Real Questions, Real Pleasure: Personalised Sex & Toy Advice

'Dear Sh! Team, My partner and I recently purchased the starter strap-on kit, and we found it was much harder to use than we anticipated, and it didn’t work the way...

'Hi Sh!, I'm a 31 year old male virgin. I masturbate every day, sometimes more than once. I really enjoy it, but can't seem to get rid of the slight...

Hey, so I don't really know if I have a problem, but I didn't know who to ask. I think I sext too much. Like I sext my SO when...

Dear Sh!  Sometimes my boyfriend's penis doesn't fit inside me. What is wrong? Hi there, Thanks for getting in touch!  It's not the first time we've had this question -...

Hi Sh!, I need some advice. My boyfriend found my vibrator and got really upset - he says using it is “basically cheating” and that I shouldn't need it if...

Hey Sh! You probably cannot answer this, but I thought I would ask. I have used a Cupid 6 dildo and rabbit vibrator and I have been using them for...

Hello, I wonder if you can help. I ordered a clit suction toy recently and have used it around half a dozen times, but I'm finding that in the couple...

'I am hoping you may be able to offer some advice. I have trouble making my girlfriend reach orgasm. She has been able to orgasm in the past, and I...

Hey Team,  Just a quick question. I've seen a toy that I really like the look of, but I'm unsure if it's suitable for me. I'm a man, and the...

  "Hi Sh! I want to buy my girlfriend a dildo, but I’m not sure what size to choose. My penis isn’t very big. She says she’s not into large...

"I feel like I get really horny during my period. I worry about having sex because of the mess but it’s so frustrating because it just feels like the time...

I’m still a virgin at 26. I have had bad experiences with sex before. Previously I’ve been burnt with guys but now I’ve found someone I really care about and...

My partner and I have a lot of fetishes around monsters and sci-fi scenarios. We like to enact her being ravaged by fantastic beasts and I enjoy simulating the sensations...

I'm in a long-distance relationship and my partner recently expressed an interest in me being 'rougher' when we next meet up. Like slap her ass hard and talk dirty and...

Hello there! I’m looking for a toy that I can use as a woman whilst on top during sex. I have never been able to orgasm from penetration alone. I...

"Hi Sh! I have a kind of deep problem. I can never feel totally comfortable while having sex with my partner, or myself. So I'm 20 and I've been with my...

Hello, I'm so glad I can ask for advice. I feel a little embarrassed and don't want to even tell my best friend. I recently ordered a dildo from your...

I am in my early 20’s and I have almost no sexual experience. I have a degenerative illness that means I use a wheelchair. I’ve heard some comments over the...

Hi Sh! OK, this may seem like the weirdest/dumbest question of all time, but is it ok to put things like fruit or chocolate in my vagina? I've played around...

Hi, I have a severe allergy to both latex and nickel, so I'm afraid to get sex toys that contain rubber or any type of metal. I am looking to buy some...

Dear Sh! I'm getting to know someone at the moment with romantic and sexual interest building on both sides. She confided in me that she has problems because as a...

Dear Sh! My partner wants me to be louder and more vocal in the bedroom. I think this is a bit embarrassing - I don't want anyone to hear! I feel...

Dear Sh! Please could you give me some advice on which is best toy for anal sex - a butt plug or a dildo? I'm kind of new to all this and...

Dear Sh! I'm looking for some advice on how to talk sexy to my long-distance partner over the phone. I'd love to try it but I'm a bit nervous about sounding...

Dear Sh! My new boyfriend, who is lovely, is a bit on the small side so I'm looking to find out how to increase my sensations during sex. I know...

"Dear Sh! I was in your shop a couple of weeks back and as a single man, I really appreciated that you let me in, and were patient enough to answer...

Hi Sh! My husband has a super-low sex drive, much lower than mine. Everything else is great but I'm getting frustrated. I'm in two minds about getting a sex toy....

Hello, I have MS, which gives me trouble with my hands and arms, and with no lovely partner to help me out, I'm decidedly frustrated! I've tried a Groovy Chick...

Hi Sh! I'm from Indonesia. I am very interested in women empowerment, especially in sexual empowerment. I'd been brainwashed by my family's custom and religion; leaving me sexually devastated cause I...

"I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I absolutely trust and am very attracted to. He was able to make me cum using his hands, but sex was...