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Cotton Strap-Ons

Our collection of Cotton Strap-Ons chosen by women.

As strap-on designers, we know our stuff! Our unique range of UK made harness dildo-belts are all about style & comfort, and our currated strap-on kits make strapon shopping easy!  We also carry underwear-style harnesses, innovative strapless dildos & stimulating dildo bases, and have all the strapon advice & pegging guides you need for fabulous strapon sex!

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  • Rodeoh Strap On Pants
    £59.00
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Sh! Strap-Ons

Proudly designed by lesbians. Handmade in UK. Comfortable. Secure.

Strap-On FAQ's

A strap on is couples sex toy that allows one partner to penerate the other, leaving hands to explore elsewhere. Many people think strap-ons are for lesbians only and certainly they are a very popular lesbian sex toy.
But strap-ons also very popular with straight (penis/vulva) couples for Pegging, which when a woman/vulva-owner anally pentrates a man/penis-owner with a strapon. If you're looking to explore this, our Pegging Strap-On Kit might be for you!
Men/ penis-owners can also a strap-on for double pentration or to wear above his penis to provide penetration without an erection. Really! strapons are for everyone ;)

The best strap-on is the strap-on that will work best for you and your partner! We believe in tailored strap-ons; an adjustable harness , plus a dildo in a shape and size that offers the pleasure you want is the best strap-on for you :) Our Best Strap-On Kit is the most popular combo, but we're happy to help you find the combo that best suits you!

Choose your dildo, then add a harness. No matter how or who you play your strapon games with, an inch or so of the dildo length will be lost once it's in the harness. So account for this when choosing dildo length. The dildo needs to have a flared/wide base to keep it securely in the strapon.

The size of the dildo needs to be carefully considered. The anus is stretchy, but a too-large dildo could be painful, putting off receiving partner anal play, so starting with a slim dildo is always better, especially if you are both new to pegging. And don't forget the all-important bottle of anal lube!

All-in-one strapons, where the dildo is permanently fixed to a harness are impossible to clean properly. Plus, when it comes to strap-ons, like most things in life - one size does NOT fit all. By choosing an individual dildo and harness, you will always have the best strapon for you in both size and fit :)

Strapless Strap-Ons is a double dildo where the wearer grips the smaller, egg-shaped portion inside the vagina. The longer part of extends in front, ready to penetrate the partner vaginally or anally. Strapless are best for close intimate penetration or grinding together. They're impossible for wild thrusting - unless you slip them into a harness for added security.

Choose an adjustable strap-on if you want to share thrusting duties. It needs to fit the person with curvier hips. The slimmer partner tightens the straps when they want to be stapon-operator. With underwear style strapon partners need to be same clothing size.

Quick Guide:
- Spritz the dildo with sex toy cleaner
- Wipe clean your harness with a cloth dampened with soap & follow with dry cloth.
- Leave both to air dry before storing.
- Store in clean, fluff-free place (not air-tight)

Strap-On Pleasures

A dildo slipped into a harness creates a strapon - a toy with fabulous play potential for any couple who enjoy penetrative sex together...

Seen traditionally as a lesbian sex toy, since time vulva-vulva couples have understood the deeply connected, intimate pleasures of strap-on play.

But as more penis-owners discover prostate pleasure, more and more VP couples are coming to Sh! to buy a strap-on for pegging.

For the person being penetrated, the pleasures are clear - but what about the person wearing the strapon - what do they get out of it?

Apart from satisfying the penetrative cravings of your lover, with your hands free to please and tease elsewhere, that is...

WEARING A STRAP-ON AS A VULVA-OWNER:

Enjoy the friction of straps on clit as you thrust... or use a stimulating dildo base, a vibrating dildo or a dual tool (which adds a 2nd dildo to your harness for your pleasure) All could make you orgasm whilst you're thrusting away!

Explore fantasy role-play... and pretend you own a dick if you want to ;)

WEARING A STRAP-ON FOR PENIS-OWNERS:

Strapping on a dildo above your penis allows you to explore double pentration with a vulva-owning partner.

With a strap-on in your toy-box, you can let go of any erection worries or wobbles!

For penis-owners, we recommend 2-Strap Harness

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