Strap-Ons & Harnesses
Harnesses, dildos and kits designed for comfortable, confident strap-on play.
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Discover sex toys chosen by our lesbian-founded team, backed by 30+ years of pleasure expertise. From strap-ons and dildos to vibrators and exclusive UK-made designs for sharing pleasure, intimacy and connection, however you like to play.
Discover lesbian sex toys, including strap-ons, dildos, vibrators and exclusive UK-made designs, thoughtfully chosen by a lesbian-founded team since 1992.
EXPLORE BY TOY
Find what feels right, solo or together.
Harnesses, dildos and kits designed for comfortable, confident strap-on play.
Body-safe dildos in shapes, sizes and styles for every kind of pleasure.
Hands-free toys designed for shared pleasure and connection, with no harness needed.
Flexible, double-ended dildos made for sharing pleasure together.
From bullets to wands, discover vibration for solo or shared pleasure.
Suction, bullets and targeted vibration for focused external pleasure.
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Shop sex toys for lesbians, from strap-ons and dildos to vibrators and toys for sharing. Use the filters to find your favourites.
Quick Guide
Not sure where to start? Here's our friendly guide to finding toys you'll love, whether you're buying for yourself or exploring together.
The right toy depends on the experience you want, not the biggest product. Here's a simple place to start:
You don't need the biggest toy to have the most fun. Many people begin with a slim dildo, bullet vibrator or beginner strap-on kit before discovering what they enjoy most.
Length isn't everything - girth and shape make just as much difference.
Different vibrators create very different sensations.
The best harness is the one that feels secure, comfortable and suits the way you like to play.
Both are designed for shared pleasure, but they create very different experiences.
LESBIAN SEX GUIDE
Wondering what lesbian sex is really like? Learn about oral sex, fingering, toys, lubricant, safer sex, positions and pleasure in our comprehensive guide, written by the lesbian-founded team at Sh!
WHY CHOOSE SH!
Chosen by a lesbian-founded team with over 30 years of expertise, our collection celebrates pleasure, intimacy and connection with body-safe toys we genuinely love and trust.
Chosen by lesbians, for lesbians and everyone who loves vulva-owning partners. Real experience shapes every collection.
Every toy is made from body-safe materials, including premium silicone, so you can explore with confidence.
Discover exclusive Sh! dildos, harnesses and handmade creations you won't find anywhere else.
No awkward sales talk. Just friendly, judgement-free guidance to help you find the toys that are right for you.
GOOD TO KNOW
What people ask us about lesbian sex toys.
Popular choices include strap-ons, double dildos, clitoral vibrators, finger vibrators and wand massagers. Some couples enjoy exploring penetration, while others focus on external stimulation or combining different toys. The best choice is the one that suits the kind of pleasure you enjoy together.
There's no single 'best' toy - it depends on what you'd like to explore. Many people start with a bullet vibrator, slim silicone dildo or beginner-friendly strap-on kit. If you're shopping together, finger vibrators and double dildos can also be a fun way to discover new sensations at your own pace.
Start by thinking about the kind of pleasure you're looking for. Clitoral vibrators are great for external stimulation, dildos offer penetrative play, while strap-ons and double dildos are designed for shared experiences. Our buying guide can help you find the right toy for the kind of pleasure you are seeking and the way you like to play.
Not at all. This collection has been curated with lesbian and vulva-owning partners in mind, but anyone can enjoy these toys. Pleasure isn't limited by identity, and everyone is welcome at Sh!.
Yes. We carefully choose body-safe products made from materials such as premium silicone, and many of our own exclusive dildos and harnesses are handmade in our UK workshop. We avoid porous materials wherever possible and provide care advice to help your toys last.
We recommend using a good-quality water-based lubricant with all silicone toys. Lubricant helps toys glide more comfortably, can enhance sensation and is compatible with every toy in our collection.
Absolutely. Many people combine toys to create different sensations - for example, using a clitoral vibrator alongside a dildo or strap-on, or adding a finger vibrator during partnered play. There are no rules; the best combination is whatever feels good for you.
Sh! has been lesbian-founded and women-owned since 1992. We combine over 30 years of expertise with honest, judgement-free advice, body-safe products and exclusive UK-made designs to help you shop with confidence.
Tips & Advice
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