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Find a harness that fits your body and the way you want to play. Explore adjustable leather, vegan and easy pull-on styles for different bodies, dildo sizes and experience levels.
Find your fit. Explore leather, vegan and easy pull-on harnesses for different bodies, dildo sizes and ways to play.
Compare The Styles
A quick guide to choosing the right harness for your body, dildo and way you like to play.
Our classic handmade leather harness. Comfortable, adjustable and easy to fit, it's a brilliant choice whether you're buying your first harness or treating yourself to an upgrade.
Designed for maximum stability and support. Perfect if you prefer larger dildos, longer sessions or simply want an exceptionally secure fit.
Combining the look of classic corsetry with the strength of premium leather, this striking harness is made for those who love beautifully crafted strap-on gear.
Handmade in soft, supple leather, with deep elasticated sides that ensure a snug fit, it's quick and easy to pull on and comfortable to wear under clothes.
A comfortable underwear-style harness that's quick to pull on, making spontaneous strap-on play feel easy and natural.
A lightweight vegan harness that's easy to wear, simple to adjust and ideal if you're looking for an animal-friendly alternative to leather.
Handmade from thick, durable rubber, this classic harness is tough, easy to clean and ideal if you want a practical harness that's built to last
Handmade from durable rubber with a cushioned front panel for extra comfort and support. Easy to clean, built to last and ideal if you prefer a more substantial harness.
Worn around the thigh rather than the hips, this leather harness creates different angles and positions for partner play.
Explore the Collection
Shop leather, rubber and underwear-style harnesses, or use the filters to find your fit.
Quick Guide
Harness advice to help you shop with confidence.
Your dildo determines which harness will work best. If you're planning to use a larger or heavier dildo, choose it first so you can pair it with a harness that offers the right support.
Buying Your First Dildo Harness
Buying your first harness doesn't have to be complicated. Start with an adjustable harness, a body-safe silicone dildo and a comfortable size. Our beginner kits make choosing easy.
Different strap-on harness styles offer different levels of support, adjustability and ease of use.
A secure harness gives you better control and more confidence. If you're between sizes, choose the smaller size and adjust the straps for a snug fit.
Take your time, use plenty of water-based lubricant and communicate throughout. Guide the dildo into place with your hand rather than relying on thrusting alone.
A little care keeps your harness looking and performing its best. Different materials need slightly different care.
Over 30 years of helping people find a dildo harness that fits comfortably, feels secure and works beautifully for their kind of play.
Fantastic strap, really holds in place. Can go for as long as you need without coming loose.Leather 2-Strap Harness
Absolutely excellent in every way So comfortableThong Harness
Great quality, met every expectation Easy to use, comfortable, well made.Super Harness
Super sexy harness! I absolutely love wearing it and it feels/looks luxuriousCorset Harness
If i could give this product more than five stars i would do. It is comfortable and friendly to use.Thigh Harness
Makes me feel powerful!!! Super high quality item! Love all of the buckles and the customisation of the fit which can be created.Deluxe Rubber Harness
WHY CHOOSE SH!
Handmade in the UK since 1993, our harnesses are designed for comfort, confidence and years of strap-on adventures.
Handmade in our own dedicated workshop since 1993.
Created through decades of real-world strap-on experience.
Choose your harness, then pair it with the dildo that suits you.
Quality materials and expert craft(wo)manship for years of pleasure.
GOOD TO KNOW
Everything you need to know about dildos harnesses.
A dildo harness is a harness, belt or pair of pants that holds a wide-base dildo securely in place for strap-on sex or pegging, allowing the wearer to pleasure their partner hands-free. Most harnesses position the dildo on the pubic area, while thigh harnesses offer a completely different experience by wearing the dildo on the leg for unique angles and positions. If you're new to strap-on play, read our How to Choose a Dildo Harness guide.
For most first-time buyers, we recommend an adjustable harness paired with a medium-sized body-safe silicone dildo. If you're unsure where to start, our First Strap-On Kit pair everything you need in one bundle.
Usually, yes. Most harnesses are designed to work with a range of compatible wide-base dildos, and many have interchangeable O-rings to accommodate different diameters. If you plan to use particularly large or heavy dildos, choose a harness designed to provide extra support.
Yes. Most harnesses are designed to hold wide-base dildos, which sit securely behind the O-ring. Dildos without a flared or wide base aren't suitable for most harnesses because they can slip through or become unstable during use.
If you're buying your first setup, choose a compatible wide-base dildo or one of our ready-matched strap-on kits.
Not always. Most harnesses hold standard-sized dildos, but larger or heavier dildos need more support. Our Super Strap-On and Corset Back harnesses are ideal if you're planning to use larger dildos.
A dildo harness should feel snug enough to keep the dildo stable without digging into your body. If it moves around while you're wearing it, tighten the straps slightly. A secure fit gives you better control and makes strap-on play more comfortable for both partners.
Leather is durable and moulds to your body over time.
Rubber is easy to clean and ideal for wet or messy play.
Fabric harnesses are lightweight, comfortable and quick to put on.
The main reason we don't carry all-in-one strap-on harnesses with a dildo attached is because they are IMPOSSIBLE to clean properly.
Separate harnesses and dildos are easier to clean, fit better and let you change sizes without replacing the whole harness.
Tips & Advice
Buying guides, beginner tips and expert advice to help you choose, use and care for your dildo harness with confidence.
