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Sh! Vaginal Dilators Set

Regular price £69.00
Regular price Sale price £69.00

Dilating Trainers with Bullet Vibrator for Vaginismus

Handmade by Sh!® in London, England – Ethically-produced, 1-year guarantee

Firm yet flexible dilators that bend to your vagina's natural curves

Softly tapered tips for easier insertion & more comfortable use

Removeable bullet adds vibration for added pleasure & relaxation

Body-safe silicone feels warm and cleans easily

We recommend purchasing the Sh! Dilating Set kit on the advice of your doctor, nurse, or therapist only. Self-diagnosing isn't recommended.

Please see Sh! Dilators for Vaginal Health

The world's first silicone vaginal dilators, with added vibration.

The full set (£69) comes with a bullet vibe.

If bought separately, each comes with a bullet.

The Set comprises of four soft silicone dilators, all in lovely lilac (if bought individually colours may vary).

  • Dilator 1 - £30 - 2.8 inch (71mm) / 0.53 inch (13mm)
  • Dilator 2 - £32 - 3.9 inch (99mm) / 0.63 inch (16mm)
  • Dilator 3 - £34 - 4.75 inch (20mm) / 0.75 inch (19mm)
  • Dilator 4 - £36 - 5.75 inch (145mm) / 1 inch (25mm)

Vibration can help relax tense nerve endings, making the whole experience less 'medical' and more fun!

Drizzle lube onto the dilator and also onto your vulva and vaginal entrance before using a trainer, to enhance glide and sensuality, and ease insertion.

Dilation is a slow process (sorry - we know it's frustrating, but there are no shortcuts), and you mustn't try to skip a step to get to 'the end.'

Take your time; build your confidence and ensure you are fully comfortable with the insertion of one size before moving on to the next. Always start with the smallest size.

The bullet vibrator has 7 powerful modes, easily controlled with a push-button. Charge the bullet by inserting the small pin into the hole on the body of the bullet. 

Here's how to charge the vibrating bullet:

Gently insert the tip of the charging pin into the hole above the On/Off button on the bullet vibe. Leave about 7mm of the pin outside. Pushing the pin too far will damage the bullet. You'll know it's connected as you'll see a blue light flashing. Unplug the charging cable once the charge is completed - this takes about an hour. As with any rechargeable product, please don't leave the bullet unattended while charging. 

Customer Reviews

Based on 13 reviews Write a review




SLIM: >1.25" (1-2 Finger)

Work on arousal before using the dilators. Arousal starts in the brain, so fantasize or read a sexy book, watch an erotic film, or listen to erotic audio. Being in the mood for sexual activity will help make dilating easier.</p>
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Materials: Silicone
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length:                          

• Dilator 1: 4 inch (103mm) 
• Dilator 2: 5 inch (126mm)
• Dilator 3: 6 inch (152mm)
• Dilator 4: 7 inch (180mm)
Playable length:

• Dilator 1: 2.8 inch (71mm)
• Dilator 2: 3.9 inch (99mm)
• Dilator 3: 4.75 inch (20mm)
• Dilator 4: 5.75 inch (145mm)
Diameter (at widest):

• Dilator 1: 0.53 inch (13mm)
• Dilator 2: 0.63 inch (16mm)
• Dilator 3: 0.75 inch (19mm)
• Dilator 4: 1 inch (25mm)

• Dilator 1: Light (61g without bullet, 81g with bullet)
• Dilator 2: Light (71g without bullet, 90g with bullet)
• Dilator 3: Light (88g without bullet, 107g with bullet)
• Dilator 4: Medium (123g without bullet, 142g with bullet)
All Trainers Waterproof: Yes
Lube: Water-Based Lube Only

Care & Cleaning: Use Sh! Toy Cleaner/Soap/10% bleach solution/rubbing alcohol. Rinse thoroughly. To sterilize: Boil 3 minutes / dishwasher (top rack). Avoid breaking the surface of your dilator. Keep away direct heat/sunlight. Store in a dry, fluff-free place.
Material: Plastic
Actual Length: 45mm / 1.75inch
Playable length: 45mm / 1.75inch
Diameter (at widest):  20mm / 0.8inch
Power: USB Recharger
Supplied with Toy: Yes
Intensity on full power: Strong
Volume on full power: Quiet
Offers: 7 Vibration Modes in 1 vibration intensity
Waterproof: No

Care & Cleaning: Remove the bullet and wash separately. Rinse & dry thoroughly. Store in a cool, clean & dark environment.

• Press the button to turn on the bullet to the first vibration mode
• Each press of the bullet lets you scroll through the patterns
• To turn off the bullet completely, press the button for one second

UK FREE Standard Delivery Orders £50+

  • £4 Standard: 3-5 working days (not guaranteed)
  • £6 Express: 1-2 working days (not guaranteed)
  • £8 Guaranteed: Next Working Day

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Customer Reviews

Based on 13 reviews
Miss Blackstock

An excellent product.


Very soft material easily washable feels really great all around


Well worth it and much more comfortable and easy to use than rigid dilators.


This set looks great, much more comfortable looking than the traditional plastic ones. Also interesting to have the vibration option. Hopefully this will be a positive experience!




Ask a Question
  • hi, when will this be back in stock? thanks.

    Hello, we are currently experiencing a supplier issue with the small vibrating bullets. We don't have an ETA, but please keep an eye on the website as we'll add more stock as soon as the bullets arrive xx