'Hi, we are a lesbian couple looking for a vibrator that can be used with a harness to allow for some vigorous thrusting. We have a double dildo harness, and the receiver is very happy with the dildo we have, but the harness wearer wants to have a vibrator with clitoral stimulator. We have tried various things, but they do have a tendency to drop out at the wrong moment. Any suggestions of dildos or vibrators, or mix and match that might work? Thanks!'
Hey there,
Thanks so much for your email!
We’re not sure what you’ve already tried, but we have several options for you to consider.
Sh! Vibrating Dildos
We know you’re happy with your existing dildo, but if you’re open to buying another, you might consider something like a vibrating dildo. All our Sh! vibrating dildos have a perfect space for a Sh! vibrating bullet to slot into the base and fit flush with the heart-shaped base of the toy. This makes them super friendly for strap-on users. They are also handmade in our London workshop, so ethically made sex toys!
Bananapants Strap-On Dildo Base
A Bananapants strap-on dildo base is another excellent option. These dildo bases are soft and cute, and a couple of styles has space for a bullet vibe in the base, ensuring the wearer has thrilling vibrations plus something to grind against.
The vibrating bullet isn't included - you need to buy one separately, or use one that you already have. This size fits perfectly.
Panty Vibrator for Strap-On Harness Play
You could also try something like a panty vibe. A panty vibe sits snug against the labia under the harness for the wearer to enjoy. We recommend choosing one that's controlled via remote, so easy to increase the va-va-voom as you get into the thrusting!
C-Shaped Vibrators
There are also C-shaped vibrators that can be worn under strap-on harnesses, such as the We Vibe Sync Lite. These toys are designed to be worn during penetrative sex, so they sit flush against the body and stay in place, providing both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.
We hope this helps!
Love, Team Sh! xx
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