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Our handcrafted strap-on harnesses are designed by lesbians for comfort, style, and a secure dildo fit. Perfect for beginners or pros, our adjustable, 5-star-rated harnesses make every session smooth and pleasurable. Discover the best strap-on harnesses for women, lesbians, and all pleasure seekers!
Our handcrafted strap-on harnesses are designed by lesbians for comfort, style, and a secure dildo fit. Perfect for beginners or pros, our adjustable, 5-star-rated harnesses make every session smooth and pleasurable. Discover the best strap-on harnesses for women, lesbians, and all pleasure seekers!
Strap-on harnesses transform penetrative play for lesbian couples, straight couples exploring pegging, and anyone seeking hands-free pleasure. Unlike handheld dildos, a strapon harness keeps the dildo secure and stable, letting you focus on connection, rhythm, and pleasure. Whether you're new to pegging harnesses or an experienced wearer, the right harness makes all the difference: no slipping, no fumbling, just confident, comfortable intimacy.
Leather Strap-On Harnesses: Our premium leather strapon harnesses are handcrafted in the UK for durability, style, and comfort. Leather harnesses offer superior support for larger dildos, stunning aesthetic appeal, and long-lasting quality. Perfect for those who want a harness that looks as good as it feels.
Fabric & Nylon Harnesses: Lightweight, washable, and beginner-friendly. Fabric strap-on harnesses are easy to adjust, comfortable for extended wear, and typically more affordable than leather. Great for first-time buyers or anyone who prefers softer materials.
Jock-Style Harnesses: Minimalist harnesses with a sporty, gender-affirming design. Jock-style strap-ons offer maximum breathability and a masculine aesthetic. Popular with trans men, non-binary folks, and anyone who loves the athletic look.
G-String & Thong Harnesses: Feminine strap-on harnesses designed for the wearer's pleasure too. Many feature built-in pockets for bullet vibes, making these perfect for double-ended pleasure. Flattering, sexy, and functional.
Universal O-Ring Harnesses: Interchangeable O-rings fit various dildo sizes, making these the most versatile option. One harness, endless possibilities. Ideal for those with multiple dildos or who want to start with a strap-on dildo kit and expand their collection.
Traditional strap-on harnesses use straps and O-rings for a secure, stable fit – perfect for vigorous play, larger dildos, and beginners who want reliable performance. Strapless dildos (also called double-ended or feeldoes) rely on the wearer's pelvic floor muscles to hold them in place. While strapless options offer unique intimacy, harnesses provide superior stability and control. Many users prefer harnesses, especially for pegging or extended sessions.
For Beginners: Start with an adjustable fabric harness or a complete strap-on kit with harness and dildo included. Look for easy-to-use buckles, clear sizing guides, and beginner-friendly dildos.
For Lesbian Couples: Our lesbian strap-on harnesses are designed with queer bodies in mind – comfortable waistbands, flattering fits, and options for all gender expressions. Choose leather for durability or fabric for easy care.
For Pegging: Pegging harnesses need excellent stability and adjustability. Leather or jock-style harnesses work best for vigorous thrusting. Pair with strap-on accessories like lube and cleaning supplies.
For Plus-Size Bodies: Many of our harnesses extend to 60+ inch waists. Look for wide waistbands and extra-long straps for comfort and support.
Every Sh! strap-on harness is handmade in our London workshop with premium materials: vegetable-tanned leather, heavy-duty nylon, and rust-proof hardware. We pioneered lesbian-designed harnesses in the UK, and our Sh! exclusive harnesses remain customer favorites 30+ years later. All harnesses come with fitting guides, care instructions, and our legendary customer service. Ready to explore strap-on play? Browse our complete collection of harnesses, dildos, and accessories for unforgettable pleasure!
Our handmade dildo harness designs are unique! Ultra-comfy, stylish, & practical to secure a dildo to your hips or thigh for strap-on or pegging play with your partner. Complimenting our range is the orginal underwear-style Rodeohs... Read about how to choose a dildo harness & get your strap-ON!
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Strap-on extras to add something more to your strap on session; An extra dildo or buzz for the Strap-On operator? Extra sensations for the strap-on receiver? You'll find all the ways to enhance your strap-on play here!
Our strap-on dildo kits make strapon shopping easy. Specially selected from our best-selling products, each kit contains everything you need for a night of strap on seduction; hand-made silicone dildo & soft leather harness, plus lubricant & toy cleaner, all gift-packaged in a gift-style storage box.
A Strapless is a U-shape double dildo, designed for lesbian or pegging couples to enjoy close, intimate strap-on style sex, harness-free. Strapless dildos are best for slow grinding & subtle moves, rather than wild thrusting. Every Strapless we select is body-safe & ergonomically in tune for body-to-body contact.
Check out the pros (+) & cons (-) of each style of strap-on harness, and discover for yourself just how secure, comfortable & sensual your harness can really can be.
Just starting out? Make strap-on shopping easy with the whole kit and caboodle. Our sets include everything you need; a best-selling dildo, harness, lube & toy cleaner. Your strap-on or pegging journey starts here...
A dildo slipped into a harness creates a 'strap on' - a toy with fabulous play potential for any couple who enjoy penetrative sex together. Seen traditionally as a lesbian sex toy, since time vulva-vulva couples have understood the deeply connected, intimate pleasures of strap-on play. But as more penis-owners discover prostate pleasure, more and more vulva-penis couples are coming to Sh! to buy a strap-on for pegging.
Ready to add a little 'oomph' to your strap-on sessions?
A strap-on is couples sex toy that allows one partner to penerate the other using a dildo that's held in place with a harness. This leaves hands free to explore and pleasure elsewhere...
Any couple, whatever their gender or sexual orientation can use a strap!
Discover how strap-ons can unlock new dimensions of pleasure for all couples. From prostate stimulation to role reversal and enhanced intimacy, explore the versatile world of strap-on play with expert guidance on choosing the right harness, dildo, and techniques for unforgettable experiences.
Explore why Sh! Kits offer the best value and pleasure for strap-on play. Learn why we don't recommend all-in-one strap-ons and discover how our curated kits save you money while delivering maximum satisfaction and versatility.
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Dear Sh!, I've just brought your corset-back leather harness to go with the dildo I also bought from Sh! I have quite a pronounced mons pubis and delicate skin, so I've been looking at the bumpers. And I'm going around in circles as some look pretty aggressive with hard bumps. What would you recommend if I want padded protection for me (the giver)? My partner wants it pretty hard and I want sufficient padding so I don't end up bruised and sore...
Discover how to use a dual dildo accessory to transform your strap-on harness into a pleasure tool for both partners. Learn how this innovative attachment holds a dildo on the leg straps, providing penetration for the wearer while they pleasure their partner.
Thanks to P for this honest review of the Sh! 2-strap leather strap-on harness, a bestselling classic loved for its quality craftsmanship, comfortable fit, and versatile design. Discover why this harness remains a top choice for strap-on play and pegging.
'Hi, we are a lesbian couple looking for a vibrator that can be used with a harness to allow for some vigorous thrusting. We have a double dildo harness, and the receiver is very happy with the dildo we have, but the harness wearer wants to have a vibrator with clitoral stimulator. We have tried various things, but they do have a tendency to drop out at the wrong moment. Any suggestions of dildos or vibrators, or mix and match that might work? Thanks!'
Learn how to choose and wear a strap-on harness with our comprehensive guide. Discover different harness styles, how to achieve the perfect fit, and step-by-step instructions for putting on your harness for comfortable, confident play.
Discover the world of strapless dildos and how they enable harness-free strap-on play. Learn how these innovative double-ended toys work, their benefits for couples, and expert tips for successful use during intimate play.
Hi, I'm looking for a harness that's ok for men to wear to give their partner double penetration, i.e. there's space for a man's penis and space for a dildo as well. Also, my partner would like to use a harness for either single penetration or double penetration on another woman. Any ideas?
Strap-ons are no longer purely lesbian sex toys. Straight couples are getting in on the strap-on action and have been foor a while. Here's our advice from a Scarlet Magazine (remember?) article in January 2005 (wowzers!). Strap-on sex for straights - are two c*cks better than one?
Dear Sh! I'm a man who's really interested in trying out pegging. Unfortunately, I'm living out of the UK and don't know anywhere here I can even buy a dildo, let alone get expert advice. Help!
Discover how pegging has become a transformative intimate experience for many couples. Explore the rise of prostate pleasure, role reversal dynamics, and how this practice is bringing new dimensions of intimacy and excitement to straight relationships.
Get expert advice on pegging and strap-on play for couples. Discover essential tips for beginners, how to choose the right harness and dildo, and techniques for safe, pleasurable experiences that bring partners closer together.
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Dear Sh! My girlfriend and I were wondering: Would a vibrating dildo be good for us to use during strap-on pegging? Any advice would be appreciated!
Dear Sh!, When we're both up for pegging, my girlfriend and I enjoy using a Twista dildo in our strap-on for a bit of pegging anal play. Even though we use loads of lube and take plenty of time, I'm getting the feeling that the dildo itself is a bit long for me...
