MEDIUM: 4-6 INCH Sh! Strap-On Dildos

Ready to strap on something special? Explore our unique dildo range, specially designed for strap-on play!

Our Strap-On Dildo Collections

Cupid Curved Dildos

Our Cupid dildos feature a sensually curved shaft & shapely form that broadens slightly towards the base for a subtle 'filling-up' sensation. Available as regular & vibrating dildos, we hand-pour each Cupid with love, using body-safe pure silicone. With Cupid Curved 3 our all-time best-selling dildo of all time, you've hit the right page in your dildo search!

Honey G-Spot Dildos

Our Honey G-Spot dildos are sensually shaped & specially angled for G-Spot pleasure. Available as regular & vibrating dildos, in unique marbling or pure colours, we handmake each one with love, using body-safe silicone. Read our G-Spot advice guides to get the gen on G-Spotting.

Mistress XL Dildos

Our extra large dildo collection is called Mistress & are simply super-size versions of Sh! dildos. Individually hand-poured in our studio using body-safe silicone & available in both regular or vibrating versions, Mistress dildos start big & go up to huge, so please check dimensions carefully.

Royal Dildos

Our Royal collection feature dildos with innovative clitoral simulators for double stimulation, as well as ones for pure penetration. Each each one is handmade in high quality silicone at our UK Studio & available in either regular or vibrating versions.

Twista Large Dildos

Our Twista dildos are large; statuesque proportions, along with spiral shafts, they deliver immensly 'fulfilling' sensations. Available as regular & vibrating dildos, we hand-pour each one with love, using top quality body-safe silicone. The Amazonians of the dildo world, a Twista dildo offers incredibly fulsome penetrative pleasure!

Wirly Slim Dildos

Our slim Wirly dildos feature slender shafts with subtle ribbing for when sensation, rather than girth, is desired. Available as regular & vibrating dildos, & hand-poured in body-safe silicone at our UK Studio, a Wirly dildo is a great choice for those who prefer slim toys, & for anal & pegging play too.

Handmade with Love ༄ Designed by Lesbians ༄ Secure in Your Harness ༄
Unique Designs ༄ Specially Created to Strap-On ༄Unique Marbling ༄
Top Grade Silicone ༄ Made in UK ༄ Ethically Produced ༄
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Dildos specially designed to strap-on.

1. What do I actually want from my strap-on dildo?

Sure, the goal might seem obvious (hello, pleasure!), but take a moment to think it through:

Is the dildo for yourself, for your partner, or for both of you to enjoy?

Are you both on the same page when it comes to size - length and girth?

Are you specifically after a G-spot or Prostate-pleasing dildo?

Do you want the extra buzz of vibration, or would you rather keep it simple?

2. What size dildo for vaginal strap-on play ?

Width is the most important measurement to get right, as you can always control how deep a dildo goes, but a too-wide dildo can be painful rather than pleasureable.

When a woman/vulva-owner becomes really aroused, their vagina naturally expands. The number of fingers that feel comfortably pleasurable at this super turned-on stage is a good guide for choosing the right dildo girth.

This is why we have classed our dildos in terms of fingers!

SLIM (1-2 Fingers)

Some find that a dildo that’s completely straight can feel uncomfortable if it bumps against their cervix. If that sounds familiar, a toy with a rounded tip or gentle G-spot-friendly curve will usually provide a more comfortable, satisfying experience.

3. What size dildo for anal strap-on play?

Width is even more cruicial, when choosing a strap-on dildo for anal strap-on play / pegging.

This is especially true for newbies, as a too-wide dildo will be painful.

It's a complete fallacy that you need to 'push through the pain' (please don't do it!) when it comes to anal/pegging strap-on play. There is a 2nd sphincter up all bums (regardless of gender) that can't be controlled - only LOTS of pleasurable stimulation and plenty of lube will relax it...

So, if you're choosing your 1st dildo for anal/pegging strap-on play, choose a SLIM (1-2 Fingers) Dildo

Highly enriched with sensitive nerve-endings, the anus particulary enjoys sensation during strap-on strokes - a ribbed dildo is deliciously felt on each in/out stroke.

5. What kind of harness to strap with?

The type of harness you are planning to slip your dildo into can affect dildo choice:

FOR STRAP-ONS WORN ON THE HIPS:

- Curvier tums and bums can reduce the usable length, so choosing a slightly longer dildo can help ensure more satisfying strokes.

- With these harnesses: 2-STRAP / SUPER / CORSET orset you may also lose an inch or so of length, as the dildo base sits between you and the harness panel.

- Fabric harnesses are not secure enough to hold a heavy dildo. They best support medium & small dildos less than 6 inches long and 1.5-inch in diameter.

THIGH STRAP-ON: You can use the full length of your dildo. Fixed O-ring means its best for dildos 1.5 inch & less diameter.

Strap On Dildo FAQ's

What is a strap-on Dildo?

A strap on dildo is a dildo specially designed to be worn in a harness allowing one partner to penetrate the other, vaginally or anally, hands-free!

By 'specially designed' we mean:

WIDE BASE This ensures the dildo sits securely & comfortably in the harness (dildos with balls are unruly & dildos with too-small bases can slip out of the harness, which is why we don't stock them)

ANGLED FOR STRAP-ON PLAY
When using a dildo in a harness having a slight upward curve within the dildo design means it's at the right angle for pleasure. The G-Spot and prostate are both positioned interally towards the front of the body, and these are the areas you want your strap-on dildo to please... ( if you're coming in from behind, whether vaginally or anally, turn your dildo so the angle is pointing downwards in the harness to hit the right spots)

SILICONE
Unlike using fingers or penis for penetrative pleasure, using a dildo in a strap-on means you can't actually feel what's going on. So the consistency of the dildo is important - too soft and it won't easily enter the target... Too hard and it may feel uncomfortable or unyielding for the receiver. Silicone is the goldilocks for strap-on dildos - just right! Not only that. Silicone is non-porous, 100% body-safe, easy to clean/sterlize, so you play with & share your dildos without any worries.

How do you choose the right strap-on dildo?

We know that pleasure is personal and that's why designed our strap-on dildo range to satisfy all, from those who prefer petite playthings to those who enjoy something more...

We offer over 30 different sizes & styles of dildos to strap-on; from under 4 inches and a finger-width upwards to over 9 inches, and 4 or more fingers width.

If you are just starting out, we'd recommend a slim, mid-length dildo (around 5–6 inches) as it will be easy to control and comfortable to receive.

Our Wirly 2 is a best-selling starter model. Then, then should you want to size up at a later point, you have three options within the same range:

• Like the width but want longer - size up to the Wirly 3.

• Like the length, but want more girth - size up to the Wirly 5.

• Want more of both - size up to Wirly 6 will offer both.

Wirly, Cupid & Honey strap-on dildos all come in 3 lengths / 2 width options:

1 = Small/slimmer

2 = Mid/slimmer

3 = Long/slimmer

4 = Small/wider

5 = Mid/wider

6 = Long/wider

Who can use a strap-on dildo?

Anyone - people of any gender or sexual orientation can and do enjoy strapping on a dildo! They’re used by queer couples, straight couples exploring pegging, those with erectile dysfunction, and those who enjoy role-play...

Is using a strap-on dildo safe?

Using a strap-on dildo is completely safe, when done properly. Firstly, always slather your dildo with plenty of lubricant before diving in... ( important as, unlike fingers or a penis, you can't feel feel how wet everything is with a dildo)

Start small and go slowly, especially when learning and keep checking-in/communicating with your partner throughout.

Use condoms if switching partners or body areas.

Make sure your dildo is squeaky clean before strapping it on. Silicone is the best material for dildos because it is completely non-porous (meaning it won't absorb any body fluids) but you still need to ensure there's nothing lurking on the surface.

How to clean a strap-on dildo?

Sex Toy Cleaner is the fastest way to ensure complete cleanliness - just spritz on, wipe off, and off you go!

Otherwise wash with anti-bacterial soap and rinse with hot water, or to sterilize a Sh! silicone dildo, boil for 3 minues or wash in the top rack of a dishwasher.

Behind the scenes of our strap-on dildos...

Sh! Marble Dildos - Hand-Poured Sex Toys

Ever wondered how we create those gorgeous swirls in our strap-on dildos? Spoiler: it involves a lot of silicone, a dash of artistry, and zero actual marble. Dive into the deliciously hands-on process behind our handmade pleasure pieces!

Sh! Sex Toys - Designed & Handmade in the UK

Forget mass-produced imports—our premium silicone dildos and adjustable leather harnesses are lovingly handcrafted right here in the UK. Think artisan pleasure, body-safe materials, and a whole lot of British pride. Ready to strap on something special?