Lesbian Sex Toys
As a proud LGBT business, we specialize in lesbian sex toys! Our products are enjoyed by all genders & sexualities, but we've gathered the best toys for WLW couples & vulva-to-vulva pleasure that our lesbian customers & friends love. Check out our top picks & explore our lesbian sex & toy guides to learn more...
As a proud LGBT business, we specialize in lesbian sex toys! Our products are enjoyed by all genders and sexualities, but we've gathered the best toys for WLW couples and vulva-to-vulva pleasure that our lesbian customers and friends love. Check out our top picks and explore our lesbian sex and toy guides to learn more...
Why Shop Lesbian Sex Toys at Sh!?
Since 1992, Sh! has been the UK's first women-led sex shop, designed by lesbians for the queer community. Unlike mainstream adult stores, we understand WLW bodies, desires, and the unique joys of vulva-to-vulva intimacy. Every lesbian sex toy in our collection is chosen by queer women who actually use these products. From beginner-friendly vibrators to expert-level strap-on harnesses, we stock queer sex toys that work for real lesbian bodies and relationships.
Best Lesbian Sex Toys for WLW Couples
Strap-On Harnesses & Dildos: Our best-selling lesbian toys! Handcrafted leather harnesses designed specifically for WLW bodies, paired with body-safe dildos in every size. Perfect for exploring penetrative play with your partner. Whether you're curious beginners or experienced users, our strap-on kits make it easy.
Double-Ended Dildos: Classic WLW sex toys for simultaneous pleasure. These flexible, dual-sided dildos let both partners enjoy penetration together. Great for scissoring-style play or creative positions.
Vibrators for Couples: From wearable vibes to powerful wands, our couples sex toys enhance intimacy and pleasure. Use during foreplay, oral sex, or penetrative play. Many lesbian couples swear by bullet vibes and clitoral stimulators for adding extra sensation.
Clitoral Stimulators & Suction Toys: Designed for vulva-owners who prioritize external pleasure (that's most of us!). Air-pulse suction toys and precision vibrators deliver mind-blowing orgasms solo or partnered.
First Time Buying Lesbian Sex Toys?
New to sex toys? Start with our beginner-friendly collection featuring gentle vibrators, small dildos, and easy-to-use strap-on kits. We include detailed guides, sizing advice, and discreet packaging. Our queer-friendly customer service team is here to answer any questions (no judgment, ever!). Many lesbian customers begin with bullet vibes or slim dildos before exploring strap-ons or advanced toys.
Inclusive & Affirming Sex Toys
Our LGBT sex toys welcome all queer identities: lesbians, bisexual women, pansexual folks, non-binary people, and trans women. We stock trans-inclusive toys and gender-affirming products alongside our lesbian favorites. Whether you're femme, butch, or anywhere between, you belong here. We also carry feminist and queer lifestyle products to celebrate your identity beyond the bedroom.
Safe, Body-Positive, Queer-Affirming
Every lesbian sex toy we sell is body-safe (medical-grade silicone, no phthalates), easy to clean, and tested by our queer team. We've been serving the WLW community for 30+ years with honest advice, inclusive language, and products that actually work. All orders come with discreet UK delivery, educational resources, and the confidence that you're supporting a lesbian-owned business that gives back to LGBTQ+ charities.
Ready to explore pleasure on your terms? Browse our complete lesbian sex toy collection and discover why thousands of queer women trust Sh! for their intimate needs. Questions? Our lesbian team is here to help!
Popular Lesbian Sex Toy Collections
Clitoral vibrators are THE most popular vibes at Sh! Hardly surprising, as clitoral stimulation is central to most women & vulva-owner's orgasms. Any vibrator can be used externally, but here we've gathered together the best clit-stimulating vibrators to thrill your external sweet spot. Read our advice all about the clitoris and clitoral toys - it's a lot bigger and more complex than you might think...
Dildos are sex toys purely for penetrative pleasure. As dildo designers, we handmake over 30 different sizes of silicone dildos, all in sensual, ergonomic shapes & offer loads of dildo advice to help you find your perfect dildo-date.
Double dildos designed for 2x the pleasure! In body-safe materials & ergonomic designs, our double dils come in two different styles; extra-long, double-ended dildos for double penetration or sharing with a partner and 'strapless' for harness-free strap-on style sex. Read our double dildo advice to find your perfect dildo for two to share.
About the smallest & most discreet vibrator you can buy, a finger vibrator slips on your finger to enhance touch-based sex, & are fabulous for adding discreet but direct clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Solo or with a partner, a finger vibrator adds a buzz to your muff-shuffle, hand-job & nipple-tweaks. Read about finger vibrators & add finger-tip tingles to your play.
Our handcrafted strap-on harnesses are designed by lesbians for comfort, style, and a secure dildo fit. Perfect for beginners or pros, our adjustable, 5-star-rated harnesses make every session smooth and pleasurable. Discover the best strap-on harnesses for women, lesbians, and all pleasure seekers!
A Strapless is a U-shape double dildo, designed for lesbian or pegging couples to enjoy close, intimate strap-on style sex, harness-free. Strapless dildos are best for slow grinding & subtle moves, rather than wild thrusting. Every Strapless we select is body-safe & ergonomically in tune for body-to-body contact.
On this page, you'll find toys & products that are particularly favoured by our trans & non-binary customers. As we source more products, this page will grow! In the meantime, please let us know if you have any recommendations...
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Lesbian Sex Toy FAQ's
What's your best-selling toy for lesbian couples?
Women can have multiple orgasms, so with two WLW together - the possibilities are endless, which is why lube proudly features in most lesbian bedrooms!
We have many great sex toys for lesbian couples, but our Best Strap-On Kit, which features our best-selling dildo and strap-on harness, along with a bottle of lube (see above) and sex toy cleaner is a fabulous collection of lesbian sex toys, in one handy box!
How do I talk to my partner about using toys together?
Introducing sex toys to your lesbian relationship can add fun, playfulness and a LOT of thrills to your sex life.
It's not simply about the extra pleasure that toys can bring to your bedroom, either...
Opening up the conversation will help with communication, consent AND the future-proofing of your connection & desire.
The first step is to talk together about how you both feel about playing with sex toys together - it's important that this first conversation handled carefully, so nobody feel judged, replaced or insecure.
Don’t stress if you find you’re not on the same wave length at first; a bit of flirty bartering and negotiation goes a long way. Meet in the middle and look for any sex toy you’ll both enjoy playing with.
Teeny-tiny sex toys for fingers are usually easy to start off with. They are non-intrusive but still deliver a brilliant buzz.
Do all lesbians use sex toys?
The idea that all lesbians have over-flowing toy boxes, which they dip into everytime they have sex, is a myth that's enforced by p0rn and, we think, has it's roots in the age-old (patriarcal!) question about ' what DO lesbians do in bed? ( because, of course if there's no penis involved, then it can't really be sex - right!!?)
Having said that, surveys suggest that around 80% of lesbian & bisexual women use sex toys. This really isn't surprising as, by definition, lesbians & bi women are free from conventional constraints on female sexuality. So they are free-er to explore the delights that sex toys can deliver!
The bottom line is that using sex toys solo or together invites exploration, discovery and new ways to experience sensuality and pleasure.
What do I need to know about lesbian safe sex?
Use condoms on toys, cut-up condoms as barriers for oral sex and read more about safer lesbian sex .
Take a look at our lesbian sex advice for guides to exploring pleasure & intimacy specifically for WLW.
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