UK Made Anal Dildos
Buying an anal dildo online can be overwhelming, especially if you're a beginner. So, we've gathered together all our best anal-pleasing dildos to help. Smaller in stature, with either sleek-sided, gently tapered or subtly stimulating shafts, every anal dildo is body-safe in both material & design, so you can relax & enjoy the ride. Read our anal dildo guide to find out more...
Buying an anal dildo online can be overwhelming, especially if you're a beginner. So, we've gathered together all our best anal-pleasing dildos to help. Smaller in stature, with either sleek-sided, gently tapered or subtly stimulating shafts, every anal dildo is body-safe in both material and design, so you can relax and enjoy the ride. Read our anal dildo guide to find out more...
What Makes a Dildo Safe for Anal Play?
Anal dildos differ from vaginal dildos in one critical way: they must have a flared base or handle to prevent them from getting lost internally. The anus naturally draws objects inward, so a wide base is essential for safe anal sex.
Beyond safety, anal dildos typically feature slimmer profiles, tapered tips for easier insertion, and smooth surfaces for comfortable penetration. Every dildo for anal in our collection is body-safe (premium-grade silicone, glass, stainless steel) and designed specifically for anal anatomy.
Types of Anal Dildos
Slim Anal Dildos: Perfect for beginners! Thin anal dildos (0.75-1 inch diameter) offer gentle, non-intimidating anal penetration. Tapered tips make insertion easy, while slender shafts provide comfortable fullness without overwhelming stretch.
Tapered Anal Dildos: Gradually widening shafts let you control depth and intensity. These dildos for anal sex start narrow at the tip and slowly increase in girth, perfect for warming up or exploring your comfort limits.
Curved Anal Dildos: Designed to target the prostate (P-spot) in male bodies or provide unique sensations in female bodies. Angled shafts reach internal pleasure zones with precision.
Textured Anal Dildos: Featuring ridges, bumps, or spirals for advanced users who enjoy extra stimulation. These anal sex toys provide unique sensations as they move in and out.
Butt Plugs: While technically not dildos, butt plugs are designed to stay in place during wear. Great for prolonged stimulation or preparing for anal penetration.
Anal Beads: Graduated spheres on a string or flexible shaft offer incremental pleasure. Anal beads provide unique sensations during insertion and removal.
How to Use Anal Dildos Safely
Start Small: Begin with a slim anal dildo (under 1 inch diameter). You can always size up later.
Use Lots of Lube: The anus doesn't self-lubricate. Apply generous amounts of anal lubricant – silicone or water-based – to both the dildo and your body. More is always better!
Go Slow: Never rush anal penetration. Relax your pelvic floor muscles, breathe deeply, and insert gradually. Let your body adjust at each stage.
Check the Base: Always verify your anal dildo has a flared base before use. This is non-negotiable for safety.
Clean Thoroughly: Wash anal toys with warm water and toy cleaner before and after every use. Never transfer toys from anus to vagina without cleaning or using a fresh condom.
Anal Dildos for Women vs Men
Female anal dildos work beautifully for vaginal owners exploring anal pleasure. Many women enjoy the unique sensations, taboo thrill, or fuller feeling that anal penetration provides. Male anal dildos (especially curved designs) target the prostate for intense P-spot orgasms. However, most anal dildos work for all bodies – anatomy matters more than gender! Choose based on size, shape, and features rather than marketing labels.
How to Chose Your Perfect Anal Dildo
New to anal play? Start small with a slim, tapered design. Go slowly, use plenty of lubricant, and focus on comfort and relaxation.
Ready for more? Explore larger sizes, firmer materials, or curved shapes to add new sensations and deeper stimulation.
Playing with a partner? Choose designs with a flared base for safety and easy handling, so you can focus on enjoying the moment together.
Strapping on? Choose a dildo with a little extra length as at least an inch or more ( dependant on how curvy the bodies involved) will be lost once the dildo is sitting in the harness.
Body-Safe & Beginner-Friendly
Every anal dildo at Sh! is body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. We stock silicone, glass, and stainless steel – never jelly, rubber, or porous materials. Our collection ranges from tiny beginner dildos to advanced sizes for experienced users.
All products include detailed sizing information, care instructions, and discreet UK delivery. Ready to explore anal pleasure safely? Browse our complete collection of anal dildos and discover comfortable, pleasurable backdoor play!
Ready to Explore?
Whether you’re just starting out or building on what you already enjoy, anal dildos offer a satisfying way to discover new sensations at your own pace.
Take a look through our collection and find what feels right for you — and if you’d like a little guidance, our friendly team is always here to help.
Anal Dildo FAQ's
The anus is rich with highly responsive nerve-endings, which become even more sensitive during arousal and throb during orgasm!
- Women & vulva-owners can enjoy incredible sensations when being penetrated with an anal dildo - including stimulation of the elusive G-Spot.
- Men & penis-owners have half of the penile structure inside the body, continuing almost to the anus. For this reason, anal penetration can offer pleasure inside and out! They also have a Prostate tucked away inside their butt, which is HIGHLY receptive to stimulation.
All Sh! silicone dildos are safe for anal play as they feature wide heart-shaped bases, but other dildos may not be as safe. Anything destined for your butt must have a handle or flared base. If it doesn't, it's not safe for anal play. Simples!
Only if it has a flared base! Regular dildos without wide bases are dangerous for anal use – they can get lost internally, requiring emergency medical intervention. Always choose dildos specifically designed for anal play with t-bar handles, suction cup bases, or flared ends. Safety first, always!
You can share your anal dildo, but stock up on condoms and sex toy cleaner. You can either clean the dildo between orifices and partners; or cover the anal dildo with a fresh condom each time you swap.
Clean your anal dildo with sex sex toy cleaner (easy!) or anti-bacterial handwash and hot water. Leave to air dry before storing in a fluff-free place.
Yes. Anal lube is essential for comfortable and pain-free anal play. Add as much as you think - then add some more!
Yes! Unlike the vagina, the anus produces zero natural lubrication. Generous lube application is essential for comfortable, safe, pleasurable anal penetration. Use more than you think you need, then add more during play. Water-based or silicone anal lubes anal lubes work best. Never skimp on lube – it's the difference between pain and pleasure!
Beginners should start with slim anal dildos no wider than 0.75-1 inch in diameter. Thin dildos with tapered tips make insertion easier and less intimidating. As you gain experience and comfort, you can gradually size up. Focus on finding a comfortable length too – most people prefer 4-6 inches insertable for anal play.
Anal dildos are designed for in-and-out thrusting motion during penetration. Butt plugs are designed to stay in place during wear (hands-free stimulation). Dildos offer active pleasure, while plugs provide passive fullness. Many people use both: plugs for warm-up or prolonged wear, and dildos for penetrative anal sex.
Absolutely! Anal pleasure isn't gender-specific. Many women enjoy anal dildos for unique sensations, enhanced orgasms, or variety. Female anal anatomy is well-suited for penetration when approached slowly with proper lubrication. Body-safe anal dildos with flared bases are perfectly safe for vulva owners.
If you have active, painful hemorrhoids, avoid anal penetration until they heal. Consult your doctor if uncertain. Once healed, anal dildos are generally safe, but choose very slim, smooth designs and use extra lube. If you experience bleeding, pain, or discomfort, stop immediately and seek medical advice.
How to Choose an Anal Dildo?
Many customers make the mistake of buying a butt plug when what they really want is a dildo for anal sex. It’s not a massive mistake, but understanding the difference ensures you get a toy that delivers the sensations you desire.
A dildo has a regular girth (though it can be slightly flared or ribbed for pleasure), which delivers smooth anal penetration.
A butt plug has a sphincter stopper at its base that makes it stay put. A butt plug offers sensual stimulation, but it’s not designed for sliding in and out like a dildo...
CHOOSING AN ANAL DILDO
Choosing an anal dildo is all about size, with getting the width right the most important consideration. Unless you are confident you know the perfect size for your anal dildo, it’s best to start off with a slim dildo.
The anus is a delicate flower where everything, particularly size, feels magnified...
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