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Sex Toys for Beginners

Our collection of Sex Toys for Beginners chosen by women.

Discover your perfect first sex toy. We've curated a selection of our best non-intimidating, easy-to-use toys for newbies. Read our beginner's guides or ask our all-female, 100% human team for tailored advice. 

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  • Cupid 3 Curved Dildo
  • Sh! Waterproof Rabbit Vib...
  • Wirly 2 Slim Dildo
  • Sh! Lube Sample Kit
  • Rocks Off R0-80 Rainbow B...
  • Rocks Off RO-80 Silver Bu...
  • Sh! Small Silicone Butt Plug
  • Sh! LurveHeart Vibrating ...
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    My First Clit Cock Ring
  • Sh! Satin Bondage Ties
  • Beginners Butt Plug 1
  • Tenga Egg Silky
  • We-Vibe Tango X
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    We-Vibe Touch X
  • Slender Mini G-Spot Vibe
  • Flavoured Lube Sample Kit
  • Mini Rippled Purple Vibe
  • Screaming O Lipstick Vibr...
  • Rocks-Off Prism Rainbow B...
  • First Strap On Dildo Kit
  • Beaded Butt Plug 3 - Sh! Women's StoreBeaded Butt Plug 3 - Sh! Women's Store
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    Beaded Butt Plug 3
  • Ana Slim Flexible G-Spot ...
  • Pulse Mini Sucking Vibrator
  • Tenga Egg Wonder Ring

What's the Best First sex toy for you?

We recommend starting small, inexpensive and simple...

Beginner Sex Toys FAQ's

Buying a first sex toy can be exciting, but also intimidating (SO much choice!) If you've never tried a sex toy and are a complete beginner, we recommend something small and easy to use. For vulva-owners a bullet vibrator is a good first vibe. About the size of a finger, a bullet vibe is perfect to pleasure the clitoris (the epicentre of female orgasm) and slip just inside the opening of the vagina. For penis-owners, we recommend a Tenga Egg  - a fun mastabator which will add extra stimulation to hand-jobs.

What sex toys couple’s enjoy is multi-fold! but a finger vibe is a good all-round first sex toy for couples of all gender combinations, adding a thrilling buzz everywhere you touch. A vibrating cock ring is another good starter toy for adding hands-free clit stimulation during intercourse - and of course, the all-important bottle of water-based lube should be in your basket too!

Beginners to anal sex should start SMALL – the bum is an area where all sensations feel particularly magnified, believe us! Beginner’s Butt Plug might be the place to start, plus some (lots of!) anal lube, of course…

Buying your first stap-on should be all about excitement and pleasure, never about a too big dildo (the most usual mistake newbie’s make) First strap-on kit maybe the place to start...

Sex toys for beginners - Easy to use first sex toys - Sh! Women's Store

Buying Your First Sex Toy Advice

Do you feel overwhelmed by all the different types of sex toys available? Not quite sure where to start?

It's common for first-time buyers to feel bogged down by choice but follow our simple tips below to get started on your toy discovery.


If you are totally new to playing with toys, we recommend choosing a toy that suits the kind of pleasure you enjoy best. Or, if you want to discover a new kind of pleasure, choose a toy that is dedicated to that pleasure area.


If you particularly enjoy clitoral stimulation; if you've never had an orgasm, or if you find orgasms can be frustratingly hit-or-miss, a clitoral vibrator is the best first sex toy for you.

The majority of women buying their first sex toy at Sh! opt for clitoral vibrators.

Each of our vibrator pages has advice articles which will guide you through what to look for when choosing a particular style of vibrator...

Read more about buying your first sex toy...