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Strap-Ons
Strap-Ons Chosen or Handmade by Women...
As strap-on designers, we know our stuff. Created by lesbians (for everyone to enjoy!) and made in the UK, our unique strap on harnesses, available in leather and vegan pleather, are all about style and comfort for you and a secure fit for your dildo. We believe they are the best straps you can buy and our 5 star reviews back this up! Shopping for a whole strapon set? Our kits, which include a dildo, a harness, lube & toy cleaner, make strap-on shopping easy. We also carry underwear-style harnesses, innovative strapless dildos & stimulating dildo bases, & have all the strapon advice & pegging guides you need for fabulous strap on sex!
Strap-On FAQ's
A strap on is couples sex toy that allows one partner to penerate the other, leaving hands to explore elsewhere.
Many people think strap-ons are for lesbians only and certainly they are a very popular lesbian sex toy.
But strap-ons also very popular with straight (penis/vulva) couples for Pegging, which when a woman/vulva-owner anally pentrates a man/penis-owner with a strapon. If you're looking to explore this, our Pegging Strap-On Kit might be for you!
Men/ penis-owners can also a strap-on for double pentration or to wear above his penis to provide penetration without an erection. Really! strapons are for everyone ;)
The best strap-on is the strap-on that will work best for you and your partner! We believe in tailored strap-ons; an adjustable
Choose your dildo, then add a harness. No matter how or who you play your strapon games with, at least an inch or so of the dildo length will be lost once it's in the harness. So choose a slightly longer dildo than you would if you were using it handheld. The dildo needs to have a flared/wide base to keep it securely in the strapon.
The size of the dildo needs to be carefully considered. The anus is stretchy, but a too-large dildo could be painful, putting off receiving partner anal play, so starting with a slim dildo is always better, especially if you are both new to pegging. And don't forget the all-important bottle of anal lube!
All-in-one strapons, where the dildo is permanently fixed to a harness are impossible to clean properly. Plus, when it comes to strap-ons, like most things in life - one size does NOT fit all. By choosing an individual dildo and harness, you will always have the best option for you in both size and fit :)
A Strapless is a double dildo where the wearer grips the smaller, egg-shaped portion inside the vagina. The longer part of extends in front, ready to penetrate the partner vaginally or anally. Strapless are best for close intimate penetration or grinding together. They're impossible for wild thrusting - unless you slip them into a harness for added security.
Choose an adjustable strap-on if you want to share thrusting duties. It needs to fit the person with curvier hips. The slimmer partner tightens the straps when they want to be stapon-operator. With underwear style ones partners need to be same clothing size if they are going to share.
Quick Guide:
- Spritz the dildo with sex toy cleaner
- Wipe clean your harness with a cloth dampened with soap & follow with dry cloth.
- Leave both to air dry before storing.
- Store in clean, fluff-free place (not air-tight)
HOW TO PUT ON A Sh! STRAP-ON?
- First of all loosen all 4 straps, leaving about 3-5cm on the ends.
- Then - if you can wiggle the harness over your hips - step in like a pair of pants ( with the 2 back straps going between your legs)
- If you can't wiggle in, undo 1 of the front straps.
- Pull up the harness & adjust back straps so the back strap/panel sits on your lower back.
- Adjust the front straps evenly, so the front panel sits over your pubic area.
Sh! Strap Ons
Proudly designed by lesbians, our strap-ons are unique creations, each one lovingly handmade in our UK studio, using high quality materials & fittings - world's apart from mass-produced straps from far-flung factories!
Check out the different designs below, read each one's ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ reviews, & discover for yourself just how secure, comfortable & sensual your strap-on can really can be...
The pros (+) & cons (-) of each style of strap-on...
Why Strap?
A dildo slipped into a harness creates a 'strap-on' - a toy with fabulous play potential for any couple who enjoy penetrative sex together...
Seen traditionally as a lesbian sex toy, since time vulva-vulva couples have understood the deeply connected, intimate pleasures of strap-on play.
But as more penis-owners discover prostate pleasure, more and more vulva-penis couples are coming to Sh! to buy a strap-on for pegging.
For the person being penetrated, the pleasures are clear - but what about the person wearing the strapon - what do they get out of it?
Apart from satisfying the penetrative cravings of your lover, with your hands free to please and tease elsewhere, that is...
WEARING A STRAP-ON AS A VULVA-OWNER
Enjoy the friction of straps on clit as you thrust - for many it's enough to get them off during a strap-on session.
Or use a stimulating dildo base, a vibrating dildo or a dual tool (which adds a 2nd dildo to your harness for your pleasure) All will add extra sensations and could make orgasm easier whilst you're making your strap-moves...
Explore fantasy role-play... and pretend you own a dick if you want to ;)
WEARING A STRAP-ON FOR PENIS-OWNERS:
Strapping on a dildo above your penis allows you to explore double pentration with a vulva-owning partner.
With a strap-on in your toy-box, you can let go of any erection worries or wobbles!
For penis-owners, we recommend 2-Strap Harness
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