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We're blowing our own trumpet here but we do know a thing or two about that sets sapphic hearts racing when it comes to sex toys.

We're here to share with you everything we know, and have learned from our 1000's of lesbian customers...

WLW EXPERIENCE UNDER OUR BELT

For over 30 years, we advised lesbian couples everyday in our Hoxton, London store.

Lesbian sexuality is often hetero-normalised ( 'who's the man?'), overtly sexualized (long-nailed p0rn scenes), ridiculed (yeah, but what do you DO?) and shamed (society & religion - we're looking at you).

So for many, a trip to Sh! was a sapphic right of passage - an empowering experience that saw and celebrated true lesbian sexuality.

We've learnt everyday from the WLW solos & couples (and sometime thrupples) who came to the store and now shop with us online, and we're honoured that you trust us to share such a intimate part of your life with us.

WE'RE LESBIAN SEX TOYS CREATORS

We're a lesbian-owned biz. We design and make lesbian sex toys.

Our sensual, non-phallic dildos and adjustable strap-on harnesses have made tens of thousands of lesbian couples very, very happy over the years!

WE GET IT!

We understand, especially if you're not out, or have family, social or cultural constraints on being open about your sexuality, that it can feel scary ordering lesbian sex toys online...

Rest assured that, whilst we're out & proud about our mission & products, we're also the sole of discretion when it comes our parcels (which are SUPER discreet!) and our personalised service, which is always caring & considerate to you.

Popular lesbian sex toys

Flick through for the low-down on top toys for lesbian sex, and why each make such popular choices...

Lube - THE Lesbian Essential.

OK, not strictly a 'sex toy' but water-based lube is THE most popular pleasure-enhancing product for all WLW customers at Sh! Why?

Because lesbian sex can go on and on (and ON;) Studies show that WLW sex sessions lasts twice as long as WLM, with the average lasting a very specific 57 minutes!

Coupled with the fact that, in our experience, lube doesn't hold the same stigma for lesbians as it can do for straight women (around not 'being wet enough') and it's no wonder that a bottle of lube is an essential add-on in every lesbian's shopping basket.

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Strap Ons - No lesbian fallacy!

Strap-on's are the most popular toys our lesbian & WLW customers buy from us at Sh!

And for good reason - a dildo, strapped into a harness, delivers intimate pleasure, leaving hands to explore elsewhere...

According to a survey by Autostraddle almost 60% of lesbians use strap-ons. At Sh! it's nearer 100%!

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Non-Phallic Dildos

When we first started Sh!, the only dildos you could buy were HUGE, 'realistic; ones, complete with veins & balls.

We didn't personally want this kind - mostly because their looks didn't appeal, but also because the balls made them unruly when worn in a strap.

So we set about creating our own range of sensual, ergonomic silicone dildos, in a wide range of sizes to suit every body. We're happy to say that our non-phallic dildos are super-popular with WLW.

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Strapless Lesbian Pleasures

A relatively new style of toy in the WLW toy box, strapless dildos appeal as they offer all the joys of strap-on sex, without the need for the actual strap.

Strapless dildos are great for super-intimate lesbian sex - think slow, grinding micro moves and close body contact...

However the 'operator' will need PC muscles of steel to keep the strapless dildo from slipping out, so the best position for strapless play is to have the receiver on top.

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Thrilling Lesbian Fingers!

Fingers are lesbian tools of the trade!

With clitoral stimulation central to 99% of lesbian sex and most clitorises requiring sustained stimulation in order to orgasm, a finger vibe is a great addition to the lesbian sex toy box ( and a godsend to lesbians with hand/finger issues, such as arthritis & carpal tunnel;)

With added vibration, fingers are transformed into buzzing digits that provide new ways to give and receive pleasure.

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Double Dildos = Shared Sensations

Traditional double dildos - extra long with a shaft at each end, are not just the stuff of lesbian p0rn films, they are a popular sex toy with real lesbian too!

They provide simultaneous penetration for each partner, along with hot visuals for both of you.

Problem is there are very few non-'realistic' designs available, which is why our selection of double dils is very select...

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Lesbian Pride

These toys, awash in gorgeous rainbow colours stimulate with PRIDE!

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Lesbian Sex Toy FAQ's

What's your best-selling toy for lesbian couples?

Women can have multiple orgasms, so with two WLW together - the possibilities are endless, which is why lube proudly features in most lesbian bedrooms!

We have many great sex toys for lesbian couples, but our Best Strap-On Kit, which features our best-selling dildo and strap-on harness, along with a bottle of lube (see above) and sex toy cleaner is a fabulous collection of lesbian sex toys, in one handy box!

How do I talk to my partner about using toys together?

Introducing sex toys to your lesbian relationship can add fun, playfulness and a LOT of thrills to your sex life.

It's not simply about the extra pleasure that toys can bring to your bedroom, either...

Opening up the conversation will help with communication, consent AND the future-proofing of your connection & desire.

The first step is to talk together about how you both feel about playing with sex toys together - it's important that this first conversation handled carefully, so nobody feel judged, replaced or insecure.

Make sure you are both on the same page. (Whipping out a dildo at an inopportune moment can go very wrong, trust us.)

Don’t stress if you find you’re not on the same wave length at first; a bit of flirty bartering and negotiation goes a long way. Meet in the middle and look for any sex toy you’ll both enjoy playing with.

Teeny-tiny sex toys for fingers are usually easy to start off with. They are non-intrusive but still deliver a brilliant buzz.

Do all lesbians use sex toys?

Short answer. No, not ALL lesbians use sex toys. Sexuality has no bearing on whether or not someone uses sex toys: Some do, and some don't.

The idea that all lesbians have over-flowing toy boxes, which they dip into everytime they have sex, is a myth that's enforced by p0rn and, we think, has it's roots in the age-old (patriarcal!) question about ' what DO lesbians do in bed? ( because, of course if there's no penis involved, then it can't really be sex - right!!?)

Having said that, surveys suggest that around 80% of lesbian & bisexual women use sex toys. This really isn't surprising as, by definition, lesbians & bi women are free from conventional constraints on female sexuality. So they are free-er to explore the delights that sex toys can deliver!

The bottom line is that using sex toys solo or together invites exploration, discovery and new ways to experience sensuality and pleasure.

What do I need to know about lesbian safe sex?

It's a fallacy that lesbians (vulva-vulva sex) don't need to wrorry about safe sex - Studies have suggested that the lifetime risk of STIs among lesbians is similar to that of hetrosexual women (penis-vulva sex).

Use condoms on toys, cut-up condoms as barriers for oral sex and read more about safer lesbian sex .