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Discover your perfect first sex toy. We've curated a selection of our best non-intimidating, easy-to-use toys for newbies. Read our beginner's guides or ask our all-female (100% human!) team for tailored advice.
Buying a first sex toy can be exciting, but also intimidating (SO much choice!) If you've never tried a sex toy and are a complete beginner, we recommend something small and easy to use. For vulva-owners a bullet vibrator is a good first vibe. About the size of a finger, a bullet vibe is perfect to pleasure the clitoris (the epicentre of female orgasm) and slip just inside the opening of the vagina. For penis-owners, we recommend a Tenga Egg - a fun mastabator which will add extra stimulation to hand-jobs.
What sex toys couple’s enjoy is multi-fold! but a finger vibe is a good all-round first sex toy for couples of all gender combinations, adding a thrilling buzz everywhere you touch. A vibrating cock ring is another good starter toy for adding hands-free clit stimulation during intercourse - and of course, the all-important bottle of water-based lube should be in your basket too!
Beginners to anal sex should start SMALL – the bum is an area where all sensations feel particularly magnified, believe us! Beginner’s Butt Plug might be the place to start, plus some (lots of!) anal lube, of course…
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Feeling confused by all the different sex toys out there? That’s totally normal. If you’re buying your first toy, the amount of choice can feel overwhelming, but getting started is actually simpler than it seems.
A good first step is to stick with what feels familiar.
If you’ve never used a toy before, choosing something that matches the kind of stimulation you already enjoy can help you feel more confident. You don’t need anything complicated- simple designs are often the easiest and most enjoyable for beginners.
Ask yourself: what do I like, or what am I curious about trying?
For most clit-owners, clitoral stimulation is the best place to start. If you’ve never had an orgasm, or if they’re sometimes hard to reach, a clitoral vibrator is a good first toy because it’s easy to use and focuses on the kind of pleasure that most women need to orgasm.
Our beginner guides cover all different aspects of choosing a first sex toy to help you choose something that feels right for you - no expert knowledge required!
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