Dear Sh! I'm a man who's really interested in trying out pegging. Unfortunately, I'm living out of the UK and don't know anywhere here I can even buy a dildo, let alone get expert advice. Help!
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Pegging pleasure for prostate-owners
Pegging, where a woman dons a strap-on to anally pleasure her male lover, has become increasingly popular over the last few years. Around 45% of the strap-ons we sell at Sh! are for straight couples for this reason - and we're so excited to be witnessing this gender-bending pleasure revolution!
Men have an erogenous zone up their butts. The prostate gland is comparable to the female G-spot for its orgasmic capabilities.
Men are finally flinging off any inhibitions they may have held around anal sex. And their female partners are happily strapping on a dildo to help them explore the delicious sensations!
Pegging pleasure for vulva-owners
Apart from the emotional pleasure of pleasing their men, women can get plenty of physical stimulation from wearing a strap-on.
This can be whether it's simply the rubbing of straps on their clitoris, using a vibrating dildo which buzzes on the clit or even enjoying some extra penetration. This can be in the form of an extra dildo, attached to the harness by a dual dildo accessory, a clit-stimulating dildo base or using a strapless dildo.
Strapless dildos do need strong PC muscles to keep inside and can be limiting in terms of how much she can safely thrust (without it falling out), so if your partner is as new to pegging as you are, we would recommend she starts with a slim dildo, worn in a harness.
Choosing a Dildo for Pegging
Slimmer is usually better for an anal and pegging dildo; using a strap-on feels very different from fingers or a butt plug.
Popular anal dildos are: Cupid Dildos (slim with sensual curves) and Wirly Dildos (slim with ridges that are very stimulating to the highly sensitive anus).
The dildo may need to be longer than you think, as a couple of centimetres will be lost once it's in a harness. A slightly longer anal dildo is also good for pleasuring the prostate.
If this all sounds complicated, we've put together a pegging kit which includes everything your need for your first steps to pegging pleasure; our best selling pegging dildo and strap-on harness, along with anal lubricant and sex toy cleaner
Lube & Communication!
The key things for enjoyable pegging are lots of lube and great communication. We recommend Pure Plus lube for anal play - it’s thick, gel-like and stays slick for ages so ideal for any kind of anal play.
Like pretty much every sexual activity, good communication during your pegging experience is vital to making it sexy, sensual experience you both want to go back for more. We also suggest talking everything through beforehand – it’s a great idea to discuss what you’d both like from the experience.
Pegging Positions
A good pegging position for pleasuring your prostate is you on all fours and your partner approaching from behind.
As the prostate is found about a finger-length in and to the “front wall” (ie behind the penis), a good tip (if pegging from behind) is to turn the dildo so it's pointing down in the harness, with the curve of the dildo aiming at your prostate.
Another good pegging position is for the receptive partner on his back with knees pulled up. In this position, the dildo is worn in the more usual upturned position in the strap-on for a sure-fire prostate-hit!
We ship all over the world and regularly send out our famous pegging pleasure products with international postage. So now you know where you can buy yourself a dildo *wink*
Hope this helps!
Best Wishes
Team Sh! xx
