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Discover sex toys chosen by our lesbian-founded team, backed by over 30 years of pleasure expertise. Explore strap-ons, dildos, vibrators, double dildos and exclusive UK-made designs for sharing pleasure, intimacy and connection - however you like to play.

Discover lesbian sex toys, including strap-ons, dildos, vibrators and exclusive UK-made designs, thoughtfully chosen by a lesbian-founded team since 1992.

MADE FOR SHARING UK HANDMADE EXCLUSIVE DESIGNS
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UK Made Lesbian Sex Toys

As a proud LGBT business, we specialize in lesbian sex toys! Our products are enjoyed by all genders & sexualities, but we've gathered the best toys for WLW couples & vulva-to-vulva pleasure that our lesbian customers & friends love. Check out our top picks & explore our lesbian sex & toy guides to learn more...

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    £39.00
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  • Cupid 2 Curved Silicone Dildo
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  • Duchess Dildo
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  • Cupid 6 Curved Silicone Dildo
    £65.00
  • Thigh Strap On Harness
    £45.00
  • Thong Strap-On Dildo Harness
    £39.00
  • Cupid 3 Curved Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £59.00
  • Dual Dildo Strap-On Holder
    £20.00
  • Twista 2 Long Spiral Dildo
    £65.00
  • Wirly 3 Slim Dildo
    £45.00
  • Wirly 6 Slim Dildo
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  • Double Dildo Strap Connector
    £15.00
  • Honey 3 G-Spot Dildo
    £59.00
  • Cupid 2 Curved Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £45.00
  • Sh! Strapless Double Dildo
    £69.00
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Quick Guide

Lesbian Sex Toy Guide

Not sure where to start? Here's our friendly guide to finding toys you'll love, whether you're buying for yourself or exploring together.

Everything you need to know Choosing & Using Lesbian Sex Toys
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WHICH TOY IS RIGHT FOR YOU?

The right toy depends on the experience you want, not the biggest product. Here's a simple place to start:

  • Clitoral orgasms → Choose a bullet, suction toy or wand.
  • Penetration → Choose a silicone dildo.
  • Shared penetration → Try a double dildo.
  • Hands-free penetration → Explore strap-ons or strapless dildos.
  • Extra sensation together → Add a finger vibrator or couples' vibrator.
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BUYING YOUR FIRST SEX TOY

You don't need the biggest toy to have the most fun. Many people begin with a slim dildo, bullet vibrator or beginner strap-on kit before discovering what they enjoy most.

  • Start with a size that feels comfortable.
  • Simple toys are often the easiest to love.
  • You can always explore more later.
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CHOOSING THE RIGHT DILDO

Length isn't everything - girth and shape make just as much difference.

  • Slim → Great for beginners.
  • Curved → Targets the G-spot.
  • Fuller → A more filling sensation.
  • Double-ended → Shared penetration.
  • Harness-compatible → Ideal for strap-on play.
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CHOOSING THE RIGHT VIBRATOR

Different vibrators create very different sensations.

  • Bullet → Small, precise, strong stimulation.
  • Suction toy → Air-pulse stimulation without direct vibration.
  • Wand → Powerful, broad stimulation.
  • Finger vibrator → Enhances touch during partnered play.
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CHOOSING THE RIGHT HARNESS

The best harness is the one that feels secure, comfortable and suits the way you like to play.

  • Adjustable harnesses are the most versatile and ideal for beginners.
  • Underwear-style harnesses are quick and easy to wear.
  • Leather harnesses mould to your body over time and offer excellent support.
  • Choose your dildo first, then match the harness to the dildo's base size.
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DOUBLE OR STRAPLESS DILDO?

Both are designed for shared pleasure, but they create very different experiences.

  • Double Dildo → Flexible, easy to share and available in a range of lengths and widths.
  • Strapless Dildo → Worn internally by one partner while penetrating the other. Offers hands-free play but usually requires stronger pelvic floor muscles and a little practice.
  • Not sure? Most couples find a traditional double dildo easier to start with.
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LESBIAN SEX GUIDE

First-Time Lesbian Sex Advice

Wondering what lesbian sex is really like? Learn about oral sex, fingering, toys, lubricant, safer sex, positions and pleasure in our comprehensive guide, written by the lesbian-founded team at Sh!

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Lesbian Sex Toys, Explained

Explore different types of lesbian sex toys and find the right choice for your body, your partner and the way you like to play.

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Strap-Ons & Harnesses

Explore handmade harnesses, body-safe dildos and beginner-friendly kits designed by lesbians for comfortable, confident strap-on play.

BEGINNER KITS UK HANDMADE EXCLUSIVE DESIGNS
Dildos

Dildos

Explore our collection of body-safe silicone dildos, from slim beginner-friendly styles to fuller designs, including many exclusive UK-made creations handcrafted by Sh!.

BODY-SAFE SILICONE UK Handmade UK-MADE DESIGNS
Strapless Dildos

Strapless Dildos

Enjoy hands-free pleasure with strapless dildos designed for shared penetration. Worn internally by one partner while penetrating the other, they offer a unique way to explore intimacy together.

Shared Pleasure Hands-Free Play Body-Safe Silicone
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Double Dildos

Enjoy shared penetration with flexible double-ended dildos designed for pleasure together.

Shared Play Body-Safe Flexible
Vibrators

Vibrators

From discreet bullets to powerful wands, discover vibrators for solo pleasure or partnered intimacy.

Clitoral Powerful Partner Play
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Clitoral Vibrators

Enjoy them on their own or alongside oral sex, strap-on play, manual stimulation or any kind of partnered intimacy.

Suction Bullets Targeted Stimulation
Finger Vibrators

Finger Vibrators

Slip on a finger vibrator to add hands-free vibration while touching, teasing or exploring together. Small, discreet and perfect for shared pleasure.

Hands-Free Partner Play Discreet
Lube

Lube

A lesbian bedside essential.

Because sometimes the best play lasts all weekend.

Water-Based Body-Safe Essential
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Beginner Favourites

New to sex toys? Start with easy-to-use toys chosen to help you discover what feels good, together or solo.

East To Use First Toy EXPERTLY CHOSEN

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What Makes Our Lesbian Sex Toys Different

Chosen by a lesbian-founded team with over 30 years of expertise, our collection celebrates pleasure, intimacy and connection with body-safe toys we genuinely love and trust.

LESBIAN-FOUNDED

Chosen by lesbians, for lesbians and everyone who loves vulva-owning partners. Real experience shapes every collection.

BODY-SAFE ONLY

Every toy is made from body-safe materials, including premium silicone, so you can explore with confidence.

EXCLUSIVE UK DESIGNS

Discover exclusive Sh! dildos, harnesses and handmade creations you won't find anywhere else.

HONEST EXPERT ADVICE

No awkward sales talk. Just friendly, judgement-free guidance to help you find the toys that are right for you.

GOOD TO KNOW

Lesbian Sex Toy Questions, Answered

What people ask us about lesbian sex toys.

Which sex toys are best for lesbian couples?

Popular choices include strap-ons, double dildos, clitoral vibrators, finger vibrators and wand massagers. Some couples enjoy exploring penetration, while others focus on external stimulation or combining different toys. The best choice is the one that suits the kind of pleasure you enjoy together.

What are the best lesbian sex toys for beginners?

There's no single 'best' toy - it depends on what you'd like to explore. Many people start with a bullet vibrator, slim silicone dildo or beginner-friendly strap-on kit. If you're shopping together, finger vibrators and double dildos can also be a fun way to discover new sensations at your own pace.

How do I choose the right lesbian sex toy?

Start by thinking about the kind of pleasure you're looking for. Clitoral vibrators are great for external stimulation, dildos offer penetrative play, while strap-ons and double dildos are designed for shared experiences. Our buying guide can help you find the right toy for the kind of pleasure you are seeking and the way you like to play.

Are these toys only for lesbians?

Not at all. This collection has been curated with lesbian and vulva-owning partners in mind, but anyone can enjoy these toys. Pleasure isn't limited by identity, and everyone is welcome at Sh!.

Are your lesbian sex toys body-safe?

Yes. We carefully choose body-safe products made from materials such as premium silicone, and many of our own exclusive dildos and harnesses are handmade in our UK workshop. We avoid porous materials wherever possible and provide care advice to help your toys last.

Do we need lubricant with sex toys?

We recommend using a good-quality water-based lubricant with all silicone toys. Lubricant helps toys glide more comfortably, can enhance sensation and is compatible with every toy in our collection.

Can we use more than one toy together?

Absolutely. Many people combine toys to create different sensations - for example, using a clitoral vibrator alongside a dildo or strap-on, or adding a finger vibrator during partnered play. There are no rules; the best combination is whatever feels good for you.

Why buy lesbian sex toys from Sh!?

Sh! has been lesbian-founded and women-owned since 1992. We combine over 30 years of expertise with honest, judgement-free advice, body-safe products and exclusive UK-made designs to help you shop with confidence.

Tips & Advice

Lesbian Sex Toy Hub

Explore expert guides to help you choose the right toys for WLW, discover new ways to play, and enjoy more pleasure together.

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Best Lesbian Sex Toys

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