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Dear Sh!
I was on top of my man last night and all of a sudden I was soaking. I was literally pouring over him, in fact it was him who said I may have had a female ejaculation. It happened twice and I didn't orgasm. I feel embarrassed... Is it possible to have female ejaculation but not orgasm?

Hi there,

Thanks for getting in touch!

You shouldn't feel embarrassed. Your man most likely loved every sexy, wet second of it! 

Female ejaculation without orgasm 

Yes, it is possible to experience female ejaculation or squirting without orgasm. Or - perhaps you did orgasm, but you didn't recognise it as such? That is another possibility. 

We're guessing there were a hella lot of sensations, so maybe tricky to separate whether there was an orgasm or not? Saying that; you know your body best, so if you feel that there wasn't an orgasm, there probably wasn't. 

When women are super-aroused, ejaculation or squirting can happen if there's lots of G-spot stimulation. Woman-on-top is a fantastic position for intense G-spot play, so this makes sense.

It can go from feeling a bit wetter than usual to being so damn creamy or wet that it's clear female ejaculation or squirting has happened. 

Don't be embarrassed - embrace your body's capabilities for pleasure!

Best Wishes, 
Team Sh! xx

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