Dildos DILDOS To STRAP-ON • Double, Strapless & MORE

Start with the kind of sensation and the kind of play you want to explore.

• Soft & flexible → You want a silicone dildo
• Firm & weighty → Explore glass or metal dildos
• Wear with a harness → Choose a strap-on dildo
• Harness-free partner play → Explore strapless dildos
• Pleasure for two → Try a double-ended dildo
• Pegging → Take a look at Pegging Toys
• Anal pleasure → Choose an anal-safe dildo with a secure flared base.
• Sh! tip → There’s no universally perfect dildo - shape, size, firmness and how you want to use it all matter.
  

With penetrative toys, width usually makes more difference than length. You can control how deeply you insert a longer dildo, but too much girth can quickly become uncomfortable.

• Slim → Gentle and beginner-friendly, or simply for those who prefer a slimmer feel.
• Mid → More presence and fullness without going too large.
• Ample → For those who know they enjoy a fuller, stretchier sensation.
• For strap-ons → Allow for some usable length to be lost where the dildo sits in the harness ( more if both partners are curvier)
• Sh! tip → Check insertable length and diameter, not just overall size. Size is preference, not progression.
  

Material makes a surprisingly big difference to penetration.

• Silicone → Smooth, sensual and flexible, with some give for comfortable penetration.
• Glass → Hard, ultra-smooth and weighty for firm, precise pressure.
• Metal → Sleek and satisfyingly heavy for deep, focused pressure.
• Temperature play → Glass and metal can be gently warmed or cooled for extra sensation.
• Sh! tip → Consider firmness as well as size - a glass or metal dildo can feel more intense than similarly sized silicone.

There’s no one right technique. Add plenty of lube, start slowly and let your body tell you what feels good.

• Try shallow strokes around the sensitive vaginal or anal entrance before exploring deeper penetration.
• Experiment with angle, depth, pressure and rhythm rather than assuming faster or deeper will feel better.
• G-spot pleasure → A curved dildo can help direct pressure towards the front vaginal wall.
• Sh! tip → Penetration should feel pleasurable, not like something you need to endure. Slow down, add more lube or stop if your body says no.

Yes - provided the dildo and harness are compatible. Most strap-on harnesses hold a dildo securely using an O-ring or similar opening.

• A flared-base dildo is essential - otherwise the dildo will slip out of the harness.
• Interchangeable dildos let you change size, shape and sensation without buying another harness.
• Choosing size → Remember that some dildo length is lost inside the harness.
• Sh! tip → Check the dildo's base and your harness's O-ring size before pairing them.

Yes, but only if it's designed to be anal-safe. Anything inserted anally needs a sufficiently wide flared base, handle or other secure stopper to prevent it travelling completely inside.

• Start smaller than you think you need
• Use plenty of anal lube and take your time.
• Glass and metal can feel particularly intense because they have no give.
• Sh! tip → All dildos in our Anal Dildos collection are selected for safe anal use - never improvise with a toy that doesn't have a secure base.

Both are designed for shared pleasure, but they work quite differently.

• Double-ended dildo → Two penetrative ends allow partners to enjoy penetration simultaneously, using a shared push-pull motion.
• Strapless dildo → One end sits inside the giving partner while the longer end penetrates their partner.
• Sh! tip → Strapless dildos tend to suit rocking, grinding and close-body movement better than enthusiastic thrusting.

Lube makes penetration smoother and more sensual.

• Water-based lube → The easiest all-round choice and suitable for every dildo material.
• Silicone dildo → Water-based lube is the safest choice.
• Glass & metal → Either water-based or silicone-based lubes can be used.
• Anal play → Be generous with anal lube the anus doesn't self-lubricate.
• Sh! tip → When you're unsure about material compatibility, reach for a good water-based lube.

Clean your dildo before and after use to keep it fresh and ready for next time.

• Everyday cleaning → Wash with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner, then rinse thoroughly.
• Sterilising → Our silicone, glass and metal dildos can all be sterilised for a deeper clean.
• After washing → Dry completely and store somewhere clean and dry.
• Sharing → Sterilise between users or use a fresh condom/barrier.
• Switching body areas → Clean thoroughly before moving from anus to vagina.
• Sh! tip → Remove any bullet vibrator or other electronic component before washing or sterilising.