TPE Sex Toys Chosen by Women at Sh! Women's Store.

Our Sex Toy Collections

Sex Toys For Beginners - Sh! Women's Store

Trans & Non Binary Toys

Always Discreet

Whether for self-love or to enhance couples' sex, explore our toy collection, safe in the knowledge that whilst our toys are bold and thrilling, our packaging is very discreet and boring!

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How to choose the best sex toy for you?

With so many designs & SO many different kinds of pleasure, we know that choosing a sex toy can be mind-boggling...

Ask yourself:

What is the MAIN type of pleasure I want my sex toy to give me?

Clit pleasure...

Join the gang!

80% of clit-owners use their vibrator solely for clitoral pleasure.

No wonder - the clitoris is KEY to orgasm >>>

Clit tingles...

For purely clitoral stimulation, solo or during sex with your partner, your best toy is a clit vibe.

EXPLORE CLIT VIBES

Clit suction...

For some of the most intense orgasms known to clits, and the most orgasm-reliable, your best toy is a sucker.

EXPLORE CLIT SUCKERS

Inside & out...

For blended orgasms, Rabbit vibes stimulate externally AND internally, at the same time.

EXPLORE RABBITS

Vaginal pleasure...

The vaginal entrance is packed with sensitive nerve-endings. To ensure all pleasure, no pain, choosing the right-sized toy (esp width) is crucial.

How many fingers feel good?

Use size filters to find your perfect one >>>

Vaginal tingles...

For vaginal thrills, a classic vibe will deliver smooth pleasure, with extra buzz.

EXPLORE CLASSIC VIBES

G-spot...

A G-Spot vibrator is specially curved to make it easier to massage this erogenous zone.

EXPLORE G-SPOT VIBES

Pure penetration...

A dildo is ALL about penentrative play, hand-held or worn as a strap-on in a harness.

EXPLORE DILDOS

Anal pleasure...

Any toy destined for the back door MUST be specially designed, so there's no chance of it getting lost up there (and becoming an A&E horror story!

EXPLORE ANAL TOYS

Vulva-vulva play...

For toys that are fabulous for WLM couples, couples sex toys is the place to head...

EXPLORE WLW TOYS

Vulva-penis play...

For toys that are fabulous for WLW couples, lesbian sex toys is the place to head.

EXPLORE COUPLES TOYS

Penis pleasure...

For penis and prostate and pleasure, head to male sex toys.

EXPLORE MALE TOYS

SEX TOY FAQ'S

How discreet is buying sex toys from Sh!?

Sh! by name, Sh! by nature!
We understand that when you shop for sex toys online, you don't need the world and its postie knowing what's inside your parcel and you want to know your privacy is paramount.

Rest assured that everything we send is in discreet packaging, of course, and we safeguard your data like a Lioness would her cubs!

Why use sex toys?

Because, whatever your gender, sexuality, age or level of experience, sex toys can make your sex life better! Toys allow you to explore lots of different types of sensation and to experience perhaps more intense or more reliable orgasms.

Not only that. Sex toys are healthy. Couples who play wih toys together report more intensifyed intimacy and communication. Playing with sex toys together, especially by using a vibrator clitorally during penetrative sex, can also help to close the orgasm-gap.

Solo, toys allow you to fully explore your body's capacity for pleasure, to learn and gain confidence in what your body likes, and what it doesn't...

Beyond all this, toys can help treat sexual issues such as Vaginismus or erectile dysfunction.

Most of all, sex toys are FUN - truely toys for adults!

Are sex toys safe?

We're very picky when it comes to our sex toy range - we only carry toys that are 100% safe in terms of material ( no nasty Phthalate jelly toys here!) build ( no sharp edges) or design ( no anal toys that could get lost...) , This means that you can be 100% confident that every sex toy at Sh! is made from body-safe material, in a body-safe design.

So, yes! Every toy we carry is perfectly safe, so long as you use them with common sense; follow the instructions and use only for their intended purpose (ie. never use a non anal-safe toy up your bum!).

Being meticulous about keeping your toys clean and being extra careful about sharing sex toys ( use condoms - it's the easiest way!) is the most important safety advice, as toys can transmit STI's.

How to clean & care for my sex toy?

We give specific info about care & cleaning on each sex toy product page ( in the 'Tech Spec' tab).

Cleaning your sex toys is easiest with sex toy cleaner - just spritz on and wipe off before and after every use. When air dry, store in a clean, fluff-free place for next time.

Are sex toys for everyone?

YES! Gone are the days when sex toys were considered just for sad singletons or sex-mad 'swingers'.

Dispelling these and other myths (like do sex toys ruin relationships?) has been our mission for the last 30+ years...

By revolutionizing the sex toy industry, bringing female-foccused designs and advice-led service to the world of sex toy shopping, we hope that EVERYONE feels they can safely, confidently (and without any 'ick') experience the pleasure and empowerment that sex toys can bring.

Can I use sex toys whilst pregnant or on my period?

You can definately use sex toys during your period - in fact we recommend it! Having sex on your period could make it easier to have orgasms as you're extra horny AND orgasms can help relieve cramps and back pain, so it’s a win-win situation.

During pregnacy, it's normal for your sex drive to go either way - you may feel extra horny (due to increased estrogen and progesterone, heightened blood flow to and increased sensitivity of the genitals. Or you may loose your mojo and feel the need for extra stimulation. Sex toys can help with both. If you have a low-risk pregnancy, it's generally safe to use sex toys, but you should check with your doctor or midwife, just to be sure. The most important advice is listen to your body and to make extra sure that all toys are sparking clean before you use them to protect you from vaginal infections.

Do I need lube with sex toys?

We think you should use lube in ALL sexual play - it enhances sensation, reduces friction and just makes everything extra sensual. So, yes, our advice is to coa your toys with lube and enjoy the exra-slippery ride! A word of advice - use water-based lubes on all silcone toys.

Can I bring a sex toy through airport security?

You can take sex toys on a plane, so long as they are not illegal in country you're visiting. They are best packed in hold luggage, with batteries out or travel-lock on. If you want to take them on as carry-on ( and we have done this, 100's of times), they may show up on scanners, but security staff have really seen it all...Take out any batteries to avoid any security scares!

Why don't you sell any 'realistic' sex toys?

We've always had the policy to not carry 'realistic' or 'replica' sex toys (which, when we started in 1992, meant we had very little toys to choose from, such was the dearth of 'Big John' dildos & porn-pussies-in-cans!)

Apart from any ick-factor, (we can't tell you how many times women have told us they were bought a 'realistic sex toy, which went straight in the bin!) these kinds of sex toys can stir-up feelings of insecurity, which we're not into feeding...