Orders £60+ FREE UK Delivery
Female-Founded LGBT+ Inclusive
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Orders £60+ FREE UK Delivery
Female-Founded LGBT+ Inclusive
Trustpilot 'EXCELLENT'
Our strap-on dildo kits make strapon shopping easy. Specially selected from our best-selling products, each kit contains everything you need for a night of strap on seduction; hand-made silicone dildo & soft leather harness, plus lubricant & toy cleaner, all gift-packaged in a gift-style storage box.
Our strap-on dildo kits make strapon shopping easy. Specially selected from our best-selling products, each kit contains everything you need for a night of strap-on seduction: hand-made silicone dildo and soft leather harness, plus lubricant and toy cleaner, all gift-packaged in a gift-style storage box.
Every strap-on kit is a complete, ready-to-use set containing: a handmade body-safe silicone dildo (your choice of size and color), a soft leather strap-on harness crafted in our UK studio, premium water-based lubricant for smooth penetration, toy cleaner for easy maintenance, and a beautiful gift-style storage box.
No guesswork, no missing pieces – just open the box and play! These curated strap-on sets save you time, money, and confusion by pairing perfectly matched dildos with compatible harnesses.
Buying dildos and harnesses separately can be overwhelming. Will the dildo fit the harness? What size O-ring do I need? Do I need a specific base? Our strap-on dildo kits eliminate this confusion. Every component is pre-matched for compatibility, sizing, and quality.
Kits are perfect for beginners exploring lesbian sex or pegging for the first time, experienced users wanting curated quality, gift-givers seeking ready-to-present packages, or anyone who values convenience and expert curation over DIY trial-and-error.
Beginner Strap-On Kits: Featuring slim silicone dildos (under 1.5 inches diameter) and adjustable harnesses. Perfect for first-time pegging, lesbian strap-on exploration, or gentle play.
Advanced Strap-On Sets: Larger dildos (1.5-2+ inches) paired with reinforced harnesses. For experienced users seeking intensity and fullness.
Pegging Kits: Specifically curated for female-to-male pegging play. Includes prostate-friendly curved dildos or slim starter sizes, plus beginner-friendly instructions.
Lesbian Strap-On Kits: Designed by lesbians, for lesbians! Our handcrafted leather harnesses paired with non-realistic, body-positive dildos. Perfect for WLW couples.
Gift-Boxed Sets: Beautifully packaged strap-on kits make perfect gifts for partners, anniversaries, or celebrations. Discreet yet elegant presentation.
Handmade in the UK: Every dildo and harness is crafted in our studio. Support a woman-owned, lesbian-run UK business.
Body-Safe Materials: Medical-grade platinum silicone dildos, genuine leather harnesses. No jelly, no toxic materials.
Perfect Compatibility: Dildos fit harnesses perfectly – no sizing confusion or O-ring mismatches.
Complete Sets: Lube and cleaner included. Start playing immediately without extra shopping.
Expert Curation: 30+ years of strap-on expertise went into selecting these perfect combinations.
For Beginners: Choose a starter strap-on kit with a slim dildo (1-1.25 inches). Adjustable harnesses accommodate all body sizes.
For Lesbian Couples: Select based on the receiver's comfort level. Our kits range from petite to advanced sizes.
For Pegging: Start slim! Many pegging kits include curved, prostate-friendly dildos. Communicate with your partner about size preferences.
For Gifts: Gift-boxed strap-on sets arrive beautifully presented. Include a gift message for extra thoughtfulness!
For Advanced Play: Choose larger dildo sizes or double-ended options paired with reinforced harnesses.
Every strap-on dildo kit at Sh! is curated for immediate enjoyment. No guessing, no returns for incompatible parts, no shopping for accessories. Just open, adjust the harness, add lube, and play!
Our kits include detailed usage guides, sizing information, and care instructions. Whether you're exploring lesbian strap-on sex, trying pegging for the first time, or gifting pleasure to a partner, our complete strap-on sets deliver quality, convenience, and confidence. Ready to simplify your strap-on shopping? Browse our curated collection!
The product page will show the products that are in the kit. All strapon kits contain a Sh! harness, a Sh! silicone dildo , a bottle of Pure lube and Sh! sex toy cleaner .
Yes. Just contact us and we can tailor one specially for you.
Yes, you can mix and match with our stock colour dildos & harnesses. But, be aware this will delay delivery. Either make a note in the comments box at checkout or call us on 03333 444 005 to place your order.
Strap-on kits guarantee compatibility – the dildo base matches the harness O-ring perfectly. Buying separately risks size mismatches, requiring returns or additional purchases. Kits also include lube and cleaner, saving you extra shopping. Plus, kits are often better value than buying components individually!
Yes! Strap-on kits are perfect for beginners. They eliminate confusion about what to buy, ensure all components work together, and include everything needed (harness, dildo, lube, cleaner). Choose a beginner kit with a slim dildo and adjustable harness. Many kits include detailed instructions for first-time users.
Most of our strap-on kits offer size options! Select your preferred dildo diameter and length when ordering. The harness will be matched to fit your chosen dildo. Check product descriptions for available sizes – typically ranging from slim (1 inch) to advanced (2+ inches).
Yes! Our handmade leather harnesses feature adjustable straps to fit waist sizes from petite to plus-size. Most harnesses adjust from approximately 28-48 inches. Check individual kit specifications for exact sizing. The adjustability ensures a secure, comfortable fit for all body types.
Absolutely! The dildos in our strap-on kits have standard flared bases compatible with most O-ring harnesses. You can swap dildos between harnesses or buy additional dildos later. The kit just ensures your first pairing works perfectly together.
Leather harnesses (included in our kits) are more durable, provide better support during thrusting, and look sexier than fabric alternatives. Our handcrafted leather is soft, comfortable, and long-lasting. Fabric harnesses can stretch, slip, or lose shape over time. Leather improves with age!
Yes! Our gift-boxed strap-on sets make thoughtful, exciting gifts for partners, anniversaries, or celebrations. Beautiful presentation, discreet packaging, and complete readiness make kits perfect for gifting. Include a personal message for extra romance!
Absolutely! Many customers buy strap-on kits specifically for pegging (female-to-male penetration). Choose a kit with a slim or curved dildo for prostate stimulation. The harnesses work beautifully for pegging – adjustable, secure, and comfortable for extended wear. Start small and communicate with your partner!
We don’t rate standard sex-industry strap-on dildos, the kind where the dildo is permanently fixed to a harness. We’ve tried elastic strap-ons and suffered dildo twang-back on par with a playground bra-strap snap, only on more sensitive bits.
We’ve laughed at monster orange dongs waving around in front of us Darth Vader-style. We’ve spent time working with an old toothbrush, attempting to clean the join where the dildo is attached to harness. And we’ve been left frustrated by the size-choice of these universally large (6″+) strap-ons, it seems the standard sex-industry still believes biggest is best.
We don’t rate all-in-one strap-ons and because we can’t recommend them, we won’t sell them.
Our kits allow you to pick a perfect strap-on dildo with a minimum of stress.
We’ve combined years of experience and feedback from our customers along with a discount on buying the toys separately, to make a perfect kit for you and your pocket.
So, if you want to try out a strap-on dildo for the first time, or if you want to buy a complete strap-on set that suits you perfectly, or even give a kit as a gift, we have the perfect solution!
