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Top 6 Lesbian Sex Toys - Sh! Women's Store

Most sex toys bought by lesbians are purchased as a couple, primarily to play with and enjoy together, though, as is the case with most sex toys, many lesbian faves can be enjoyed for solo sessions as well.

Here are the Top 6 lesbian sex toys sold at Sh!

1. Lube: A True Lesbian Essential...

Lube is one of the best lesbian sex toys there is. We'd even say lube heads up our list of top lesbian sex toys by a mile! Lesbian sex is circular and can go on and on and on. Women can have multiple orgasms: Get two women together, and the possibilities are neverending!

However turned-on you are, nobody's natural juices can keep up with that kind of intensity, and that's why a bottle of good lube is standard fare beside most lesbian beds. Choosing the right lube for your bodies and any sex toys you play with is key to loving it. We find that our lesbian customers are probably the most in-tune-with-lube customer group we have.

A bottle of Pure lube


2. Strap-Ons: No Lesbian Fallacy!

A strap-on may be a stereotypical lesbian toy, beloved of porn films and 'who's the man?' jokes. But, in our experience, most lesbian couples enjoy strap-on play simply because it provides intimacy and thrilling penetration while leaving hands free for exploring elsewhere.

In our London studio, we hand-produce quality silicone dildos, soft leather harnesses to strap on and specially selected strap-on kits. We're proud to say our strap-ons have satisfied thousands of lesbian customers worldwide.

Strap-On Kit: Dildo, harness, Lube and toy cleaner in gift box


3. Strapless Dildos: New Lesbian Sex Toy on the Block!

Strapless dildos like Sh! Strapless Vibrating Dildo and Fun Factory Share are designed to give even more intimacy to strap-on sex by removing the need for a harness.

Strapless dildos were cautiously embraced by lesbian couples when they hit the shelves a few years back. At first, they received mixed reviews from gay girls. Some found using a strapless dildo tricky & frustrating, whilst other couples loved the intimacy and connection these sex toys provide.

The trick is to know how to use a strapless dildo and not to expect the same moves you can use with a regular strap-on. Strapless dildos are better for grinding together rather than thrusting. They are hot sex toys for leisurely, intimate lesbian sex.

Fun Factory Share strapless dildo in purple silicone

4. Extra Thrills for Lesbian Fingers 

Q: What three things do lesbians use most in bed? 

A: Their hands, their mouths and their imagination!

Manual play and cunnilingus are often the bedrock of lesbian sex. Choosing a finger vibrator for an extra buzz is a fun and inexpensive way to add playful new thrills to old favourites. Vibrators worn on a finger are a top 'add-on' purchase for lesbian couples.

A black finger vibrator with curved tip


 5. Non-Phallic Toys 

In our experience, most lesbian couples don't want overtly phallic-shaped dildos and vibrators. (No wonder; many lesbians have been told that they need a 'good man to sort them out') We don't stock 'realistic' sex toys, so most of our sex toys get the thumbs up from our lesbian customers.

Queen Dildo in gold and black


6. Double Dildos: Lesbian Penetrative Pleasure x 2!

Not quite as popular as mainstream lesbian porn films would have you believe, double dildos still make our top 6 lesbian sex toy list. The sex toy design revolution has moved them on from the old-school sex toys of yore.

Ideal for couples who both enjoy penetration and would like to enjoy it together, a double dildo is simply an extra-long dildo with a penetrative portion at each end. Once you learn how to use a double dildo, the mix of shared sensations and hot visuals can be a heady mix...

A bright pink double-ended vibrator


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