Anyone who's ever experienced an orgasm knows just how ruddy marvellous they are. Your heart races, your toes curl, and your breathing speeds up... The feeling builds in waves all over your body until you reach the point of climax, and intense pleasure and relief wash over you.
Yes, orgasms are fantastic, but have you ever wondered how it would feel to have more than one?
You might be keen to learn how to increase your chances of experiencing one (or more, coz let's be honest, once you've had one, you'll want to do it again!).
Either way, this short guide gives the info you need about multiple orgasms.
What Are Multiple Orgasms?
Multiple orgasms are when you experience more than one orgasm, either on your own or with a partner. They can be a sequence of orgasms one after the other or a series of orgasms with short breaks between. They can be brought on by clitoral stimulation or prolonged G-spot play - it depends on how your body receives pleasure.
There is almost no limit to how much pleasure a body can experience. The female body can produce numerous orgasms in a sex session, provided it gets the type of stimulation it really likes.
Can Everyone Experience Multiple Orgasms?
Orgasms are different for everybody. Some people find it hard enough to have one, never mind several! If this is you, learning more about your erogenous zones and spending time exploring what your body enjoys will help you inch closer to your first orgasm. Once you know how to orgasm more regularly, the multi-orgasmic world is your oyster!
There is no one technique or move that is better for orgasms or multiple orgasms. It totally depends on how you get off in the first place. We have listed our favourite clit techniques here, so take a look if you haven't yet experienced your first orgasm.
The clitoris often becomes too sensitive for touch after the first climax. Saying this, we know women & vulva owners who can experience multiples after powering through the uncomfortable over-stimulation. If you can handle it, you may have more than one treat waiting for you on the other side... Just ensure to use plenty of lube to avoid irritating the delicate skin.
A different approach to experiencing multiple orgasms is to play with your G-spot, as it tends to be far more able to take prolonged stimulation. Women & vulva owners who enjoy G-spot play are often better equipped for multiple orgasms as the G-spot doesn't become sensitive in the same way a clitoris does. In fact, the G-spot loves attention so much that it grows when you play with it!
G-spot stimulation is best when you are massively turned on. The more aroused you are, the more blood flows to the G-spot. This engorges the G-spot area, making it easier to stimulate this erogenous zone.
How To Become Multi-Orgasmic
Once you have mastered the art of having one orgasm - or maybe two - you can kick it up a notch and try for a third. Having the first one or two orgasms by clit stimulation is often the easiest way to start. After this, we recommend getting the G-spot involved and moving on to a blended orgasm.
A blended orgasm is a simultaneous clitoral & G-spot orgasm meshed into one powerful climax. Both erogenous zones need to be pleasured, and this can be done with any combination you enjoy. Two hands, a tongue + a hand, a penis + a toy, a hand + a penis... Figure out which combination gets you the hottest, and work with this.
Best Sex Toys For Multiple Orgasms?
Are you exploring orgasmic possibilities by yourself? If so, a rabbit vibrator is the perfect sex toy. Rabbit vibrators (also know as 'dual stimulators') feature a shaft and an external clit stimulator, and these two combined are known for offering toe-curling blended orgasms.
Rabbit vibe shafts often deliver exciting functions such as twirling, throbbing or thrusting while the bunny ears tease and tickle the clitoris. More often than not, you can set the intensity at levels that suit you. Spend time figuring out what feels best, and then choose these settings.
Once you have mastered the blended orgasm, it's time to practice G-spot orgasms only.
For G-spot play, you need to be super-turned on and tease yourself for up to an hour without orgasm. Take yourself almost there and then back off. Start again and then stop just before you climax. This stop-start technique is called edging and is fantastic if you want to increase the intensity of your orgasms.
To start with, you may want to include some clit play if this is how you orgasm most regularly. Over time, cut down on the time you stimulate your clitoris, second by second. By this, we mean; stop clit play just before orgasm but continue G-spot stimulation. Next time, stop clit play a couple of seconds before orgasm, but carry on G-spot play. Over time, this technique teaches your body how to switch into G-spot orgasm by cutting down on clit play.
Once you have mastered edging and G-spot orgasm (we know it's a lot of homework!), it's time to go for multiples.
After the first G-spot or blended orgasm, give yourself a few seconds to breathe before resuming firm stimulation of your G-spot. Glass toys or steel dildos are particularly fab for this, but any G-spot toy will work.
Once you've had a second orgasm, give yourself another few seconds to rest and then carry on for as many as you can!
What Does A Multiple Orgasm Feel Like?
This is subjective; it varies from person to person. One of our friends experiences each orgasm stronger than the last until a point where she almost passes out. (Jealous!) One of us experiences them weaker and weaker until they are almost just a blip in her fanny... The first one loves multiple orgasms. (Understandable!) The latter one prefers a single great orgasm over 3 or 4 weak ones.
They can be fantastic waves of continued pleasure or sharp peaks with dips between each. There is no right way to experience multiple orgasms - only how you experience them. Have fun exploring!
