get asked most about - it seems you are all curious about how to pleasure the butt! Porn may have you believe...

This blog post is all about how to choose your first dildo. Buying your very first dildo is exciting and scary in equal measure. What seems like easy, fun shopping...

Dear Sh! I'm in my early twenties and I've yet to have an orgasm. I'd love to try out a vibrator - what would you recommend for a total beginner?...

Hello! I wondered if I could ask for some advice - I would like to buy a vibrator but I have no idea which one to buy. I have never used one...

A while back, we ran a letter from a woman who was looking to explore toys after sexual trauma. We gave our thoughts but we also wanted to get an expert...

My daughter has been asking about getting her first dildo or vibrator. She is 13 and very mature intellectually, and I guess she is physically developing now as well. What...

Hi, I have been happily married for 37 years but am currently undergoing couples sexual counselling. I am 58 yrs old, have only had one sexual partner and have never...