Buying a sex toy can be a thrilling adventure, but gifting one? That’s next-level excitement! There’s something truly special about choosing a toy that says, ‘I know what you’ll love, and I want to bring you orgasmic joy.’
Before we dive in, let’s get one thing straight: at Sh!, we don’t do inflatable gag gifts. If you’re after a blow-up sheep for a stag party, we’re not your people. There are plenty of other sites for that kind of ‘fun,’ so feel free to explore elsewhere!
Still with us? Fantastic! That means you’re looking for something meaningful, playful, and designed with pleasure in mind. Lucky for you, we’ve got pages of high-quality, thoughtful options to explore. So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let us guide you through the art of sex toy gifting.
How to choose a beautiful sex toy gift
Unless your recipient has specifically requested a realistic dildo, it’s best to steer clear of replica, chopped-off body parts. Instead, opt for a beautifully designed toy crafted from luxurious, body-safe materials - they’ll thank you for it (and maybe reward you later!).
If your budget allows, go for a rechargeable sex toy. Yes, they’re a little pricier, but the quality, durability, and eco-friendly perks make them worth it. Plus, they charge up anywhere, making them the perfect travel companion for pleasure on the go.
When it comes to size, smaller is often smarter. Trust us - over the years, we’ve gently talked down many a well-meaning buyer convinced that bigger is always better. Unless your partner has specifically said, ‘I want a 10-inch dildo,’ leave Mr. Big John on the shelf and go for something more modest.
Here’s a tip: our most popular toys are about two fingers wide in girth (yes, we measure toys in fingers!). That’s a lot smaller than the oversized props you see in porn. Remember, porn stars are like sexual Olympians - most people prefer something more relatable, and smaller toys can be far more versatile and approachable.
Next, think about the type of pleasure you’re shopping for - internal or external?
Contrary to popular belief (thanks, porn!), not all women or vulva-owners are clamoring for toys that go inside. Choosing an internal toy can feel deeply intimate, so unless you’re already lovers, asking about their experience later might get awkward.
For a gift that’s guaranteed to please, a clitoral vibrator is a winning choice. Most women and vulva-owners rely on clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so it’s a safer, more thoughtful bet - and a surefire way to earn some serious brownie points!
How to buy a sex toy for a shy friend
If you’re shopping for a shy friend, gentle is the way to go. A small, adorable gift is far more likely to be used (and loved), so save the bigger toys for your personal collection. This sleek bullet vibrator is perfect for a newbie - it’s chic, compact, and comes with 10 speeds to play with. Bonus? It’s waterproof, so they can take their self-care routine to the shower!
When gifting, skip the nudge-nudge, wink-wink moments - they’ll probably just make your friend blush in all the wrong ways. Let them enjoy their gift in peace and on their terms.
Oh, and don’t forget about discretion! If your friend lives with family or flatmates, noisy toys can be a buzzkill (pun intended). Larger toys like wands can be louder, so check the volume rating in the product details before you buy. Quiet, powerful, and oh-so-pretty? That’s the sweet spot.
Buying a gift for a sex toy aficionado
Got a friend who’s loud and proud about their love of sex toys? Time to think outside the box - literally! The goal here is to surprise and delight them with something unique, not just add another twin to their toy collection. Feeling sneaky? Casually ask what’s new on the market or what they’ve been eyeing lately (you know, “for yourself”).
The Nymph Clit-Licking Vibrator is the perfect standout addition to any toy box. Its silky silicone wheel spins in teasing circles, offering soft licks and flicks on all the most sensitive spots. With 9 speeds and 6 clit-licking modes, this hot-pink beauty knows how to keep things interesting.
Oh, and did we mention it’s waterproof? Whether it’s me-time in the bath or a steamy shower session, this gift is guaranteed to give and give again...
Buying a sex toy for a lover
This one’s a little different - and even more fun - because if you play your cards right, you’ll get to watch your partner enjoying their gift!
Couples’ sex toys are a game-changer, boosting both orgasm reliability and playful connection. The first question is: is this a toy for when you’re apart or for heating things up together?
If distance is part of the plan, go for an app-controlled toy. These high-tech treats let you both play from anywhere - whether it’s across the couch or across the world. Yes, they’re a bit pricier (you’re paying for the tech, babes), but trust us, it’s worth it for the endless possibilities.
For something you’ll enjoy together in real time, remote-controlled vibrators are pure magic. From wearable vibes to couples’ rings, there’s a style for every mood. These toys are perfect for spicing things up at home - or if you’re feeling daring, out in public. There’s nothing quite like the thrill of watching your partner squirm as you secretly scroll through the settings… Talk about taking control!
Sex toy gifts for men & penis owners
Penis toys have had a major glow-up, and we’ve curated a cherry-picked selection of top-notch treats for penises and prostates alike. If you’re looking for the ultimate no-fail gift, Tenga products reign supreme. They’re cute, effective, and budget-friendly. Tenga Eggs, in particular, are crowd favorites. They’re so popular, we’ve even had forward-thinking mums snapping them up for their frisky teenage sons (yes, really!).
Prostate play is also having its well-deserved moment, and we’ve got some amazing tush-friendly toys to explore. For those new to anal play, starting small is key - and these vibrating anal beads are perfect for beginners. Made of silky silicone, the beads feature a removable bullet vibrator with 7 sexy modes.
For the cherry on top (or bottom!), don’t forget to include a bottle of lube. Trust us - it’s the secret ingredient for an unforgettable experience.
Wrap it up
A gorgeous gift deserves equally gorgeous wrapping. Take a moment to dress up your prezzie - it’s all part of the fun! If gift-wrapping isn’t your forte, don’t stress - we’ve got you covered. All our goodies are lovingly wrapped in tissue paper, and we’re more than happy to add an extra touch for those extra special gifts.
Now, as tempting as it might be to watch them unwrap a sex toy in front of family and friends, just don’t. Trust us - there’s nothing sexy about Grandma’s raised eyebrow. Instead, keep it classy: if the occasion calls for a public unwrapping, go with something like flowers or chocolates to keep the 'oohs' and 'ahhs' flowing. Save the spicy surprise for a more private moment - it’ll be worth the wait.
Gifts for across the miles
Shopping for someone special who’s far away? Skip the customs chaos and go for an online gift voucher or an educational sex course instead! Thanks to Brexit, parcels often get stuck in customs limbo, with the unlucky recipient footing the bill to free their very thoughtful gift. Talk about a buzzkill!
A gift voucher says, 'I care,' while letting them have all the fun of picking out their perfect treat. If you want to go the extra mile, why not surprise them with a Shush Life course? These pre-recorded gems deliver hours of pleasure - and we’re not just talking about the watching part. They’ll learn sexy new skills to take their enjoyment to the next level. Plus, they can revisit the course anytime, making it a gift that truly keeps on giving.
