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Easy to Use Lesbian Sex Toys Curated & Handmade by Women.
As a proud LGBT business, we specialize in lesbian sex toys! Our products are enjoyed by all genders & sexualities, but we've gathered the best toys for WLW couples & vulva-to-vulva pleasure that our lesbian customers & friends love. Check out our top picks & explore our lesbian sex & toy guides to learn more...
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LesbiansUnite!
We're blowing our own trumpet here but we do know a thing or two about that sets sapphic hearts racing when it comes to sex toys.
We're here to share with you everything we know, and have learned from our 1000's of lesbian customers...
WLW EXPERIENCE UNDER OUR BELT
For over 30 years, we advised lesbian couples everyday in our Hoxton, London store.
Lesbian sexuality is often hetero-normalised ( 'who's the man?'), overtly sexualized (long-nailed p0rn scenes), ridiculed (yeah, but what do you DO?) and shamed (society & religion - we're looking at you).
So for many, a trip to Sh! was a sapphic right of passage - an empowering experience that saw and celebrated true lesbian sexuality.
We've learnt everyday from the WLW solos & couples (and sometime thrupples) who came to the store and now shop with us online, and we're honoured that you trust us to share such a intimate part of your life with us.
WE'RE LESBIAN SEX TOYS CREATORS
We're a lesbian-owned biz. We design and make lesbian sex toys.
Our sensual, non-phallic dildos and adjustable strap-on harnesses have made tens of thousands of lesbian couples very, very happy over the years!
WE GET IT!
We understand, especially if you're not out, or have family, social or cultural constraints on being open about your sexuality, that it can feel scary ordering lesbian sex toys online...
Rest assured that, whilst we're out & proud about our mission & products, we're also the sole of discretion when it comes our parcels (which are SUPER discreet!) and our personalised service, which is always caring & considerate to you.
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Lesbian Sex Toy FAQ's
What's your best-selling toy for lesbian couples?
Women can have multiple orgasms, so with two WLW together - the possibilities are endless, which is why lube proudly features in most lesbian bedrooms!
We have many great sex toys for lesbian couples, but our Best Strap-On Kit, which features our best-selling dildo and strap-on harness, along with a bottle of lube (see above) and sex toy cleaner is a fabulous collection of lesbian sex toys, in one handy box!
How do I talk to my partner about using toys together?
Introducing sex toys to your lesbian relationship can add fun, playfulness and a LOT of thrills to your sex life.
It's not simply about the extra pleasure that toys can bring to your bedroom, either...
Opening up the conversation will help with communication, consent AND the future-proofing of your connection & desire.
The first step is to talk together about how you both feel about playing with sex toys together - it's important that this first conversation handled carefully, so nobody feel judged, replaced or insecure.
Make sure you are both on the same page. (Whipping out a dildo at an inopportune moment can go very wrong, trust us.)
Don’t stress if you find you’re not on the same wave length at first; a bit of flirty bartering and negotiation goes a long way. Meet in the middle and look for any sex toy you’ll both enjoy playing with.
Teeny-tiny sex toys for fingers are usually easy to start off with. They are non-intrusive but still deliver a brilliant buzz.
Don’t stress if you find you’re not on the same wave length at first; a bit of flirty bartering and negotiation goes a long way. Meet in the middle and look for any sex toy you’ll both enjoy playing with.
Teeny-tiny sex toys for fingers are usually easy to start off with. They are non-intrusive but still deliver a brilliant buzz.
Do all lesbians use sex toys?
Short answer. No, not ALL lesbians use sex toys. Sexuality has no bearing on whether or not someone uses sex toys: Some do, and some don't.
The idea that all lesbians have over-flowing toy boxes, which they dip into everytime they have sex, is a myth that's enforced by p0rn and, we think, has it's roots in the age-old (patriarcal!) question about ' what DO lesbians do in bed? ( because, of course if there's no penis involved, then it can't really be sex - right!!?)
Having said that, surveys suggest that around 80% of lesbian & bisexual women use sex toys. This really isn't surprising as, by definition, lesbians & bi women are free from conventional constraints on female sexuality. So they are free-er to explore the delights that sex toys can deliver!
The bottom line is that using sex toys solo or together invites exploration, discovery and new ways to experience sensuality and pleasure.
The idea that all lesbians have over-flowing toy boxes, which they dip into everytime they have sex, is a myth that's enforced by p0rn and, we think, has it's roots in the age-old (patriarcal!) question about ' what DO lesbians do in bed? ( because, of course if there's no penis involved, then it can't really be sex - right!!?)
Having said that, surveys suggest that around 80% of lesbian & bisexual women use sex toys. This really isn't surprising as, by definition, lesbians & bi women are free from conventional constraints on female sexuality. So they are free-er to explore the delights that sex toys can deliver!
The bottom line is that using sex toys solo or together invites exploration, discovery and new ways to experience sensuality and pleasure.
What do I need to know about lesbian safe sex?
It's a fallacy that lesbians (vulva-vulva sex) don't need to wrorry about safe sex - Studies have suggested that the lifetime risk of STIs among lesbians is similar to that of hetrosexual women (penis-vulva sex).
Use condoms on toys, cut-up condoms as barriers for oral sex and read more about safer lesbian sex .
Use condoms on toys, cut-up condoms as barriers for oral sex and read more about safer lesbian sex .
Want to know more?
Take a look at our lesbian sex advice for guides to exploring pleasure & intimacy specifically for WLW.
Take a look at our lesbian sex advice for guides to exploring pleasure & intimacy specifically for WLW.
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