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Q&A: Rabbit or Finger Vibe?

Dear Sh!

Could you please advise a 62-year old widow (with neither the desire nor the prospect of finding another man) on the best vibrator to buy? I'm completely new to this market and I've looked through your website, and am confused by the range available. I'm tempted by a rabbit-style vibrator or a simple finger vibe but would welcome your comments.

Hello there, thanks for getting in touch!

We absolutely understand - looking at all the toys on offer can feel overwhelming. Let's see if we can help you narrow it down to the best sex toy for you.

If you usually use a finger or three during masturbation, a finger vibe will add a fun buzz. The good thing about small toys is that they can easily be incorporated into partner play, should you find yourself with gentleman caller in due course. *wink*

Finger sex toys are great, but they're limited to providing purely clitoral stimulation. This silicone finger vibe is a great starter toy. It features a velvety-soft cover with gentle ribs for arousing touches. The single-speed bullet is not too powerful; it's 'just right' for exploration.

pink finger vibrator

Rabbit vibrators offer internal & external pleasure

Many women discover how much pleasure their G-spot can provide with the help of a rabbit vibe. The beaded shaft rotates around just inside the opening of the vagina, giving amazing sensations. 

The bunny ears on a rabbit vibrator are a fantastic design for clit play. The fluttery ears stimulate the sides of the clitoris rather than the hyper-sensitive tip. 

Many customers tell us they don't bother using the shaft for internal play during a solo sesh. Women & vulva-owners often focus on clitoral stimulation during masturbation; this is where the fabulous bunny ears best work their magic. 

Purple rabbit vibrator

Before making a final decision, we think you should grab a fresh cuppa and settle down to read up on our blog post on how to choose your first vibrator. We hope this helps!

Best wishes,

Team Sh! xx

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