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Q&A: How To Use A Cock Ring During Sex?
Hi guys, We ordered a cock ring from you, but we can't quite...
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Our collection of Discreet Cock Rings chosen by women. Cock rings are worn at the base of a penis, where they restrict blood-flow to give harder / firmer-feeling erections. Clit-stimulating cock rings have the added benefit of delivering the extra clitoral stimulation most women & vulva-owners need to orgasm, during penetrative sex. Read our cock-ring advice and find squeezy, pleasy cock rings for solo pleasure and to enhance partner play.
A cock ring (aka penis ring, erection ring, pleasure ring, shaft ring - so many rings!)
is a sex toy that is worn at the base of the penis. Cock Rings basically come in 3 forms:
- Non-vibrating = cock rings for firmer erections
- Vibrating = cock rings for firmer erections + extra thrills (vibration for wearer + clit vibration for partner)
- Cock & ball rings = extra snug sensations that include testicles.
The cock rings we stock are all body-safe, in terms of design & sex toy material. It's important to know how to how to use a cock ring correctly. Cock rings shouldn't be used for longer than 20 minutes, less if you start to experience discomfort - if your penis is getting achy, remove the cock ring immediately.
Smooth some water-based lube over the penis and pubes. Apply a little lube to the inside of the cock ring too. Slide the cock ring down the base of the semi-erect penis and position the clitoral stimulator at 12 o’clock (closest to the penis owner’s stomach). The ring should feel snug but not painful. If your cock ring features a second ring, you are in for an extra-snug treat. The second ring is for the party bag (scrotum) and stretches over the balls, so the cock ring sits against the pubis.
Cock rings for couples can help close the orgasm gap. 75-80% of women/ vulva-owners don't orgasm through penetration alone, so the extra clitoral vibration of a well-placed clit-stimultating cock ring can help. Read more about how to use a cock ring for couple's sex .
Hi Sh!
I have a question. I'm really interested in trying a cock ring with my man, but my friends say that sex toys are only for singles and if he satisfies me, I shouldn't need a sex toy - what do you think?
Hello there, thanks for getting in touch!
This is an interesting question, and it's not the first time we've heard it. There is this weird belief that a sexually compatible couple "shouldn't need" sex toys. Seemingly, a couple owning an overflowing toy box must be either sexually lacking or sex-crazed swingers. (Neither is true.)
Sex toys, like cock rings, are a fun addition. They add spice, variety and a sense of playfulness to your sex life. Nobody needs a cock ring - but they sure are fun!
Cock rings are good starter toys for couples. They are small, non-intimidating, and they add a thrilling buzz to proceedings. If you find it difficult to orgasm, or you want to orgasm during intercourse, a vibrating ring might be just the thing!
SEX TOY BENEFITS FOR COUPLES
Relationships are an ongoing journey, and whatever people tell us, the truth is that the new relationship energy (NRE) you feel at the beginning calms down over time. This is natural and necessary. If NRE carried on for years, everyone would keel over with exhaustion!
However, introducing a sex toy into your relationship can reignite those feelings of first-time lust, purely because the experience is new, exciting and full of sexy anticipation. Exploring toys like cock rings together also helps increase trust and intimacy as they open up a whole new dialogue between you...