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Q&A: Pegging Dildo Too Big?

Dear Sh!

When we're both up for pegging, my girlfriend and I enjoy using a Twista dildo in our strap-on for a bit of pegging anal play. Even though we use loads of lube and take plenty of time, I'm getting the feeling that the dildo itself is a bit long for me. I suppose that she could thrust less deep, but I must admit that we both enjoy this aspect of pegging.

Are we doing anything wrong pegging-wise, or should we look for another anal dildo?

Hi there,

Thanks for getting in touch!

As you take your time, use plenty of anal lube and sound like you know what you’re doing, the issue is probably more with the size of the dildo than the pegging technique. 

Is A Shorter Dildo Better For Pegging?

As you'll be getting most of your pleasure from the stimulation of your prostate, the extra length of the Twista dildo is probably not doing much except being uncomfortable. You have obviously gotten used to a certain level of girth while pegging with the Twista, so you may not want to go too narrow. Take a look at our dildo range and go for a shorter but equally girthy alternative.

Best Dildos For Pegging

Slim dildos are most popular for pegging

These silicone dildos feature similar ridges that you enjoy from the Twista, but the shafts are a tad shorter. We recommend looking at Wirly 5 and Wirly 6 as these would give you maximum width, but a shorter shaft.

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G-Spot dildos have a curve for stimulating the prostate

The prostate is also known as the male G-spot, so it's no wonder that the curved shape of G-spot toys also work well for prostate stimulation. The only thing to be aware of is to ensure the dildo is positioned correctly in the strap-on so it pleasurably rubs against the prostate - whatever position you are being pegged in, make sure the dildo's curve is towards the front of your body.

Honey 3 could be a good size for you - check it out :) 

Honey silicone dildo in light blue and white marble

    Getting Your Anal Dildo Size Right

    Getting the right anal dildo size can be a bit of trial and error. It's better to start slightly smaller than you think, and then build up in size if you find you want a fuller feeling. Positing can also make a difference - try positions that doesn't allow your girlfriend to thrust the full length of the dildo in. Riding Cowboy could be a great one for you! wink

    We hope this helps!

    Best Wishes

    Team Sh! xx

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