Clit-Stimulating Prostate Toys

The Prostate gland is about a finger’s length inside a penis-owner's anal canal ( vulva-owners don't have one) It's an erogenous zone about the size of a walnut, which swells and becomes easier to locate when the prostste-owner is turned on.

Slowly tease the anus before gliding a lubed-up fingertip past the first sphincter and deeper inside. A second sphincter is located inside the ass, and this one can't be controlled by will. Relax, and wait for it to 'invite' you further in. Once you are fully in, gently feel for the prostate. This gland feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining.

A prostate massager is a sex toy designed to stimulate the prostate gland. Playing with this highly erotic area can result in intense, multiple orgasms - sometimes hands-free!

Prostate massagers are ergonomically designed with a curved arm that slips inside and a flat base that rests against the perineum. Some prostate massagers offer vibrations, whereas others don't. Vibrations can help relax the butt, so choosing a vibe prostate massager gives more options to explore :)

A prostate massager is ergonomically designed to reach and stimulate the prostate gland (P-spot), located two or three inside the male anal canal. Sensual stimulation of this erogenous zone can result in intense, hands-free orgasms. Using a prostate massager makes it easier to reach and pleasure this area.

First of all, ensure you are turned on and warmed up. Fantasize or watch something sexy, play with the penis and stroke & tease the anus with lubed-up fingers.
- Once you feel ready, apply an anal lube to the curved arm of the massager before slowly slipping inside the anus.
- Go slow. Prostate pleasure is not something to rush.
- Once the prostate massager is in, the lower portion will rest flat against the perineum.
- If the prostate massager is a vibrating version, try turning it on. Start at lowest setting - vibrations feel more intense inside your butt, and going too hard too fast may need you peeling off the ceiling!
- Rocking the massager back and forth allows you to play with the prostate - and may end up in an intense orgasm!

Yes, yes and YES. The rectum isn't self-lubricating, and inserting something without the essential lube can cause tears (literally).

Yes, the prostate massagers we sell at Sh! are 100% safe. They are made from body-safe material, free from chemicals and phthalates. They have super-safe bases, ensuring they will never slip up your butt. Just add lashings of lube, go slow and let your fantasies take you away on a pleasure trip...
Please note: If your Prostate Massager features a removable bullet vibrator, do not use the bullet as an anal stimulator on its own. That play sesh is likely to finish in A&E! #NotSafe

Start with a small, simple prostate toy (under 1 inch diameter) without vibration. Look for smooth silicone, curved shapes, and easy-grip bases. The Aneros Helix or similar manual massagers are perfect for first-timers. Avoid large, complex, or vibrating toys until you're comfortable with basic anal play and have located your prostate.

Yes! Many users report prostate orgasms are more intense, longer-lasting, and feel qualitatively different from penile orgasms. Prostate stimulation activates different nerve pathways, creating "whole-body" sensations. Some people achieve hands-free orgasms or multiple orgasms through P-spot play. Results vary by individual, but most users find prostate pleasure uniquely powerful.

Absolutely! Prostate pleasure has nothing to do with sexual orientation. The prostate is an anatomical feature of male bodies that responds to stimulation regardless of who you're attracted to. Many straigh

It depends on personal preference! Manual prostate massagers (like Aneros) rely on body movement and muscle contractions for stimulation – great for subtle, meditative sessions. Vibrating prostate stimulators deliver direct, intense sensation – perfect for those who love vibration. Try manual first to learn your anatomy, then add vibration if desired.

Prostate orgasms can take time to achieve, especially at first. Some people reach climax in 15-20 minutes, while others need multiple sessions to "rewire" their body's pleasure response. Be patient, experiment with positions and pressure, and don't rush. Many users report the journey of exploration is as pleasurable as the destination!

Beginners should start with slim toys (0.75-1 inch diameter). Intermediate users can try 1-1.5 inches. Experienced users may enjoy 1.5+ inches or textured designs. Bigger isn't always better – the prostate is only walnut-sized, so precise targeting matters more than size. Focus on shape, curve, and material quality over dimensions.