Pegging Harnesses
FIND YOUR FIT
From easy-to-adjust styles to supportive handmade leather designs, explore strap-on harnesses chosen for comfortable, secure pegging and confident control.
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Curious about pegging? You’re in the right place. Explore pegging toys for every level of experience, from beginner-friendly strap-on kits and comfortable harnesses to compatible dildos and accessories. Find the fit, feel and sensation that works for you and your partner.
Explore pegging toys for every level of experience, including strap-on harnesses, dildos and accessories for comfortable, confident play.
STRAP-ON COLLECTIONS
Explore harnesses, strap-on dildos, accessories, lube and more - everything you need to build your perfect strap-on set-up.
FIND YOUR FIT
From easy-to-adjust styles to supportive handmade leather designs, explore strap-on harnesses chosen for comfortable, secure pegging and confident control.
CHOOSE YOUR SIZE
From slimmer beginner-friendly sizes to fuller, curved and vibrating designs, explore our handmade Sh! silicone dildos for pegging. All are harness-compatible, so you can choose the shape, size and sensation that feels right for your play.
EVERYTHING YOU NEED
New to pegging or simply want an easy set-up? Our pegging kits pair a compatible strap-on harness and dildo, taking the guesswork out of choosing what works together.
BODY-TO-BODY PLAY
Skip the traditional straps for closer body-to-body contact. Strapless strap-ons can be worn on their own by more experienced users, or paired with a harness for extra stability, control and confidence.
GRINDERS, DILDO BASES & MORE
Add something extra to your pegging set-up. Explore grinders, vibrating accessories, dildo bases and other clever additions designed to bring more sensation and variety to strap-on play.
ESSENTIAL GLIDE FOR ANAL PLAY
Lube is essential for comfortable pegging play. Shop water-based lubes for plenty of long-lasting glide without worrying about compatibility with your silicone dildos and pegging toys.
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Quick Guide
Compare harnesses, dildos and strap-on styles to find the right fit for your body, pleasure and play.
Pegging is a type of strap-on play where one partner wears a dildo, usually in a harness, for anal penetration of another partner.
Despite the name, there are no rules about who can enjoy it. Pegging can be explored by people of different genders, bodies and sexualities - whether you’re curious about receiving, wearing or switching things up.
You don't need a mountain of kit. A simple pegging set-up consists of a comfortable harness, a compatible anal-safe dildo and plenty of lubricant.
Your dildo has the biggest impact on how pegging feels. For beginners, slimmer is usually better; more experienced players can explore extra girth, length or texture. pegging.
The best pegging harness is one that feels secure on the wearer and keeps the dildo stable while allowing comfortable movement.
Your first pegging experience isn't a performance. Give yourselves time to get comfortable, get aroused and work out what feels good.
Once you’ve got the basics, strap-on accessories and extras can add new sensations for the wearer, receiver — or both. From vibration to added stimulation at the base of your dildo, there are plenty of ways to personalise your pegging set-up.
Lube is essential for pegging because the anus doesn’t naturally produce enough lubrication for comfortable penetration.
Different pegging positions change the angle, depth and level of control. There’s no single “best” position — find what feels comfortable and pleasurable for both of you.
One useful thing to remember is dildo orientation. Positioning a curved dildo correctly in the harness can help it follow the natural curve of the rectum and, if the receiving partner has a prostate, provide more targeted prostate stimulation.
Sh! silicone dildos and leather harnesses are made to last - and a little TLC will keep them looking and feeling their best.
Real reviews from Sh! customers discovering pegging with our handmade harnesses, silicone dildos and strap-on kits.
Good purchase Beautiful and soft leather. Easily adjusts to fit. Looks and feels very sexy, really enjoyed first time peggingBeginner's Anal Strap-On Kit
Perfect for pegging! ... looks brilliant in the strap I bought from SH as well- perfect for first time pegging due to its textured shape and thin girth.Wirly 2 Dildo
The dildo is perfect for pegging - it was my boyfriend's first time and this was just the right size for him - not too intimidating while plenty stimulating.Pegging Strap-On Kit
WHY CHOOSE SH!
Handmaking pegging toys in the UK since 1993, we know a thing or two about comfortable harnesses, body-safe silicone dildos and feel-good pegging.
We’ve helped thousands of customers explore pegging - even advising couples on TV!
Slimmer dildos and easy-to-use sets make first pegging adventures feel less daunting.
Our silicone dildos and leather harnesses are handmade in the UK with pleasure in mind.
Pair your perfect harness and dildo, then switch things up as your pegging play evolves.
FEATURED GUIDE
We’ve been helping people explore strap-on play for decades — even giving couples a pegging masterclass on TV! From choosing your first harness and dildo to lube, fit and getting comfortable together, discover Sh!’s expert advice for confident, pleasurable pegging.
GOOD TO KNOW
What people ask about pegging toys.
For classic pegging, you’ll need a strap-on harness, a harness-compatible dildo and plenty of water-based lube. You can choose each piece separately or start with a pegging kit, which pairs compatible essentials together and takes the guesswork out of your first set-up.
Start slimmer rather than larger. Anal sensations can feel particularly intense, so a slim dildo is usually more comfortable for first-time pegging. Girth matters more than impressive-looking length, although you’ll want enough usable length for comfortable movement once the dildo is secured in the harness.
Shape and texture matter too. Gentle ribbing can feel sensational during anal play, adding extra stimulation as the dildo moves. Our Wirly dildo collection combines slimmer proportions with sensual ribbing, making it a popular choice for pegging.
No. A dildo needs a wide, secure base and compatible shaft diameter to sit safely in the harness O-ring. Sh! silicone dildos have our signature heart-shaped base and are designed to be harness-compatible. Always check that your dildo and O-ring are a good match before play.
Lots! The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so generous lubrication is essential for comfortable pegging. We recommend a thick water-based lube, which provides plenty of glide and is compatible with silicone dildos. Reapply whenever you need more slip, and avoid numbing lubes — discomfort is an important signal to slow down or stop.
Yes, although strapless strap-ons can require more control and experience than a traditional harness and dildo. They work particularly well for close, grinding movements rather than vigorous thrusting. Some can also be paired with a compatible harness for extra stability and control.
Pegging should feel pleasurable, not painful. Take your time, build plenty of arousal and warm up with fingers or smaller anal toys before moving onto a dildo. Use lots of water-based lube, start with a slimmer dildo and let the receiving partner guide the depth and pace.
Communication is key; check in with each other and never push through pain. If something hurts, stop, add more lube, slow things down or try a different angle. Relaxation, patience and plenty of lubrication make all the difference.
Wash Sh! silicone dildos thoroughly after every use with warm water and and mild soap (or spritz with toy cleaner) Air Dry.
Our leather harnesses need different treatment: don't soak them in water. Wipe them clean and allow them to dry fully before storing. Dont seal in plastic bag or airtight container as leather must be allowed to breathe.
Always store toys in a clean, fluff-free place, away from heat.
Expert Advice
What pegging is, how to do it and why it feels so good.