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Sh! Strap-On Dildos UK-Made • Platinum Silicone • Since 1993

Hand-Poured. Uniquely Sh!

Discover Sh!’s original strap-on dildos, designed and hand-poured in our UK studio. We’ve been making our own silicone dildos since 1993, with 30+ sizes, shapes and textures created for different bodies, preferences and experience levels.

Hand-poured in our UK studio since 1993. Discover Sh! silicone strap-on dildos in 30+ sizes, shapes and textures, from beginner-friendly to bolder designs.

BODY-SAFE • 30+ SIZES & STYLES • BEGINNER TO BOLDER
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Shop Sh!’s original UK-made strap-on dildos, hand-poured since 1993 in 30+ sizes, shapes and styles.

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  • Wirly 6 Slim Vibrating Dildo
    £65.00
  • Wirly 4 Slim Dildo
    £30.00
  • Sh! Vibrating Strapless Dildo
    £79.00
  • Wirly 5 Slim Vibrating Dildo
    £55.00
  • Wirly 3 Slim Vibrating Dildo
    £55.00
  • Twista 3 Wide Spiral Dildo
    £69.00
  • Twista 2 Long Vibrating Dildo
    £79.00
  • Duchess Vibrating Dildo
    £59.00
  • Twista 4 Spiral Super Dildo
    £89.00
  • Mistress Wirly Extra Long Dildo
    £69.00
  • Cupid 4 Curved Silicone Dildo
    £29.00
  • Honey 3 Vibrating G-Spot Dildo
    £69.00
  • Honey 2 Vibrating G-Spot Dildo
    £55.00
  • Honey 6 Vibrating G-Spot Dildo
    £89.00
  • Cupid 5 Curved Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £49.00
  • Wirly 4 Slim Vibrating Dildo
    £45.00
  • Mistress Cupid Extra Large Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £105.00
  • Twista 3 Wide Vibrating Dildo
    £79.00
  • Queen Clit Dildo
    £55.00
  • Honey 1 Vibrating G-Spot Dildo
    £49.00
  • Princess Clit Dildo
    £45.00
  • Honey 5 Vibrating G-Spot Dildo
    £69.00

QUICK GUIDE

Strap-On Dildo Guide

Choosing a strap-on dildo is about more than size. Think about who’ll be wearing it, who’ll be receiving it, the kind of stimulation you enjoy and the harness you’re pairing it with.

Everything you Need To Know Choosing & Using Strap-On Dildos
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WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM YOUR STRAP-ON DILDO?

Before getting into measurements, think about how you actually want to use it.

  • Who’s it for? → Yourself, your partner, or something you’ll swap and share?
  • Size preferences → Are you both happy with the same length and girth?
  • Targeted stimulation → A curved shape can be great for G-spot or prostate-focused play.
  • Vibrating or regular? → Choose extra buzz or keep things beautifully simple.
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WHAT SIZE FOR VAGINAL STRAP-ON PLAY?

When choosing a dildo for vaginal penetration, width is the measurement to pay closest attention to. Depth can be controlled during play; girth can't.

A useful guide is how many fingers feel comfortably pleasurable when fully aroused:

  • Slim 1–2 fingers → Gentler penetration and a good starting size.
  • Mid-size 2–3 fingers → More fullness without going super-wide.
  • Ample/Wide 3+ fingers → For those who already know they enjoy plenty of girth.

If straight dildos tend to bump the cervix uncomfortably, try a rounded tip or gentle curve instead.

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WHAT SIZE FOR ANAL & PEGGING PLAY?

For anal strap-on play and pegging, width matters even more — particularly if you're new to it.

There should be no need to push through pain. The internal anal sphincter isn't under voluntary control, so plenty of pleasurable warm-up, relaxation and lube are important.

  • New to pegging? → Start with a Slim (1–2 Fingers) dildo and build from there if you want to.

And don't overlook texture: the anus is rich in sensitive nerve endings, so subtle ribbing can make movement noticeably more stimulating.

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WHICH SHAPE IS RIGHT FOR YOU?

Shape can completely change how a strap-on dildo feels.

  • Straight → Simple, versatile penetration.
  • Curved → Designed to help target the G-spot or prostate.
  • Rounded tip → A gentler option if cervical contact feels uncomfortable.
  • Ribbed/textured → Adds extra sensation with movement.
  • Fuller shapes → For anyone who actively enjoys more stretch and fullness.

There isn't one "best" shape — it's about what feels good for the person receiving it.

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REGULAR OR VIBRATING DILDO?

Sometimes you want penetration. Sometimes you want penetration with a buzz.

  • A regular dildo keeps things simple, lighter and completely controlled by your movement.
  • A vibrating dildo adds extra stimulation that can be enjoyed by the receiving partner — and depending on the dildo and harness, some vibration may be felt by the wearer too.

At Sh!, most of our UK-made silicone dildo shapes are available in both regular and vibrating versions.

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WHICH HARNESS WILL IT FIT?

Your harness can affect which dildo works best, so check both O-ring diameter and dildo dimensions before pairing them.

  • Hip-worn harnesses → Curvier tums and bums can reduce usable dildo length, so a slightly longer dildo may give you more room for movement.
  • Panel harnesses → With styles such as the 2-Strap, Super and Corset, some dildo length sits between the body and harness panel.
  • Fabric harnesses → Best paired with lighter, smaller-to-medium dildos rather than particularly long or heavy designs.
  • Thigh strap-ons → Let you use the dildo's full length. Sh! thigh harnesses with a fixed O-ring are best suited to dildos around 1.5 inches diameter or less.
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Crafted with Care, since 1993

UK Made Strap-On Dildos for Everyone.

We started making our own silicone dildos in 1993 because, quite frankly, the options back then were awful.

More than 30 years later, Sh! dildos are still individually hand-poured in our UK studio using high-quality, body-safe silicone. From slender and gently curved to deliciously substantial, our original shapes are designed around different bodies, preferences and ways to play.

Women-owned Expert advice 30+ Years Experience

Compare the Styles

Strap-On Dildo Designs, Explained

Meet our six signature dildo styles, from slim and gently curved to seriously substantial.

Cupid 3 Curved Silicone Dildo - Sh! Women's Store

Cupid Dildos

A much-loved Sh! classic, Cupid has a gently curved shaft with a fuller shape towards the base. Hand-poured in our UK studio from body-safe silicone, it’s a versatile choice for anyone looking for a smooth, satisfying strap-on dildo with a little extra shape.

CURVED SHAFT GENTLE FULLNESS EASY ENTRY
Wirly Dildos

Wirly Dildos

Slim and subtly ribbed, Wirly is all about sensation without extra girth. Its slender shape makes it a great choice if you prefer slimmer toys, and particularly versatile for strap-on, anal and pegging play. Handmade in our UK studio from body-safe silicone, with regular and vibrating options.

SLIM SHAFT SUBTLE RIBBING LESS GIRTH
Princess Silky Dildo - Sh! Women's Store

Royal Dildos

Our Royal collection offers something a little different, including innovative designs with clitoral stimulators for dual stimulation alongside styles created for penetration. Handmade in our UK studio from high-quality body-safe silicone, with regular and vibrating versions available.

CLITORAL STIMULATION · DUAL SENSATION INNOVATIVE SHAPES
Honey 2 G - Spot Dildo - Sh! Women's Store

Honey Dildos

Specially angled for G-spot pleasure, our Honey dildos combine a sensual shape with targeted stimulation. Available in regular and vibrating versions, each is hand-poured in our UK studio from body-safe silicone, with gorgeous marbled and pure-colour options.

G-SPOT ANGLE TARGETED CURVE G-SPOT FOCUSED
Twista Dildos

Twista Dildos

Large, statuesque and fabulously distinctive, Twista combines generous proportions with a spiralled shaft for added texture and sensation. Each is hand-poured in our UK studio from body-safe silicone and available in regular or vibrating versions.

SPIRAL SHAFT LARGE GIRTH TEXTURED SENSATION
Mistress Wirly Extra Long Vibrating Dildo - Sh! Women's Store

Mistress Dildos

Please check individual dimensions before choosing.

Meet the biggest members of the Sh! family. Mistress dildos are supersized versions of our original designs, starting big and going all the way to seriously substantial. Each is individually hand-poured in our UK studio from body-safe silicone, with regular and vibrating versions available.

EXTRA LARGE EXPERIENCED SUPERSIZED
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BUILD YOUR PERFECT STRAP-ON

Made to Pair With Sh! Harnesses

Designed together. Made together. Our UK-made silicone dildos and handmade strap-on harnesses are created to complement each other, making it easy to find a combination that feels comfortable, secure and right for the way you want to play.

Choose your dildo, find a compatible harness and make your strap-on unmistakably Sh!.

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GOOD TO KNOW

Strap-On Dildo Questions, Answered

What people ask about strap-on dildos.

What is a strap-on dildo?

A strap-on dildo is a dildo designed to fit securely into a compatible harness, allowing hands-free vaginal or anal penetration. Unlike standard dildos, strap-on dildos have a flared base for stability and are shaped to sit comfortably in a harness.

Who can use a strap-on dildo?

Anyone. Strap-on dildos are enjoyed by people of all genders and sexual orientations for vaginal play, anal play, pegging, role-play and shared pleasure.

Can any dildo be used in a strap-on harness?

No. A strap-on dildo needs a wide, stable base so it stays securely in the harness. You'll also need to check that the dildo's diameter matches your harness O-ring.

What size strap-on dildo should beginners choose?

If you’re new to strap-on play, a slimmer dildo with a comfortable insertable length can be easier to control and more comfortable for the receiving partner. Start with a size that feels approachable for your body and experience level - you can always explore larger sizes later.

Can I use a strap-on dildo for pegging?

Absolutely. Slim, gently textured dildos are usually the best place to start for pegging. Plenty of water-based lubricant, slow build-up and good communication are far more important than choosing a large size.

Are vibrating strap-on dildos worth it?

Regular dildos offer simple, direct penetration, while vibrating versions add an extra buzz for the receiving partner. Depending on the dildo and harness, the wearer may feel some vibration too.

Size makes a difference to vibration strength. Silicone transmits vibration well, but the larger the dildo, the more the vibration is diffused through the silicone. Smaller vibrating dildos tend to feel stronger and buzzier, while larger dildos provide a more dispersed, gentler vibration alongside their added fullness.

Are Sh! strap-on dildos body-safe?

Absolutely. Every Sh! dildo is individually hand-poured in our UK studio using premium, body-safe platinum silicone. It’s non-porous, easy to clean and wonderfully durable — made for plenty of pleasure, again and again.

Why is every marbled Sh! dildo unique?

Because every one is poured by hand.

The swirling colours are created during the hand-pouring process, so the pattern develops differently every single time.

That means no two marbled Sh! dildos are ever exactly alike—your toy really is one of a kind.

Because every one is poured by hand.

The swirling colours are created during the hand-pouring process, so the pattern develops differently every single time.

That means no two marbled Sh! dildos are ever exactly alike—your toy really is one of a kind. answer here.

Why do Sh! strap-on dildos have heart-shaped bases?

Because they're practical and adorable - a true love token!

Our signature heart-shaped base gives the dildo a broad, secure foundation for anal-safe play and helps it sit comfortably in many strap-on harnesses.

It also makes every Sh! dildo instantly recognisable. After all, practical doesn't have to be boring.

That means no two marbled Sh! dildos are ever exactly alike—your toy really is one of a kind.

Why do Sh! dildos have heart-shaped bases?

Because they're practical and adorable - a true love token!

Our signature heart-shaped base gives the dildo a broad, secure foundation for anal-safe play and helps it sit comfortably in many strap-on harnesses.

It also makes every Sh! dildo instantly recognisable. After all, practical doesn't have to be boring.

Can I share a silicone dildo with a partner?

Can I use silicone lube with a silicone dildo?

Why don't Sh! dildos look realistic?

Because that was never our thing.

Since 1993, we've designed dildos to celebrate pleasure rather than imitate anatomy. Our shapes are created to feel wonderful in the body, not to look like somebody else's.

Bold colours, playful marbling and beautiful curves are all part of what makes a Sh! dildo unmistakably Sh! We believe sex toys can be sensual, elegant and full of personality.

Sh! Women's Store

Address: 15 Woodside, Epping, CM16 6LJ

Tel: 03333 444 005

Registered Company: 10232471

Vat No: GB246 0952 04

Sh! is a Registered Trademark of Sh! Brands Ltd

All Models are over 18

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That means no two marbled Sh! dildos are ever exactly alike—your toy really is one of a kind.

Why do Sh! dildos have heart-shaped bases?

Because they're practical and adorable - a true love token!

Our signature heart-shaped base gives the dildo a broad, secure foundation for anal-safe play and helps it sit comfortably in many strap-on harnesses.

It also makes every Sh! dildo instantly recognisable. After all, practical doesn't have to be boring.

Can I share a silicone dildo with a partner?

Can I use silicone lube with a silicone dildo?

Why don't Sh! dildos look realistic?

Because that was never our thing.

Since 1993, we've designed dildos to celebrate pleasure rather than imitate anatomy. Our shapes are created to feel wonderful in the body, not to look like somebody else's.

Bold colours, playful marbling and beautiful curves are all part of what makes a Sh! dildo unmistakably Sh! We believe sex toys can be sensual, elegant and full of personality.

Sh! Women's Store

Address: 15 Woodside, Epping, CM16 6LJ

Tel: 03333 444 005

Registered Company: 10232471

Vat No: GB246 0952 04

Sh! is a Registered Trademark of Sh! Brands Ltd

All Models are over 18

®Sh! Women's Store 2026

Info

About

SISTER SITES

© ®Sh! Women's Store All Rights Reserved.

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Why are Sh! strap-on dildos non-realistic?

Because that was never our thing.

Since 1993, we've designed dildos to celebrate pleasure rather than imitate anatomy. Our shapes are created to feel wonderful in the body, not to look like somebody else's.

Bold colours, playful marbling and beautiful curves are all part of what makes a Sh! dildo unmistakably Sh! We believe sex toys can be sensual, ergonomic and full of personality.

How do I clean a silicone strap-on dildo?

Wash with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner after each use.

If yours is vibrating, remove the bullet before cleaning. And here’s a little Sh! trick for next time: pop a tiny drop of water-based lube onto the bullet before sliding it into the dildo. It’ll be much easier to wiggle back out afterwards — less wrestling with your toy when the fun’s over!

Platinum silicone can also be sterilised by boiling for a few minutes (if the dildo doesn't contain a vibrator).

Allow it to dry completely before storing away from direct heat, sunlight and dust-bunnies.