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Our bondage, kink and BDSM guides offer expert advice on exploring kink safely, confidently and consensually.
Discover practical guidance on BDSM for beginners, bondage safety, consent, boundaries, communication and choosing kink toys — plus ideas and inspiration for exploring what feels right for you and your partner.
How To Encourage Your Partner To Be More Dominant In The Bedroom
When it comes to sex fantasies, being dominated in the bedroom is probably one of the most common ones. Whether you enjoy being tied up,...
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How to introduce bondage into your bedroom
Bondage and kink can sound pretty daunting, especially if you’re not one to throw caution to the wind and jump into the unknown, (tethered)...
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7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM
Many folks enjoy what is commonly known as 'kink' (like spanking) without considering themselves to be particularly kinky. Others are lifelong members of the...
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Q&A: My Girlfriend Is Into BDSM But I'm Not
I recently found out that my girlfriend has been looking at BDSM porn. I was a bit taken aback and I don't really know...
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Feeling Safe When Exploring Bondage Play
Before we start, we'd like to highlight that this article is for survivors of sexual violence and some readers may feel triggered by the...
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Best Bondage Restraints
Whether you're a newbie toying with a little playful restraint or a bondage expert who regularly swings from the rafters at the local dungeon, your toy box...
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5 Positions For Bondage
Like with all sex play, imagination is the only limit for pleasure. If you can imagine it, you can probably do it! For this...
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Beginner's Guide to Bondage Safety
When you think about it, many sexual activities involve some sort of exchange of trust and power, with one partner giving and the other...
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How to Play Safely with BDSM
BDSM is an umbrella term for a long list of delicious activities: Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism and Masochism. BDSM can involve as much or as little bondage, domination,...
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Warm Wax Candle Play: Make Me Melt Candles
Warm wax candle play is hugely popular with kinky folks who love the incredible sensations of hot drips on naked skin. In fact, we've witnessed...
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Handmade BDSM Bondage Collars for Sex Play
Collars can be worn for different reasons. Maybe it’s a fashion statement, just for fun & play, or it could be a sign that...
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Fun Ways To Play With Handcuffs
If you and bae love being dominated and restricted during sex, you should definitely invest in a pair of handcuffs. Not only are cuffs fun...
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