Hey Sh!
My partner gets really turned on whenever we do anal stuff. We work for the same company (different departments), and my partner fantasizes about me wearing a butt plug to work. Only we would know about this.
It feels sexy to think about it, and I'd like to make this fantasy come true. Is it safe to wear a butt plug all day? (I don't want to sh*t myself!) Thank you x
Hey yourself!
Thanks for getting in touch :)
Fantasies are hot, and it can be life-long wank-bank material to live them out - as long as it turns you on too.
SEX TOYS AT WORK
Playing with a sex toy at work may seem like a hotter-than-hell idea, but beware that it could get you in trouble. Your HR department will probably frown upon sex toy use during work hours. What they don't know won't hurt them (as the saying goes), but take a moment to consider the implications.
A lightweight plug can pop out on its own. This is not unusual. This will be even more likely if you are moving around a lot. Wearing a pair of tight pants/panties helps keep the plug in place and avoid embarrassing 'plop' moments. You may want to wear a pair of period pants or a thin period pad in case of leakage.
Not going to the toilet first can result in some unsavoury mess to deal with once the plug comes out. Presumably, you don't want to deal with this at work, so make sure you go to the loo before inserting your plug. Pop some wet wipes in your work bag, just in case. Better safe than sorry!
HOW LONG CAN I WEAR A BUTT PLUG FOR?
We don't recommend wearing your butt plug all day long. It's trickier than it sounds and more taxing for the body than you might imagine. Prolonged wear can cause microscopic tears in the anal tissue.
Advice differs, but ultimately, let your ass be in charge of the butt plug wear. If you experience any discomfort or bleeding, remove the plug and give your bottom a break.
START BY WEARING YOUR BUTT PLUG AT HOME
Wearing a butt plug for an extended period is something you'll need to work up to.
Wearing a small butt plug around the house when you are just pottering about is a good start. Cooking dinner or doing laundry with an anal plug in place will give you an idea of how it feels to be so acutely aware of your butt.
Start by wearing a small plug for a few minutes, and once that gets comfortable, increase the wear time to 10 minutes and so on. Your butt may feel a bit achy afterwards, so give it plenty of rest between training sessions.
USE LUBE FOR SAFE AND COMFORTABLE ANAL PLAY
Anal lube is essential. Coat your chosen plug-in lube before inserting, and bring a small bottle of lube with you. You'll likely need to 'top up' to ensure your bum feels comfortable.
Remove the plug during bathroom breaks (you don't want to get pee on the base), and lube up before reinserting. Ensure the is no bleeding, in which case play is over.
BUTT PLUG SAFETY
You don't mention what kind of work you do, but you want to consider sitting, standing and walking with the plug in place and then choosing wisely. Make sure to choose a size that feels comfortable for your body. We recommend sizing down rather than up, as a smaller plug will feel more comfortable for prolonged play.
Make sure your plug has a safe base. As you plan to wear it to work, you may want to opt for one with an anchor-style base. This style butt plug sits comfortably between your butt cheeks, providing safety and comfort.
Prolonged wear can cause tissue damage and increase the risk of yeast and bacterial infections. It can also cause inflammation or swelling around the sphincter. This can make removal tricky (ouch!) or cause anal fissures or haemorrhoids.
You need to (gently) remove the plug and seek medical advice if you notice any burning, itching, discharge or anal bleeding.
Always give your body plenty of time to recover between butt sessions.
BUTT PLUG FUN FOR COUPLES
Remote control sex toys lend themselves to couples' play. One of you gets to enjoy the toy, and the other controls the pleasure - it's a win-win!
For this particular scenario, We-Vibe Ditto would be a super-exciting toy for you both to enjoy. You both work in the same building, so you might spend break time together? If so, your partner will get the tremendous joy of watching you trying to keep your composure while they play with their 'phone' (the app control to We-Vibe Ditto!).
YOUR ASS WILL APPRECIATE SOME AFTERCARE
Your partner may be gagging to get at your ass after having their fantasy come true, but they need to wait.
Your muscles will probably feel tired or constrained after prolonged butt plug wear, so show your butt some love after the long day. Run a warm bath, sprinkle in some Epsom salt, step in and relax...
Avoid any kind of anal play until your bottom feels peachy again.
CONSENSUS ON ALL-DAY BUTT PLUG PLAY
We get that it seems super-sexy to wear a butt plug all day - but... It isn't something we'd recommend. Instead, how about wearing it during break times only? Your partner gets their thrill, and your butt remains happy and fissure-free :)
Best Wishes,
Team Sh! xx
