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Our orgasm guides offer women-led, pleasure-positive advice on understanding orgasms, overcoming orgasm difficulties and closing the orgasm gap.

Explore expert advice on female orgasm, multiple orgasms, orgasmic breathing and squirting, with practical guidance to help you understand your body and discover what works for you.

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The Best Sex Positions For Truly Mind-Blowing Orgasms - Sh! Women's Store

The Best Sex Positions For Truly Mind-Blowing Orgasms

When it comes to reaching one of those toe-curling, sheet-grabbing orgasms, some positions work better than others. These sex positions usually vary from person...
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Common Misconceptions About Female Orgasms - Sh! Women's Store

Common Misconceptions About Female Orgasms

Throughout history, the female orgasm has been the subject of analysis and interest, both for those who experience them (or not, as the case...
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Q&A: How To Achieve My First Orgasm? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: How To Achieve My First Orgasm?

Hello, Thanks for creating such a positive and supportive vibe to your site :) I am close to 50 and have not yet achieved...
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Q&A: I Have Never Had An Orgasm - Can You Help? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: I Have Never Had An Orgasm - Can You Help?

Hello! I was wondering if you could advise me on what toy(s) might be good for someone who has never had an orgasm? I have...
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Q&A: I Don't Orgasm During Penetration - What Can I Do? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: I Don't Orgasm During Penetration - What Can I Do?

Hi Sh!I would like some advice if you can. I never orgasm by penetration, but I do by clitoral stimulation. The strength and pleasure...
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How to Have And Enjoy Multiple Orgasms - Sh! Women's Store

How to Have And Enjoy Multiple Orgasms

Experiencing more than one orgasm during a single sex session is something many of us strive for. And it's not surprising, given the amount...
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A Quick Guide to Multiple Orgasms - Sh! Women's Store

A Quick Guide to Multiple Orgasms

Anyone who's ever experienced an orgasm knows just how ruddy marvellous they are. Your heart races, your toes curl, and your breathing speeds up......
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Top 10 Tips for National Orgasm Day - Sh! Women's Store

Top 10 Tips for National Orgasm Day

National Orgasm Day, celebrated on the 31st of July, is something we should all be shouting Oh-Oh-Oooh about. It's not yet a national holiday...
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What Is Edging And Why Should I Try It? - Sh! Women's Store

What Is Edging And Why Should I Try It?

Like to increase both the quota and the intensity of your orgasms?  A brilliant way of doing this is 'edging.' Edging has been around...
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Q&A: I Want Better Orgasms! - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: I Want Better Orgasms!

Dear Sh!I'm so disappointed with my orgasms - they are nothing like the earth-shaking orgasms I keep reading about... Mine are merely little blips -...
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Q&A: Never Had an Orgasm - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Never Had an Orgasm

Dear Sh!I am 27 and my fiance is 35. We have been together for 3 years. I have always complained to him that I...
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Q&A: Need Legs Together to Orgasm? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Need Legs Together to Orgasm?

Hi,I was wondering if you could help. I have never had a problem in reaching an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but my legs have...
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Q&A: Female Ejaculation But No Orgasm? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Female Ejaculation But No Orgasm?

Dear Sh!I was on top of my man last night and all of a sudden I was soaking. I was literally pouring over him, in...
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Sexual Etiquette - Sh! Women's Store

Sexual Etiquette

Certain things are just ‘de rigour’ when it comes to sex - like a positive attitude to personal hygiene, for example!  But what else?...
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Coregasms - Orgasms Brought On By Exercise - Sh! Women's Store

Coregasms - Orgasms Brought On By Exercise

After reading articles about exercise-induced orgasms earlier this week, I was itching to get home and try it out for myself.  Although I’ve enjoyed...
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How to Have Stronger Orgasms - Sh! Women's Store

How to Have Stronger Orgasms

The words below are just some suggestions to help you get to know yourself. There is no normal when it comes to sexual arousal,...
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Q&A: I Can't Orgasm - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: I Can't Orgasm

Dear Sh! I have never been in a sex shop and I have no experience about sex toys. I started few days ago looking...
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What Does an Orgasm Feel Like? - Sh! Women's Store

What Does an Orgasm Feel Like?

If you have never had an orgasm, the concept may seem baffling. How do you know if you've had one? What is it supposed...
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Which Is The Best Sex Toy For Multiple Orgasms? - Sh! Women's Store

Which Is The Best Sex Toy For Multiple Orgasms?

Read our advice on the best sex toy for multiple orgasms.
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What Is Squirting, And How Can I Learn How To Do It? - Sh! Women's Store

What Is Squirting, And How Can I Learn How To Do It?

Squirting is something we're asked about a lot. Very little studied, argued as mythical (mostly by male doctors) and awash in a million porn...
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Becoming Orgasmic Online Course - Unlocking Your Sexual Potential - Sh! Women's Store

Becoming Orgasmic Online Course - Unlocking Your Sexual Potential

Our online sex course Becoming Orgasmic is specifically designed for women & vulva owners who want to delve deeper into orgasmic pleasure. This course,...
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Close the Orgasm Gap - Women Deserve More Pleasure! - Sh! Women's Store

Close the Orgasm Gap - Women Deserve More Pleasure!

The orgasm gap is a name given to the statistical fact that women in heterosexual relationships enjoy far fewer orgasm than their male partners and are...
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Q&A: Sex & Arthritis - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Sex & Arthritis

Hi,Over the last 4 years, I have had issues with my joints. Despite this,until last year I was still able to enjoy sex and...
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Q&A: Why Can't I Orgasm? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Why Can't I Orgasm?

Hi Sh!, I'm looking for a new sex toy. I have the Fun Factory Stronic Bi Fusion and although it worked for me at first, ...
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Q&A: I've Only Ever Had One Orgasm-What Toys Do You Advise? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: I've Only Ever Had One Orgasm-What Toys Do You Advise?

Hi, I'd like to ask for your help in a serious matter. I've been married for 20 years and have only ever had one...
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Benefits of Sex - The Chemical Rewards of Sex & Orgasm - Sh! Women's Store

Benefits of Sex - The Chemical Rewards of Sex & Orgasm

We all know that sex is toe-curlingly, sheet-bitingly, and swooningly fantastic, but did you know that the benefits of sex go beyond simply feeling...
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Unable to Orgasm? - Sh! Women's Store

Unable to Orgasm?

The inability, or seeming inability, to orgasm affects millions of women. The medical profession refers to this as Anorgasmia.  As a side note, we'll...
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Can't Orgasm During Sex With A Partner? - Sh! Women's Store

Can't Orgasm During Sex With A Partner?

Are you unable to orgasm when you are with your lover?Is striving to orgasm with your lover leading you down the soggy path of...
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