When it comes to spicing things up, lesbians know how to bring the fun. Most sex toys bought by lesbian couples are chosen as a shared adventure in pleasure, handpicked to enhance intimacy and turn up the heat between the sheets. But don’t be fooled - these deliciously versatile toys aren’t just for duos. Many double as solo-session superstars, perfect for a little “me time” magic.
Ready to discover what’s buzzing in the bedroom? Here are the Top 6 lesbian sex toys flying off the shelves at Sh!
1. Lube: A True Lesbian Essential.
Lube isn’t just a great addition to lesbian sex; it’s absolutely essential. In fact, we’d put lube right at the very top of our lesbian sex toy must-haves. Lesbian sex is beautifully circular, wonderfully endless, and full of possibilities. Two women together? Multiple orgasms? Yes, please!
But even the most turned-on bodies have their limits. Natural lubrication can only take you so far, especially during long, steamy sessions. That’s where a good bottle of lube steps in and works its magic. A quality lube makes everything smoother, more comfortable, and way more pleasurable, whether skin-to-skin or using toys.
At Sh!, we’ve noticed that our lesbian customers are some of the most lube-savvy shoppers around — and we love that! They know that choosing the right lube can make all the difference. So whether you’re exploring with a new partner, playing with toys, or want to take your pleasure to the next level, don’t skip the slip!
2. Extra Thrills for Lesbian Fingers
Manual play and cunnilingus are the delicious, time-honoured foundations of lesbian sex — endlessly versatile, deeply intimate, and oh-so-satisfying. They allow you to be fully present, creative, and connected.
But if you want to add a cheeky twist, let us whisper a little secret: finger vibrators. These small but mighty toys slip over a finger and add a gentle (or powerful!) buzz to every stroke, swirl, and tease. Whether exploring clitoral play, inner lips, nipples, or elsewhere, finger vibes are a brilliant way to level up your pleasure without interrupting the natural flow of touch.
Finger vibrators are one of our most-loved add-ons among lesbian couples. Affordable, playful, and perfect for spicing up play! Pair one with your favourite lube, turn on a sexy playlist, and see where your hands, mouth, and imagination take you next...
3. Strap-Ons: No Lesbian Fallacy!
At Sh!, we know from experience that many lesbian couples love strap-on play because it’s intimate, deeply connecting, and seriously hot.
Strap-ons offer the kind of versatile, hands-free pleasure that lets you explore every inch of your lover while delivering delicious, deep penetration. Whether you’re switching things up, exploring power dynamics, or just craving that full-bodied, rhythmic grind, a strap-on can be the perfect addition to your bedroom.
At our East London studio, we lovingly hand-make high-quality silicone dildos, supple leather harnesses, and specially curated strap-on kits designed with comfort, pleasure, and real bodies in mind. These aren’t mass-produced toys — they’re crafted with care, tested with passion, and adored by thousands of satisfied customers around the globe.
Whether you’re new to strap-on play or a total pro, we’re here to help you find the fit, feel, and fantasy that gets your hips moving.
4. Strapless Dildos: New Lesbian Sex Toy on the Block!
Strapless dildos like the Sh! Strapless Vibrating Dildo takes strap-on sex to a new level of closeness — no harness required. Just two bodies, intimately connected, moving as one. Strapless sex is a beautiful blend of giving and receiving simultaneously, and for some couples, a total game-changer.
When strapless dildos first hit the shelves, reviews were mixed. Some found them a bit awkward to get the hang of (strapless dildos require a bit of core strength and coordination). Others fell head-over-heels for the deeper intimacy and connection a strapless brings.
Here’s the secret: don’t treat a strapless like a traditional strap-on. Strapless dildos shine when used for grinding, rocking, and slow, sensual movement. They’re perfect for leisurely, body-to-body sex, where the focus is on closeness, rhythm, and pleasure rather than fast thrusting.
We recommend taking your time and playing around with positions that keep you close and supported — lying down, face to face, is a great place to start.
5. Non-Phallic Toys
We know that the majority of women and lesbian couples prefer toys that don’t mimic a penis (despite what porn may suggest). For our customers, the appeal of sex toys lies in the ability to celebrate pleasure on their terms.
Sh! dildos are hand-poured from silicone with smooth, body-friendly shapes and gentle curves. Just elegant, satisfying designs that hit the spot. Lesbian customers regularly tell us how much they love our range, which focuses on non-phallic, beautifully designed toys that look and feel great.
Here are our tips on how to choose your first dildo.
6. Double Dildos: Lesbian Penetrative Pleasure x 2!
Thanks to some thoughtful sex toy designs in recent years, double dildos have come a long way from the awkward double-enders of the past. Today’s versions are soft, flexible, body-safe, and beautifully shaped.
A double dildo is exactly what it sounds like: a toy with two insertable ends designed for simultaneous penetration. That means both partners can enjoy the fullness, rhythm, and deep connection of penetrative play. For couples where both partners love internal stimulation, it’s a total treat.
It takes a little practice to get the angles and positions just right, but once you find your rhythm, the shared sensations create an intimate, erotic experience. Whether you’re face-to-face, spooning, or getting creative with positions, double dildos are all about connection, closeness, and mutual pleasure. Check out our useful tips here.
Ready to Dive In? Let the Pleasure Begin...
Lesbian sex is beautifully creative, gloriously endless, and absolutely yours to define, whether flying solo or getting tangled up with a lover (or two). At Sh!, we believe that great sex toys are all about enhancing connection, deepening intimacy, and turning up pleasure in ways that feel just right for you.
From smooth, non-phallic dildos to buzz-worthy finger vibes, from hands-free strapless delights to double dildos that bring you closer than ever, our collection is packed with lesbian-approved favourites that celebrate desire and authentic connection.
