Looking for the best lesbian sex toys to spice up your bedroom adventures? You’re in the right place!
At Sh!, we’ve proudly championed pleasure for all lesbian and queer women since the very beginning. Whether you’re brand new to strap-on sex or a seasoned sapphic seductress, we’ve curated a list of our absolute favourites to help you play, explore, and connect. From clever strapless designs to powerful clit-loving options, these toys are tried, tested, and adored by our community.
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Best Bullet Vibrators For Lesbian Love
We are suckers for pretty things and if you are too, you'll want to take a look at the rainbow bullet vibes that tops the list of best toys for lesbian love-making.
The Rocks-Off RO-80 is a battery-operated classic - you just can't go wrong with one of these in your pocket or handbag. A single push-button controls 7 modes, which is plenty to get you where you want to go...
If you prefer something a little longer, the Chroma Rainbow Vibe is a winner. Enjoy 10 strong modes, powered by a rechargeable USB cable. As Chroma has a long, slim shaft, it can be enjoyed for penetrative pleasures too.
Best Harness For Lesbian Strap-On Sex
The Sh! Pride Corset-Back is a special edition strap-on leather harness that celebrates all things femme pleasure.
Handmade by our fabulous harness-maker here in London, the Pride Corset-Back is designed to look hot, feel comfortable, and securely hold a dildo during sweaty and sheet-tangling sex. Everything you want from a strap-on harness!
The harness is adjustable, so it will fit two lovers who like to take turns giving pleasure. The corsetting sits in the small of the back, with a cute rainbow rosette drawing attention to the curvature of hips and peachy-sweet ass.
"Aaah, the joys of a truly excellent harness. This is the first harness I've found that doesn't bite into my hips, and as a lady with curves, this is important to me. It's also unbelievably comfortable and probably one of the sexiest things I own. You will look great, you will feel great, and I should imagine that your partner of choice will be feeling pretty great too. This was a truly great investment and I cannot recommend it highly enough."
Best Silicone Dildos For Lesbian Lovers
We wouldn't be Britain's best LGBT-biz if we didn't stock a selection of fine dildos. We have the UK's biggest selection of hand-made silicone dildos, but for this list, we want to show off the proudest ones.
How about the cute Amor by Fun Factory? Standing firm at a modest 15cm, Amor is perfect for grinding or riding. We love the fun colours and the flat base that adheres to smooth surfaces.
If you prefer something longer, we have the Colours Pride Edition by Avant. With a sexy squiggle, this silicone babe is ready to rock your world. Enjoy it hand-held, in a strap-on harness or by sticking it to a chair!
Want to fly your lesbian flag even prouder than that? There is only one option: The Avant Lesbian Pride Suction Dildo! 5.5 inches long and 1.25 inches wide, this dildo is handcrafted by the artisans at Blush. Designed with a gentle upward curve for a better angle, this pink dil is fun & flirty :)
Best For Lesbian Strap-On Sex Without a Harness: Sh! Strapless Vibrating Dildo
Strapless dildos are designed for intimate strap-on style sex without a harness.
The Sh! Strapless Double Dildo is hand-poured by our team. The ergonomic design features an egg-shaped part that the wearer holds inside her vagina, plus a shaft which extends out to pleasure her partner.
Using a strapless dildo is a great workout for the giver's pelvic floor. She has to firmly grip the egg-shaped dildo with her vagina to keep it inside, and the squeezing can result in a climax as the flexing of muscles is key to G-spot orgasms!
Want an extra buzz? The vibrating version of the Sh! Strapless features a vibrating bullet slotted into the base so lovers can enjoy the thrill of subtle vibration together. And - the Sh! Strapless Dildo isn't just for lesbian sex. The slim shaft is also suitable for anal play, making this toy perfect for pegging!
"It's fantastic for when you both want to be pleasured at the same time, but also leaves both your hands free for other things!"
Best Strap-On Kit For Lesbians
We know it can feel overwhelming to pick out all the bits needed for satisfying strap-on sex, so it's no surprise that our dildo kits regularly top the bestseller list.
Our Sh! Best Strap-On Kit isn't cheap, but if you work out the price per orgasm, you'll see it's a sound investment :p In a classy gift box with a magnetic lid for dust-free sex toy storage, you'll find:
Sh! Double-strap leather harness
Sh! Cupid 3 silicone dildo
Sh! Water-based lube
Sh! Sex toy cleaner
"This box is a great way to get started and has all the basics you need to get going at a decent discount to buying all the items separately. The harness is really comfortable, soft against the skin, so it doesn't rub, and it adjusts very easily to get the right fit. The dildo is great for a beginner as it is a reasonable size without being intimidating. My girlfriend and I both love this kit and think it is well worth the price."
Paddle With Pride
Handmade with love in our London studio, this Sh! Spanker is a cheeky gift for someone who loves a little (or a lot) of lesbian power play.
The Sh! Pride Paddle is 12 inches long, with a 5 x 4 inches wide whup for stingy slaps on a bare bottom. The decorative heart looks as good as it feels, making this gorgeous spanker eye-catching enough to hang with pride in your boudoir.
If you want to go all out and create the lesbian scene of your kinky fantasies, why not team the Pride Paddle with a pair of handmade satin ties?
These luxury satin ties are versatile and easy to use. Wrap the silky ties around your willing captive's wrists, threading the loose ends through both D-rings and doubling back to secure. You can then tie your partner to a bed or over a chair to ensure they remain in place throughout your spanking session...
Best for a Fun Way to Spice Things Up: Lesbian Sex Card Game
Looking to spice things up without breaking the bank? The Lesbian Sex Card Game is a pocket-sized adventure packed with sexy inspiration. With cute illustrations and a mix of positions and sexy scenarios - ranging from mild to wild - this game is perfect for discovering new ways to play together.
Pick a few cards to build your ideal scene, then act it out! With hundreds of possible combinations, even the most experienced lovers are bound to find something new to try.
Ready to play?
Whether you’re exploring for the first time or levelling up your love life, these hand-picked favourites are designed to help you connect, experiment, and most importantly - feel amazing. At Sh!, we believe everyone deserves pleasure that’s joyful, empowering and totally on your terms.
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