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Aging Like Fine Wine: Why Sex Gets Better With Age

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Let’s face it, if you’ve started dodging questions about your age like a pro at a game of dodgeball, you’re not alone. But here’s a fun fact: with each passing birthday, life can actually get better, especially when it comes to one particular area of life - sex. Yep, you heard that right! So, while you might be accumulating more candles on your birthday cake, you’re also racking up some serious skills in the bedroom. Grab a glass of wine and let’s dive into why getting older means getting hotter between the sheets!

The Climax Clarity

First off, let’s talk about that sweet, sweet moment of climax. Did you know that as we age, our chances of reaching the Big Oh actually increase? 

As we mature, we start to become masters of our own bodies. Remember those awkward teenage years? Yeah, we’ve moved past that! Now, we know what gets us going and we’ve had plenty of practice figuring it out. We’re like seasoned athletes, and the bedroom is our arena. Sex gets better with age, so don’t be surprised if you start racking up those orgasms!

No More Settling for Mediocre Sex

In our younger years, we might have settled for a less-than-stellar experience just to please our partners. But as we age, something magical happens - we start to give less of a hoot about what others think. See Ali Wong and her prison-break-energy

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In our late 30s and beyond, we become more confident and assertive in the bedroom. Gone are the days of playing coy or dancing around what we want. Now, we’re not just asking for what we want; we’re demanding it. If it’s not earth-shattering, what’s the point?

Want to try that position you saw in a movie? Go for it! Feel like taking charge and guiding your partner through your secret pleasure map? Absolutely! With age comes the power of knowledge and experience, and let me tell you, that leads to some seriously satisfying sex.

Comfort in Our Own Skin

If there’s one thing that gets better with age, it’s body confidence. Remember when we were all comparing ourselves to airbrushed models and fitness influencers? Yawn! Now, we’ve realized that those 'perfect' bodies are more like unicorns - rare and mostly imaginary.

As we embrace our bodies, we also become more aroused by the naked bodies next to us instead of fretting over that one little lump or bump. Instead of worrying about whether we’ve got the right angle for the ‘gram, we’re focusing on the real deal: pleasure. So let’s throw caution to the wind and celebrate our bodies, imperfections and all!

The Adventurous Spirit

With newfound confidence and knowledge comes the desire to explore. Aging is like getting a VIP pass to the wild world of sexuality! Whether it’s trying out new positions, experimenting with toys, or even dabbling in some light BDSM, the adventures in the bedroom are endless.

Many of the wonderful folks who join us for our pop-up workshops are over 50 - living proof that the fun doesn’t end when you hit your late twenties. Whether you’re trying pegging for the first time or mastering the art of oral sex, it’s never too late to expand your sexual repertoire. In fact, your thirties and forties might just be the perfect time to become a sexual connoisseur.

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Emotional Connection Matters

Let’s not forget about the emotional side of things. With age comes experience, and that includes relationship experience. The more we’ve been through in our lives, the better we understand what we want in a partner.

This understanding can lead to deeper emotional connections, which can enhance physical intimacy. When you’re with someone you trust and feel comfortable with, you’re more likely to explore new things and push boundaries. And let’s be honest, nothing beats the thrill of an emotional connection combined with physical attraction.

The Art of Communication

Ever tried to have a serious conversation about sex while still in your pajamas? Awkward! But as we mature, communication becomes easier. By the time we hit our thirties, we’re more comfortable discussing what we like, what we don’t like, and what we want to try.

We’ve learned that talking about sex doesn’t have to be embarrassing. In fact, it can be downright enjoyable! Imagine being able to tell your partner exactly what you want without blushing. This level of openness leads to greater satisfaction for both partners and helps build that all-important emotional connection.

Goodbye to Insecurities

As we age, we tend to shed a lot of the insecurities that plagued us in our younger years. It’s like a cosmic gift that comes with maturity. We stop worrying about what others think and start focusing on what makes us happy.

This newfound freedom from insecurities allows us to be more adventurous and to express ourselves in ways we may have hesitated to do before. Want to dance naked in the living room? Go for it! Feel like trying that new sex toy you saw online? Just do it!

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Experience, Baby

Let’s not underestimate the power of experience. With age comes a treasure trove of knowledge—especially in the realm of sex. We’ve had more time to learn what works for us and what doesn’t.

Think of it as leveling up in a video game. With each level, we gain skills, power-ups, and strategies to defeat the boss. In this case, the boss is, well, our own pleasure. So go ahead, put your game face on and show the world what you’ve got!

The Fun Factor

Last but definitely not least, let’s not forget that sex is supposed to be fun! As we age, we often become more laid-back and playful. We realize that life is too short to take everything so seriously, including our sex lives.

The playful banter, the silly moments, the laughter—these all add to the experience and make it more enjoyable. So, why not embrace your inner child and let loose? Make it a goal to have more fun in the bedroom as you grow older.

Embrace Your Inner Seductress

So, to all the fabulous people out there dodging questions about your age—take a moment to celebrate the perks that come with getting older. Sex does indeed get better with age, and there’s no reason to shy away from the pleasures that await.

With confidence, experience, communication, and a dash of humor, your thirties and beyond can be your hottest years yet. So light those birthday candles, and don’t forget to make a wish—for more incredible, earth-shattering sex in the years to come. Cheers to you! 🍷

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