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Strap-On Kits EVERYTHING INCLUDED • READY TO PLAY • GIFT BOXED

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Our all-in-one strap-on kits include a handmade harness, premium dildo, lube and toy cleaner, carefully matched to help you start with confidence.

Handmade harness, dildo, lube and toy cleaner — everything you need for confident strap-on play.

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Strap-On Kit Guide

Friendly, expert advice to help you explore with confidence.

Everything You Need To Know Choosing & Using Strap-On Kits
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What’s Included in a Strap-On Kit?

Our strap-on kits take the guesswork out of putting everything together. Each set contains a silicone dildo, handmade leather harness, water-based lube and toy cleaner, presented in a storage box.

Everything is carefully matched for compatibility, so there are no O-rings, bases or harness fittings to figure out.

Sh! tip → Open the box, adjust the harness to fit, add plenty of lube and you’re ready to explore.

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Why Buy a Strap-On Kit?

Choosing a dildo and harness separately can feel a little daunting, especially when you're new to strap-ons. A kit gives you compatible pieces already selected to work beautifully together, plus the essentials for play and care.

Not sure where to start? Our Best Strap-On Kit brings together some of our best-selling strap-on favourites in one ready-to-play set.

Sh! tip → It’s an easy choice for first-timers, gifts, or anyone who’d rather skip the mix-and-match.

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Which Strap-On Kit Is Best for Beginners?

For a first strap-on, start with a slimmer dildo and a comfortable, adjustable harness. A smaller diameter is generally easier to get used to, whether you're exploring vaginal or anal penetration.

There’s no prize for starting big. You can always explore more length or girth once you know what feels good.

Sh! tip → For anal play especially, prioritise girth over length when choosing your starting size.

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How Do I Choose the Right Size Strap-On Kit?

Bigger isn’t better. Choose according to the receiver’s experience, comfort and preferred sensation, .

  • Slim → A gentler introduction and a good starting point for beginners.
  • Medium → More fullness without going straight to a larger size.
  • Large → Best for experienced receivers who already know they enjoy extra girth.

Sh! tip → Remember that a harness can reduce a dildo’s usable length slightly, so you may want a slightly longer dildo to account for this.

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Are Strap-On Kits Good for Pegging?

Yes. A strap-on kit can be an easy way to get started with pegging because the dildo and harness are already compatible, so there’s less to figure out before you play.

If you're new to anal penetration, choose a slimmer dildo, use plenty of lube and take your time. A gentle curve can also provide targeted prostate stimulation.

New to pegging? → Our Pegging Strap-On Dildo Kit pairs the essentials for anal strap-on play in one ready-to-go set.

Sh! tip → Let the receiver control the pace and depth, especially when you're exploring together for the first time.

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How Do I Clean & Share a Strap-On Kit Safely?

Clean your harness and dildo before and after every use (cleaning & care instructions come with each kit).

When moving a dildo between partners or between vaginal and anal use, wash it thoroughly first or put on a fresh condom before changing body/orifice. Never move directly from anus to vagina without cleaning the toy or changing the condom.

If you're sharing toys and want an easy hygiene barrier, using a new condom for each person or body area makes switching simpler.

Water-based lube is a good all-round choice and is compatible with silicone dildos.

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Strap-On Shopping Made Easy

Not sure which kit is right for you? Our guide takes you through some of our favourite ready-to-play strap-on kits, from beginner-friendly and pegging options to thigh, double and larger dildo sets, all carefully matched to take the guesswork out of choosing.

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Strap-On Kit Questions, Answered

What people ask most about our strap-on kits.

What’s the difference between buying a strap-on kit and separate pieces?

A strap-on kit gives you compatible pieces already matched together, so you don't have to work out which dildo, harness or O-ring fits what. Sh! kits also include the essentials for play and care, all together in a storage box.

Buying separately gives you more freedom to create your own combination of dildo and harness. It's a great option if you already know exactly what you like.

Sh! tip → If you're new to strap-ons or simply want to skip the mix-and-match, a kit makes things beautifully easy.

Can I choose the dildo size in a strap-on kit?

Our strap-on kits come in different dildo sizes and styles, so you can choose a set that suits the receiver's experience and preferences.

If you're new to penetration or pegging, a slimmer dildo is usually the gentlest place to start. If you already know you enjoy more fullness, you can explore a larger option.

Check the individual kit for its dildo measurements before choosing - girth is usually more important than length when it comes to comfort.

Can I ask for a different colour in my strap-on kit?

Yes, if you'd prefer a different available colour, get in touch with us before ordering and we'll let you know what we can do. As our silicone dildos are handmade, we can create what you would like.

Are the harnesses in strap-on kits adjustable?

Most of our strap-on kits include an adjustable harness, making it easy to create a secure, comfortable fit and allowing partners of different sizes to share the same harness.

Thong harness kits have less adjustability, so always check the individual kit description for sizing and adjustability.

Can I swap or replace parts of my strap-on kit later?

Yes. Your kit doesn't have to stay exactly as it arrived. Because the dildo and harness are separate pieces, you can build on your original set as you discover what you enjoy.

Try a different dildo size or shape, experiment with another harness style or replace individual pieces when needed — just make sure your chosen dildo and harness are compatible.

Sh! tip → Think of your first kit as a starting point rather than a forever fixed combination.

Can I use the dildo from my strap-on kit with another harness?

Yes - one of the lovely things about a two-part strap-on is that the dildo isn't permanently attached to the harness.

You can use your dildo with another compatible strap-on harness later, or introduce different compatible dildos to your existing harness. Just check the dildo base and O-ring size to make sure everything fits securely.

Can I make up my own strap-on kit?


Yes! Just contact us and we can tailor a strap-on kit specially for you, helping you choose a dildo and harness combination that works beautifully together.

Are strap-on kits good gifts?

They certainly can be. A strap-on kit takes away the job of choosing all the individual pieces and gives your lucky recipient a complete, beautifully presented set to explore.

Our kits come packaged in a storage box, making them a particularly fun gift for a partner, anniversary or pleasure-filled celebration.

Just make sure you know the recipient's preferences around dildo size and penetration before choosing - pleasure makes a much better surprise when the toy itself isn't one!