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Sex & Sex Toy Q&A: Customer Advice.
Our sex and sex toy Q&As answer real questions from Sh! customers with expert, judgement-free advice — with identifying details changed for privacy.
From choosing the right sex toy to questions about pleasure, relationships and sexual wellbeing, explore honest answers and practical advice inspired by the things you really want to know.
Q&A: Using A Strap-On Is Harder Than Expected!
'Dear Sh! Team, My partner and I recently purchased the starter strap-on kit, and we found it was much harder to use than we anticipated,...
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Q&A: I Feel Guilty After Masturbating - Help?
'Hi Sh!, I'm a 31 year old male virgin. I masturbate every day, sometimes more than once. I really enjoy it, but can't seem...
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Q&A: How do I know if I'm sexting too much?
Hey, so I don't really know if I have a problem, but I didn't know who to ask. I think I sext too much....
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Q&A: His Penis Doesn't Fit Inside Me
Dear Sh! Sometimes my boyfriend's penis doesn't fit inside me. What is wrong? Hi there, Thanks for getting in touch! It's not the first...
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Q&A: Is Masturbation Cheating?
Hi Sh!, I need some advice. My boyfriend found my vibrator and got really upset - he says using it is “basically cheating” and...
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Sex Toy Advice: Can Dildos Stretch The Vagina?
Hey Sh! You probably cannot answer this, but I thought I would ask. I have used a Cupid 6 dildo and rabbit vibrator and...
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Q&A: How Can I Make My Girlfriend Orgasm?
'I am hoping you may be able to offer some advice. I have trouble making my girlfriend reach orgasm. She has been able to...
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Can Men Use Sex Toys For Women? Advice at Sh!
Hey Team, Just a quick question. I've seen a toy that I really like the look of, but I'm unsure if it's suitable for...
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Q&A: What Size Dildo Do Women Like?
"Hi Sh! I want to buy my girlfriend a dildo, but I’m not sure what size to choose. My penis isn’t very big. She...
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Q&A: Period Sex
"I feel like I get really horny during my period. I worry about having sex because of the mess but it’s so frustrating because...
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Q&A: I'm not sure if I want to have sex?
I’m still a virgin at 26. I have had bad experiences with sex before. Previously I’ve been burnt with guys but now I’ve found...
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Q&A - Cracking the Mystery: Is it Safe to Insert an Egg into the Anus?
My partner and I have a lot of fetishes around monsters and sci-fi scenarios. We like to enact her being ravaged by fantastic beasts,...
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Q&A: My partner wants rough sex
I'm in a long-distance relationship and my partner recently expressed an interest in me being 'rougher' when we next meet up. Like slap her...
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Q&A: Help! I want a toy to grind on during sex
Hello there! I’m looking for a toy that I can use as a woman whilst on top during sex. I have never been able...
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Q&A: I Feel Ashamed About Wanting Sex
"Hi Sh! I have a kind of deep problem. I can never feel totally comfortable while having sex with my partner, or myself. So I'm...
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Q&A: Is My Dildo Too big?
Hello, I'm so glad I can ask for advice. I feel a little embarrassed and don't want to even tell my best friend. I...
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Q&A: I want to have sex but I have a disability
I am in my early 20’s and I have almost no sexual experience. I have a degenerative illness that means I use a wheelchair....
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Q&A: Is it safe to put food in my vagina?
Hi Sh! OK, this may seem like the weirdest/dumbest question of all time, but is it ok to put things like fruit or chocolate...
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Q&A: Help I'm Allergic to Latex & Nickel - Some Safe Sex Toys Advice Please!
Hi, I have a severe allergy to both latex and nickel, so I'm afraid to get sex toys that contain rubber or any type of metal....
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Q&A: I'm worried about hurting my partner during sex
Dear Sh! I'm getting to know someone at the moment with romantic and sexual interest building on both sides. She confided in me that...
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Q&A: How to Have Loud Sex?
Dear Sh! My partner wants me to be louder and more vocal in the bedroom. I think this is a bit embarrassing - I don't...
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Q&A: Best Toy for Anal Sex: Butt Plug or Dildo?
Dear Sh! Please could you give me some advice on which is best toy for anal sex - a butt plug or a dildo? I'm kind...
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Q&A: How to Talk Sexy?
Dear Sh! I'm looking for some advice on how to talk sexy to my long-distance partner over the phone. I'd love to try it but...
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Q&A: My Boyfriend Is a Bit Small
Dear Sh! My new boyfriend, who is lovely, is a bit on the small side so I'm looking to find out how to increase...
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Q&A: How Common is Female Ejaculation?
"Dear Sh! I was in your shop a couple of weeks back and as a single man, I really appreciated that you let me in,...
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Is It Okay To Use Sex Toys If Your Partner Has A Low Sex Drive?
Hi Sh! My husband has a super-low sex drive, much lower than mine. Everything else is great but I'm getting frustrated. I'm in two...
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Q&A: Exploring Sex Toys with MS - Advice at Sh!
Hello, I have MS, which gives me trouble with my hands and arms, and with no lovely partner to help me out, I'm decidedly...
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Q&A: The Truth About Hymens & Sex
Hi Sh! I'm from Indonesia. I am very interested in women empowerment, especially in sexual empowerment. I'd been brainwashed by my family's custom and religion;...
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Q&A: Did sex hurt because I'm not attracted enough to men?
"I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I absolutely trust and am very attracted to. He was able to make me cum...
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