Women's Sex Toys CLITORAL • INTERNAL • SUCTION • MORE

Start with what you already enjoy — or what you'd like to explore. Think sensation first, toy type second.

• Clitoral stimulation → Explore clitoral vibrators & suction toys
• Internal pleasure → Try vibrators or dildos
• Internal + clitoral → Explore rabbit vibrators
• G-spot stimulation → Look for curved G-spot vibrators or dildos.
• Anal pleasure → Choose a purpose-designed anal sex toy
• Partner play → Explore couples' toys, lesbian toys or strap-ons
• Sh! tip → There is no universally "best" sex toy. The best one is the one that suits your body and the sensations you enjoy.

For penetrative toys, bigger isn't automatically better. Choose what feels comfortable and pleasurable for your body.

• First penetrative toy? → If you're unsure of your preferred size, a slimmer toy can feel less intimidating and gives you an easier starting point.
• Know what you like? → Use our size filters to narrow your options.
• Slim → Gentle and beginner-friendly, or simply for those who prefer a slimmer feel.
• Mid → More presence and fullness without going too large.
• Ample → For those who enjoy a fuller, more substantial sensation.
• Not sure? → Think about what already feels comfortable — fingers, a toy or a partner can be a useful guide.
• Sh! tip → Check insertable length and diameter, not just overall size. Size is preference, not progression — there's no need to size up unless you want to.
  

There's no single "correct" way. Start slowly, use lube and let your body lead.

• First time? → Treat it as an experiment. Try different positions, pressures and settings - discovering what you don't enjoy helps you find what you do.
• Vibes → Try your vibe over underwear first, tease around sensitive areas rather than heading straight for the obvious spot, experiment with different speeds and pressures.
• Insertable toys → Add lube and take your time - get really aroused before 'going in'
• Anal play → only use toys specifically designed to be anal-safe.
• Sh! tip → A sex toy isn't a performance test. If something doesn't feel good, change it, move it or stop. Your pleasure gets the deciding vote.

The biggest difference is simple: do you want vibration?

A vibrator adds buzzing, rumbly or pulsing stimulation and can be used externally, internally or both, depending on its design.

A dildo puts the focus on penetration, pressure, movement, shape and fullness, although some Sh! dildos vibrate too.

• Love vibration? → Explore Vibrators
• Prefer pressure & movement? → Explore Dildos
• Not sure? → There's no rule saying you have to choose just one, or turn on your vibrator if you just want movement/ fullness at the time.

More powerful doesn't necessarily mean more pleasurable. Some bodies adore deep, rumbly vibration; others prefer something softer and more subtle.

• New to vibrators? → Look for multiple intensity levels so you can start gently and experiment.
• Love strong stimulation? → Explore our powerful vibrators.
• Prefer something pinpointed? → Smaller clitoral toys can concentrate sensation exactly where you want it.
• Sh! tip → Start low. You can always turn things up.

Different materials can change how a toy feels and how vibrations travel through it.

• Silicone → Smooth and sensual. Soft to the touch, with a little give for comfortable penetration.
• Plastic → Firm and lightweight. It absorbs less vibration than softer materials, so vibrations can feel stronger and more direct.
• Glass → Hard, ultra-smooth and weighty, giving firm, precise pressure during penetration. Great for temperature play too.
• Metal → Firm, smooth and satisfyingly weighty for deep, focused pressure. It can also be warmed or cooled for temperature play.
• Sh! tip → For penetration, think about firmness as well as size - a hard glass or metal toy can feel more intense than a similarly sized silicone one.

A little lube can make a big difference to comfort and sensation.

• Water-based lube → The easiest all-round choice and suitable for virtually all sex toys.
• Silicone lube → Super-slippery and long-lasting, but generally not advisable to use with silicone toys.
• Anal play → Use plenty of anal lube. The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so added lubrication is essential for comfortable play.
• Sh! tip → If you're unsure, reach for a good water-based lube.

Clean toys before and after use, with warm water & mild soap or sex toy cleaner.

• Waterproof vibrators are the easiest to clean.
• Let toys dry completely before storing them somewhere clean and dry, away from other toys & direct heat.
• If you're sharing toys between partners or body areas, use a fresh condom/barrier or thoroughly clean the toy before switching.
• Sh! tip → Never move a toy directly from anus to vagina without cleaning it or changing the barrier first.