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Best Strap On Dildo Kit

Regular price £120.00
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My wife and I have had several strapon kits in the past and none have been as good as this one...

SAVE £15! Best-Sellers Strap-On Set

At a Glance:

✦ All our best-selling strap-on goodies in a special set

✦ Sh!® Best-selling Double Strap Harness

✦ Sh!® Best-selling dildo 6 x 1.5 inch hand-poured silicone

✦ Sh!® Pure Lube for smooth moves & Toy Cleaner for easy cleaning

✦ Quality gift / storage box

Best Strap On Dildo Kit - everything you need in one box!

We've teamed our best-selling dildo with our best-selling strap-on harness and added our best-selling lube to bring you the Best Strap-On Dildo Kit - a special gift box of our most popular products for strap-on pleasure.

Hand-poured in the Sh! Studio, Cupid 3 is a 6-inch-long, medium-width silicone dildo with curves in all the right places. This dil clearly pleases all the right spots with our customers, as it's our most popular dildo ever!

Our 2-Strap Harness is also a top product with Sh! customers. Hand-crafted in soft, back leather, it's incredibly comfortable to wear, while securely holding the dildo in place.

Completing the kit is a large bottle of all-important lube to keep your strap-on moves smooth and sensual, plus an antibacterial Toy Cleaner for fast dildo cleaning.

Everything comes beautifully packaged in a quality box, which makes it a lovely gift and also ensures everything is stored conveniently, cleanly and all ready for spontaneous moments of passion.

Best Strap-On Kit Contents:

*Like a different colour of dildo or harness? No problem - just get in touch & let us know what you'd like...

 You save £15 on products bought separately!

 

LONG: 6 INCH OR MORE 

MID: 1.25"-1.75" (2-3 Fingers)

If you're new to strap-on play, it's normal to feel a little shy or embarrassed wearing a dildo in a harness. Our top tip is to blindfold your partner. It not only saves any blushes but also adds a whole lot of anticipation to play...

Cupid 3 Dildo:
Material: Silicone
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length: 160mm
Playable length: 153mm
Diameter (at widest): 37.4mm
Weight: Medium (174 g)
Waterproof: Yes
Lube: Water-based Only

Care & Cleaning of Cupid 3 Dildo: Use Sh! Toy Cleaner/Soap/10% bleach solution/rubbing alcohol. Rinse thoroughly. To sterilize: Boil 3 minutes / dishwasher - top rack! Avoid breaking surface of the dildo. Keep away direct heat/sunlight. Store in dry, fluff-free place.

2-Strap Harness:
Material: Leather
Style: Jock-Style
Weight: Light (95g - 126g)
Ease of Use: Middling
Waterproof: No 

Care & Cleaning of2-Strap Harness: : Wipe with a damp cloth. Air dry. Don't store in an airtight container.
 

Size
UK/ Australia  
 European  
  US   

XS
Up to size 10
Up to  38
Up to size 6

S
10-12
38-40
6-8

M
12-14
40-42
8-10

L
14-16
42-44
10-12

XL
16-20
44-48
12-16

XXL
20-24
48-52
16-20

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  • £6 Express: 1-2 business days
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RETURNS & REFUNDS: If you are not totally happy with any product, simply return it, sealed in its original packaging, within 30 days of receipt for an alternative or a refund.

See our Refund Policy for more info.

DISCREET PACKING: The package you receive from Sh! will be totally secure and discreet - no one will know what's in it! There is never any indication of the contents.

The Sh! name DOES NOT appear anywhere on the package.

Your credit card will show payment to SH BRANDS LTD.

See our Discreet packaging for more info.

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Cat

great quality and value for money

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Julie

Fantastic- so simple yer sooo effective

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Jonaw

My wife and I have had several strapon kits in the past and none have been as good as this one. I remembered seeing a programme about this shop and thought I would have a look...We received this just before Christmas and it certainly helped to see the New Year in with a bang.....literally. The harness is comfortable for my wife and the dildo is a very good size for me...reaches the parts other dildo's cannot reach...

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SpeakForYourself

Like most of the other reviewers I was a first timer when I bought this a little over a year ago. After a lot of market research, the general consensus was that you get what you pay for, so I decided to splash out on a real leather harness. Then I stumbled across this starter kit and it just made my decision making a whole lot easier. It really is a complete kit, with lube (Sh! brand, decent sized bottle! nice texture, long lasting and silky but not too heavy or oily feeling) and condoms; from a safer sex point of view, a must if you're switching around with vaginal/anal play or sharing the dildo with someone else! The harness itself is really comfortable, and whilst a bit complicated for my amature brain to assemble, is easy enough to put on once you get the hang of it! I got L, and I'm a size 16 - I'd recommend going a size above what you think, because obviously you can tighten easier than loosen...you can always cut off any extra length on the straps if necessary (I did). The leather is soft and pliable (as long as you follow their advice, keep it clean and let it breathe! damp leather goes bad and mouldy if you leave it :P) which makes the whole thing feel comfortable, as well as look totally badass ;) The straps aren't the easiest to adjust, but once you're in, you're in! It's very stable, very secure and gives great, secure, control. The silicone cupid 3 is firm but flexible, with a nice feel to it (still needs a touch of lube to make initial penetration nice and easy), its upward bend and curves along the length feel really great...I found the length and girth to be just right for me (as a first timer, and a gold star :P) and its a great "all-rounder" but bare in mind the harness also comes with two interchangeable O rings which are secure and easy to change, so it can be used with most other solid base dildos. (Also another little note, it doesn't have to come in purple! I just left a little note on my order asking for the cupid 3 to be in black and they were all too happy to oblige, really friendly, great personal service :D)All in all, this kit is a great starting point (even after a year, and the purchase of several other dildos, I keep coming back to the cupid and have always used this same harness) and great value. Don't be tempted to skimp on poor-quality cheaper harnesses/dildos (not found on this site of course :P), it's worth that £20 or so extra for this level of comfort and quality. 5/5

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Jaz

This box is a great way to get started and has all the basics you need to get going at a decent discount to buying all the items separately. The harness is really comfortable, soft against the skin so doesn't rub and it adjusts very easily to get the right fit. The dildo is great for a beginner as it is a reasonable size without being intimidating. My girlfriend and I both love this kit and think it is well worth the price.

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Little_Deirdre

We (also a lesbian couple) stumbled on to Sh! at the advice of a friend who knew we were in the market for a strap on. We found the advice pages about buying your first strap on really helpful and informative and they took a lot of the stress and worry out of the decision making. Following that information we decided on the 'Best Strap on Dildo Kit' with the Cupid 3 as it wasn't too big (which was our biggest worry!). The kit came with absolutely everything we could need and the price was excellent. We also found that with the harness it was quite generous with it's sizing - my partner is a different shape to me but we could both use it happily. Overall an brilliant purchase for nervous first timers, quality outstanding.

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Somnia

We are also first timers and found this kit to be great - the dildo is just the right size for me, and certainly hits the spot! We have ended up ordering a smaller one for her though, so be aware that different people require different sizes. I would go with the "how many fingers" method - this one suits me but if you are more a "two finger" gal, get a smaller one. The harness is really soft leather and feels great.

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ivesey

This was my first time on using a strap on - fantastic kit and takes the stress out of thinking which harness to buy or which dildo. Harness is very comfortable. You won't be disappointed with this purchase.

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Talex

This is the first strap-on that I have purchased with my girlfriend (we are a lesbian couple) and when we ordered it, we were really excited about getting it!On delivery, we opened it to find it wrapped in a really nice pink box that was filled with tissue paper, which gave the whole package a classy feel. The Harness is really soft leather and easy to adjust. We chose a size medium but it is more like a size large, which doesn't really matter as it is adjustable and fits snuggly. The dildo looks really nice and is a perfect size for beginners. We both thought this dildo wasn't big enough so we are going to be purchasing a bigger, longer one for even better orgasms. The lube is one of the nicest we have used as it is silky and doesn't leave a greasy feeling on your hands. You can easily use it and wipe your hands without having to leave the bedroom. The free condoms we received, although a generous gift, were swiftly passed on to our house mate, much to her delight.Seeing my girlfriend wearing this after coming home from work was such a turn on. It looks hot once strapped to your girl. Although the dildo wasn't big enough for us, it still felt amazing...

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Toffee

This was my first strap on experience while my partner had tried it before. I was a little apprehensive but after some dutch courage we tried it out. What an experience! both really enjoyed ourselves and the power you feel when wearing it is amazing. Has been used many times since! Good value for money and the harness is really soft and comfortable, dildo was a good size and the lube is really nice. All in all a really good product, thanks Sh!!! xx

Why Choose a Sh! Strap-On Kit?

We’ve taken the guesswork out of strap-on shopping with expertly matched kits that are ready for adventure.

Everything You Need

Harness, dildo, lubricant and toy cleaner — thoughtfully paired and beautifully boxed.

No Guesswork

We’ve matched the harness and dildo for comfort, compatibility and confidence.

Better Value

Save compared with buying separately while getting a complete, ready-to-go setup.

✓ Handmade leather harness
✓ Premium silicone dildo
✓ Save vs buying separately
✓ Lubricant included
✓ Toy cleaner included
✓ Gift boxed & ready to go
JUST ADD CHEMISTRY

READY • SET • PLAY

Better Together.

Everything you need to stop wondering what goes with what ... and start discovering what feels good together.

CONFIDENCE BUILT IN MADE TO MATCH PLAY TOGETHER

Strap-On Kit FAQs

Everything you need to know about our Strap-On Kits.

What's included in a Sh! Strap-On Kit?

Each kit includes a handmade harness, premium silicone dildo, lubricant, toy cleaner and gift-style storage box. Everything you need to get started.

Why buy a kit instead of separately?

You'll save compared with buying the items individually, and we've already matched everything for comfort, compatibility and confidence.

Will everything work together?

Yes. Every kit is carefully selected by our team so the harness, dildo and accessories work beautifully together straight out of the box.

Is a strap-on kit suitable for beginners?

Absolutely. Kits are one of the easiest ways to start because we've already chosen compatible products and included the essentials you'll need.

What makes Sh! kits different?

Our kits feature handmade harnesses, premium silicone dildos and products we've spent decades helping customers choose. No filler, no gimmicks — just products we genuinely love.

Good To Know

Know Your Kit.

Harness Size

Our harnesses are highly adjustable and designed to fit a wide range of bodies. If you're between sizes, we generally recommend choosing the smaller size. Still unsure? Get in touch and we'll happily help.

Caring & Cleaning

Clean your dildo before and after - spritz with toy cleaner for speed and convienience or wash with warm water/mild soap - leave to air dry and store somewhere clean and dry. Harnesses should be wiped clean after use and stored somewhere cool & airy. Leather harnesses benefit from occasional conditioning to keep them soft and supple.

Lube & Toy Cleaner

When playing with a strap-on dildo you can atually feel how wet your partner is - We think lube is an essential, as it helps reduce friction, making play more comfortable and pleasurable. Toy cleaner makes cleaning quick and easy, helping keep your dildo fresh and ready for next time. That's why we include both in every kit.

Discreet Delivery

We personally wrap and pack every order in-house. There's no mention of Sh! on the outside of the package, just a small return address on the shipping label.

Returns

If you're unsure about sizing, contact us before ordering and we'll happily help. Unused kits may be returned provided all items remain unopened, unworn and in resaleable condition.