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Curious about pegging? You’re in the right place. Explore pegging toys for every level of experience, from beginner-friendly strap-on kits and comfortable harnesses to compatible dildos and accessories. Find the fit, feel and sensation that works for you and your partner.

Explore pegging toys for every level of experience, including strap-on harnesses, dildos and accessories for comfortable, confident play.

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Quick Guide

Pegging Guide

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EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW Choosing & Using Pegging Toys
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What is Pegging?

Pegging is a type of strap-on play where one partner wears a dildo, usually in a harness, for anal penetration of another partner.

Despite the name, there are no rules about who can enjoy it. Pegging can be explored by people of different genders, bodies and sexualities - whether you’re curious about receiving, wearing or switching things up.

  • Giving → A harness and dildo provide hands-free control.
  • Receiving → Anal stimulation can feel pleasurable regardless of gender.
  • New to it? → Start small, communicate and explore at your own pace.
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What Do I Need for Pegging?

You don't need a mountain of kit. A simple pegging set-up consists of a comfortable harness, a compatible anal-safe dildo and plenty of lubricant.

  • Harness → Holds the dildo securely against the wearer's body.
  • Dildo → Choose a size suited to the receiver's experience.
  • Lube → Essential for comfortable anal play.
  • Complete kit → An easy option if you'd rather have compatible pieces chosen for you.
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How do I choose a pegging dildo?

Your dildo has the biggest impact on how pegging feels. For beginners, slimmer is usually better; more experienced players can explore extra girth, length or texture. pegging.

  • Start slim → Smaller diameters are generally easier for beginners.
  • Check the base → It should be secure and compatible with your harness.
  • Consider texture → The anus is rich in nerve-endings - ribbed dildos deliver sensation with every stroke.
  • Ready for more? → Explore additional girth, length, curves or texture.

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How Do I Choose A Pegging Harness?

The best pegging harness is one that feels secure on the wearer and keeps the dildo stable while allowing comfortable movement.

  • Check adjustability → A snug fit gives you greater control.
  • Check the O-ring → Your chosen dildo needs to fit securely.
  • Consider support → Bigger or heavier dildos generally need a more supportive harness.
  • Think about stimulation → Some designs provide easier access to the wearer's body.
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First Time Pegging

Your first pegging experience isn't a performance. Give yourselves time to get comfortable, get aroused and work out what feels good.

  • Warm up → Smaller anal toys or fingers can help prepare the body.
  • Use plenty of lube → And don't be shy about adding more.
  • Let the receiver lead → Especially when establishing comfortable depth and pace.
  • Positions where reciever is on top are best for building confidence.
  • Keep communicating → Slow down, change position or stop whenever either partner wants.
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How Can I Add (Even) More Pleasure?

Once you’ve got the basics, strap-on accessories and extras can add new sensations for the wearer, receiver — or both. From vibration to added stimulation at the base of your dildo, there are plenty of ways to personalise your pegging set-up.

  • Vibrating dildos → Add vibration to your pegging play for extra thrills for both of you.
  • Dildo bases & grinders → Add extra pressure and stimulation for the harness-wearer.
  • Panty & wearable vibrators → Wear underneath your harness to add clitoral or external stimulation for the wearer.
  • Explore curved dildos → Provide more targeted pressure for people with prostates - remeber to angle it correctly ( ie pointing down, if from behind)
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Lube For Pegging

Lube is essential for pegging because the anus doesn’t naturally produce enough lubrication for comfortable penetration.

  • Use plenty → Add keep adding more - anal play can never be too wet!
  • Water-based is easiest → Compatible with silicone dildos and toys.
  • For anal play → A thicker, longer-lasting lube can be especially helpful.
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Pegging Positions

Different pegging positions change the angle, depth and level of control. There’s no single “best” position — find what feels comfortable and pleasurable for both of you.

One useful thing to remember is dildo orientation. Positioning a curved dildo correctly in the harness can help it follow the natural curve of the rectum and, if the receiving partner has a prostate, provide more targeted prostate stimulation.

  • Receiver on top → Gives the receiving partner more control over depth and pace. Facing the wearer? Position the dildo curved upwards. Facing away? Position it curved downwards.
  • Face-to-face → Great for closeness, communication and controlling the pace. Position a curved dildo upwards, towards the receiver’s front.
  • From behind → Can allow deeper penetration and different angles. Position a curved dildo downwards, towards the receiver’s front.
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How to clean & Care for pegging toys?

Sh! silicone dildos and leather harnesses are made to last - and a little TLC will keep them looking and feeling their best.

  • Silicone dildos → Wash after every use with warm water & mild soap or sex toy cleaner, then rinse and leave to air dry.
  • Leather harnesses → Wipe clean (never soak). Allow the leather to dry naturally before putting it away somewhere airy ( don't store in plastic bags or sealed container)
  • Clean separately → Remove the dildo from the harness first so you can properly clean around the base, O-ring and straps.
  • Store with care → Make sure everything is completely dry before storing your dildo and harness somewhere clean and dry.

Pegging Pleasure, Tried & Loved

Real reviews from Sh! customers discovering pegging with our handmade harnesses, silicone dildos and strap-on kits.

Beginner's Anal Strap - On Dildo Kit in a black gift box comprising small black ribbed silicone dildo, black leather harness, bottle of lube & toy cleaner.
★★★★★
Good purchase Beautiful and soft leather. Easily adjusts to fit. Looks and feels very sexy, really enjoyed first time pegging
Beginner's Anal Strap-On Kit
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Wirly 2 Dildo
★★★★★
Perfect for pegging! ... looks brilliant in the strap I bought from SH as well- perfect for first time pegging due to its textured shape and thin girth.
Wirly 2 Dildo
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Beginner's Anal Strap - On Dildo Kit in a black gift box comprising medium black ribbed silicone dildo, black leather harness, bottle of lube & toy cleaner.
★★★★★
The dildo is perfect for pegging - it was my boyfriend's first time and this was just the right size for him - not too intimidating while plenty stimulating.
Pegging Strap-On Kit
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WHY CHOOSE SH!

What Makes Our Pegging Toys Different?

Handmaking pegging toys in the UK since 1993, we know a thing or two about comfortable harnesses, body-safe silicone dildos and feel-good pegging.

PEGGING EXPERTS

We’ve helped thousands of customers explore pegging - even advising couples on TV!

BEGINNER-FRIENDLY

Slimmer dildos and easy-to-use sets make first pegging adventures feel less daunting.

HANDMADE BY SH!

Our silicone dildos and leather harnesses are handmade in the UK with pleasure in mind.

MADE TO MIX & MATCH

Pair your perfect harness and dildo, then switch things up as your pegging play evolves.

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Everything For Pegging Play

Explore harnesses, strap-on dildos, accessories, lube and more - everything you need to build your perfect strap-on set-up.

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Pegging Harnesses

FIND YOUR FIT

From easy-to-adjust styles to supportive handmade leather designs, explore strap-on harnesses chosen for comfortable, secure pegging and confident control.



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Pegging Dildos

CHOOSE YOUR SIZE

From slimmer beginner-friendly sizes to fuller, curved and vibrating designs, explore our handmade Sh! silicone dildos for pegging. All are harness-compatible, so you can choose the shape, size and sensation that feels right for your play.


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Pegging Kits

Pegging Kits

EVERYTHING YOU NEED

New to pegging or simply want an easy set-up? Our pegging kits pair a compatible strap-on harness and dildo, taking the guesswork out of choosing what works together.

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Strapless Strap-Ons

Strapless Strap-Ons

BODY-TO-BODY PLAY

Skip the traditional straps for closer body-to-body contact. Strapless strap-ons can be worn on their own by more experienced users, or paired with a harness for extra stability, control and confidence.

CLOSER CONTACT VERSATILE HARNESS OPTIONAL
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Pegging Accessories

GRINDERS, DILDO BASES & MORE

Add something extra to your pegging set-up. Explore grinders, vibrating accessories, dildo bases and other clever additions designed to bring more sensation and variety to strap-on play.

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Lube for Pegging

ESSENTIAL GLIDE FOR ANAL PLAY

Lube is essential for comfortable pegging play. Shop water-based lubes for plenty of long-lasting glide without worrying about compatibility with your silicone dildos and pegging toys.

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New to Pegging? Start With Our Expert Guide

We’ve been helping people explore strap-on play for decades — even giving couples a pegging masterclass on TV! From choosing your first harness and dildo to lube, fit and getting comfortable together, discover Sh!’s expert advice for confident, pleasurable pegging.

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Pegging Questions, Answered

What people ask about pegging toys.

What do I need for pegging?

For classic pegging, you’ll need a strap-on harness, a harness-compatible dildo and plenty of water-based lube. You can choose each piece separately or start with a pegging kit, which pairs compatible essentials together and takes the guesswork out of your first set-up.

What size dildo is best for first-time pegging?

Start slimmer rather than larger. Anal sensations can feel particularly intense, so a slim dildo is usually more comfortable for first-time pegging. Girth matters more than impressive-looking length, although you’ll want enough usable length for comfortable movement once the dildo is secured in the harness.

Shape and texture matter too. Gentle ribbing can feel sensational during anal play, adding extra stimulation as the dildo moves. Our Wirly dildo collection combines slimmer proportions with sensual ribbing, making it a popular choice for pegging.

Can any dildo be used with a strap-on harness?

No. A dildo needs a wide, secure base and compatible shaft diameter to sit safely in the harness O-ring. Sh! silicone dildos have our signature heart-shaped base and are designed to be harness-compatible. Always check that your dildo and O-ring are a good match before play.

What lube should I use for pegging?

Lots! The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so generous lubrication is essential for comfortable pegging. We recommend a thick water-based lube, which provides plenty of glide and is compatible with silicone dildos. Reapply whenever you need more slip, and avoid numbing lubes — discomfort is an important signal to slow down or stop.

Can I use a strapless strap-on for pegging?

Yes, although strapless strap-ons can require more control and experience than a traditional harness and dildo. They work particularly well for close, grinding movements rather than vigorous thrusting. Some can also be paired with a compatible harness for extra stability and control.

How do I ensure pegging is pleasurable, not painful?

Pegging should feel pleasurable, not painful. Take your time, build plenty of arousal and warm up with fingers or smaller anal toys before moving onto a dildo. Use lots of water-based lube, start with a slimmer dildo and let the receiving partner guide the depth and pace.

Communication is key; check in with each other and never push through pain. If something hurts, stop, add more lube, slow things down or try a different angle. Relaxation, patience and plenty of lubrication make all the difference.

How do I clean pegging toys after use?

Wash Sh! silicone dildos thoroughly after every use with warm water and and mild soap (or spritz with toy cleaner) Air Dry.

Our leather harnesses need different treatment: don't soak them in water. Wipe them clean and allow them to dry fully before storing. Dont seal in plastic bag or airtight container as leather must be allowed to breathe.

Always store toys in a clean, fluff-free place, away from heat.

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