Are Sh! silicone dildos body-safe?

Yes. Our silicone dildos are made using premium platinum-cured silicone and are free from phthalates and porous materials commonly found in lower-quality toys.

Are all the colours and marbling identical?

No. Sh! dildos are hand-poured and individually marbled, making every piece slightly unique.

What makes a dildo safe for anal use?

Anal-safe dildos MUST have a flared base wide enough that it cannot slip through the anal sphincter. The base should be significantly wider than the insertable portion. T-bar bases, suction cup bases, or harness-compatible bases work well. Never use dildos without bases anally – the anus can create suction and pull toys inside, requiring emergency medical removal!

What size anal dildo should beginners start with?

Start with slim anal dildos under 1 inch (2.5cm) in diameter and 4-6 inches insertable length. Look for tapered tips that start small and gradually widen. This gentle introduction helps your body adjust comfortably. You can always size up later! Starting too large risks pain, tearing, or lasting discomfort. Patience and proper sizing make all the difference.

Can I use the same dildo for vaginal and anal play?

Yes, BUT with critical hygiene rules: NEVER go from anus to vagina without thorough cleaning or changing condoms. The bacteria from anal play can cause serious vaginal or urinary infections. Going from vagina to anus is fine. Use condoms on dildos for easy cleanup and safer toy sharing. Always clean thoroughly between different body cavities!

Do anal dildos feel different than vaginal dildos?

Yes! The anus has tighter muscles and different nerve endings than the vagina. Anal play creates fullness and pressure sensations rather than the stretching feeling of vaginal penetration. For men, anal dildos can stimulate the prostate. For everyone, the anal sphincter muscles create unique pleasure during insertion and removal. Texture and curves feel more intense anally due to tighter muscles.

Should anal dildos be curved or straight?

This depends on your anatomy and goals! Curved anal dildos can target the prostate (for men/prostate owners) or create different angle sensations. Straight dildos provide direct in-and-out thrusting without anatomical targeting. Beginners often prefer straight, smooth dildos for easier insertion and control. Curved dildos work well once you understand your body's responses and angles.

What material is best for anal dildos?

Silicone is ideal – body-safe, smooth, easy to sterilize, and available in various firmness levels. Glass and stainless steel are excellent (rigid, easy to clean, temperature play), but have no flexibility. Avoid porous materials (jelly, rubber, PVC) – they harbor bacteria and can't be sterilized. For anal play, material safety and cleanability are critical. Always choose non-porous, body-safe options!

How much lube do I need for anal dildos?

MORE THAN YOU THINK! The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so generous lube is essential for comfort and safety. Apply thick layers to both the dildo and your anus. Reapply frequently during play. Use thick, long-lasting lubes (silicone or hybrid). Water-based dries faster but is safe with all toys. There's no such thing as too much lube for anal play – when in doubt, add more!

Can anal dildos be used with harnesses?

Yes! Anal dildos with flared bases or suction cup bases work with strap-on harnesses. Ensure the base diameter matches your harness O-ring size (typically 1.5-2 inches). Harnesses provide hands-free thrusting control and are perfect for pegging or partnered anal play. Check that your dildo base is wide enough to prevent slippage through the O-ring during vigorous use!

Duchess Vibrating Dildo - Sh! Women's Store

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Sh! Women's Store

Duchess Vibrating Dildo

Name: Duchess Vibrating Dildo
Brand: Sh! Women's Store
Price: 59.0 GBP
Availability: OutOfStock

£59.00

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Platinum-cured silicone • Designed to stay put • Materials matter

6 x 1.5 Inch Silicone Dildo with Added Buzz, Designed & Crafted in UK

At a Glance:

✦ Elegant dildo with a removable bullet vibrator hidden in its base

✦ Worn in a strap-on, delivers vibration to both partners

✦ 100% body-safe silicone

✦ Grooved shaft & rounded G-spot & prostate-seeking head

✦ Ethically Handmade by Sh! ® in UK with 1-year guarantee

Full Description

Duchess Vibrating Dildo is an elegant dildo offering effortless penetration.

At 6-inches long with sensual grooves running down its 1.5-inch diameter shaft to provide extra sensation and a full, pleasurably rounded head designed to stimulate the G-spot or P-spot, Duchess delivers sensational internal pleasure along with the added thrill of vibration.

With a small, removable bullet hidden in its base, Duchess delivers vibration along with penetration for the lucky recipient. When worn in a harness, it also delivers vibration right where it's placed, dispersing its subtle buzz directly to the pubic area of the strap-on operator and making it easier to orgasm whilst wearing a strap-on.

Duchess Vibrating Dildo features a 3-speed, rechargeable bullet (worth £19). We recommend setting the highest speed before inserting the bullet into the dildo. The on/off button is on the side of the bullet, which can make it tricky to change settings mid-thrust.

Made from 100% body-safe silicone and with our signature heart-shaped base, Duchess Dildo can be worn in a harness or used by hand and is also perfectly safe for anal play.

Silicone warms to body temperature quickly and is hypoallergenic, non-porous, and super easy to clean. It can even be sterilized, meaning you can share it, or use it as both a vaginal and an anal dildo (cleaning in-between) with no worries.

Lube enhances all sex toy play, and we recommend using water-based lube with the Duchess dildo.

Pro Tip: Slick some lube onto the vibrating bullet, and it'll be easier to insert and remove.

Here's how to charge the vibrating bullet:

Gently insert the tip of the charging pin into the hole and leave it to charge. As with any rechargeable product, please don't leave the bullet unattended while charging.

Playable Length

LONG: 6 INCH OR MORE

Playable Width

MID: 1.25"-1.75" (2-3 Fingers)

Volume

QUIET

Intensity

QUIET

Sex Tip

Remove the bullet and use its incredible buzz to stimulate any area - this powerful little pleasure-provider is a brilliant addition to any toy box!

Tech Spec

Dildo
Material: Silicone
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length: 162mm / 6.38 inch
Playable Length: 154mm / 6.06 inch
Diameter (at widest): 38mm / 1.50 inch
Weight: Medium (185g)
Waterproof: Yes
Lube: Water-Based Only

Bullet
Material: Plastic
Actual Length: 45mm / 1.75 inch
Playable length: 45mm / 1.75 inch
Diameter (at widest): 20mm / 0.8 inch
Power: USB Recharger
Supplied with Toy: Yes
Intensity on full power: Strong on its own, but medium inside dildo
Volume on full power: Quiet
Offers: 3
Waterproof: No

Care & Cleaning of Duchess Vibrating Dildo: (Remove bullet first) Use Sh! Toy Cleaner/Soap/10% bleach solution/rubbing alcohol. Rinse thoroughly. To sterilize: Boil for 3 minutes/dishwasher (top rack). Avoid breaking the surface of your dildo. Keep away from direct heat or sunlight. Store in a clean and dry, fluff-free place.

Bullet - Remove & clean separately with Sh! Toy Cleaner or antibacterial soap. Wipe to rinse, taking care not to get water in the recharging point.

Why Choose a Sh! Vibrating Dildo?

Thoughtfully designed for shared pleasure, our vibrating dildos combine premium silicone, real-world expertise and the added thrill of vibration for both partners. Smaller dildos offer a stronger buzz through the shaft, while larger sizes deliver a softer, more diffused sensation.

Vibration Inc.

Every dildo comes with a rechargeable bullet vibe that slots neatly into the base. No extras needed.

Shared Sensations.

Vibration stimulates both wearer and receiver, creating exciting possibilities for shared pleasure.

Designed For Harness Play.

Secure, comfortable and designed to position vibration where it can be enjoyed by both partners.

✓ Rechargeable bullet included

✓ Vibration at the base & through the shaft

✓ Vibration for both partners

✓ Premium platinum-cured silicone

✓ Hand-poured in the UK

✓ Created by people who use them

Duchess Vibrating DildoFAQs

Everything you need to know about Duchess.

What makes Duchess different?

Duchess is thoughtfully contoured, with a pronounced, rounded head - it's sensual, satisfying and easy to enjoy

Is Duchess suitable for beginners?

At 6 inches long with a 1.5 inch diameter shaft Duchess is good for beginners who know the size won't overwhelm them. If you're unsure, we're always happy to help you choose.

What does the shape of Duchess do?

Duchess combines a slimmer shaft and a bulbous head that is particularly designed for for focused G-spot or prostate stimulation.

Is Duchess firm or flexible?

Duchess offers a pleasing balance of firmness and flexibility. It feels substantial while still having enough give for comfort during use.

Who is Duchess best suited to?

Duchess is ideal for anyone looking for a goldilocks G-spot or P-spot dildo (not too big, not too small) that's beautifully made and feels luxurious.

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Good To Know

Everything else you might be wondering before you welcome your new dildo home.

Body-safe platinum-cured silicone

Our dildos are made from premium platinum-cured silicone, widely regarded as the gold standard for body-safe sex toys. It's non-porous, durable, easy to clean and designed to last for years.

Cleaning & care

Wash before and after use with warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap. Leave to air dry and store in a clean, dry, fluff-free place. For a deeper clean, silicone dildos can be sterilised by boiling for 3 minutes or placing them on the top rack of a dishwasher.

Lubricant guide

We recommend using a quality water-based lubricant with all silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricants can affect the surface of silicone toys over time.

Harness compatible

Our silicone dildos are designed to work beautifully with Sh! harnesses and many other compatible harness systems. They sit securely and comfortably, so you can focus on what feels good.

Returns

We know choosing the right dildo can feel daunting. If you're unsure, get in touch before ordering and we'll happily help. Unused dildos in their original sealed packaging may be returned in accordance with our returns policy.

Discreet delivery

100% yes. We don't use fulfilment centres — we personally wrap and pack every order in-house. If anything, we probably go a little overboard with the tape. Your parcel arrives plain, secure and discreet, with no mention of Sh! on the outside — just a small return address on the shipping label.

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