SLIM: >1.25" (1-2 Finger) Silicone Dildos
Our silicone dildos are unique! Created by lesbians for everyone to enjoy, we handmake over 30 different, non-'realistic' dildo designs in the UK, using platinum, body-safe silicone. In bold colours & one-off marbling, vibrating or regular and featuring our trademark heart-shaped base, every dildo sits securely in a strap-on, & is safe for anal play. Discover why silicone makes the best dildos & meet your dream dil today.
Our silicone dildos are unique! Created by lesbians for everyone to enjoy, we handmake over 30 different, non-'realistic' dildo designs in the UK, using platinum, body-safe silicone.
In bold colours and one-off marbling, vibrating or regular and featuring our trademark heart-shaped base, every dildo sits securely in a strap-on and is safe for anal play. Discover why silicone makes the best dildos and meet your dream dildo today.
Why Silicone Dildos Are the Best
Silicone dildos are the gold standard for body-safe pleasure. Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and incredibly durable. Unlike jelly, rubber, or "realistic skin" materials that harbor bacteria and leach harmful chemicals, platinum silicone is 100% safe for your body.
Our handmade silicone dildos feel luxurious, warm to body temperature, and last for years with proper care. They're compatible with water-based lubricants, easy to sterilize (boil them!), and perfect for people with sensitive skin or allergies.
Handmade in the UK by Lesbians
Since 1992, we've been handcrafting unique silicone dildos in our UK studio. As a lesbian-owned business, we design dildos that celebrate diverse bodies and desires – never objectifying, always empowering. Every dildo is individually poured, cured, and finished by hand, making each one slightly unique.
Our signature heart-shaped bases aren't just cute – they're functional, preventing toys from getting lost during anal play and ensuring secure strap-on harness compatibility. We refuse to replicate porn-inspired designs, instead creating sensual, ergonomic shapes in bold colors and stunning marble swirls.
Our Silicone Dildo Collection
Over 30 Unique Designs: From slim beginner-friendly dildos (0.75 inches) to advanced sizes, curved G-spot shapes to straight classics. Explore our full dildo collection to see every handmade option.
Double-Ended Silicone Dildos: Perfect for couples play or creative solo sessions. Our double dildos feature the same platinum silicone quality in versatile double-ended designs.
Strap-On Compatible: Every silicone dildo features a flared or heart-shaped base for secure harness use. Pair with our strap-on dildo kits or handcrafted leather harnesses for lesbian sex, pegging, or partnered play.
Vibrating Silicone Dildos: Some designs include vibrating bullets for combined penetration and vibration. Remove the bullet for non-vibrating use.
Bold Colors & Marbling: From vibrant pinks and purples to earthy tones and multi-color marble swirls. No two marbled dildos are identical!
Anal-Safe Design: Wide bases and smooth finishes make every silicone dildo safe for anal play. The heart-shaped base prevents toys from slipping internally.
Silicone Dildos for Specific Needs
For Beginners: Start with slim silicone dildos in smooth, simple shapes. Silicone's flexibility and warmth make it ideal for first-time users.
For Vaginismus or Painful Sex: We offer gentle, graduated silicone dildo sets designed for vaginismus recovery and painful sex therapy. Medical-grade silicone is hypoallergenic and safe for sensitive bodies.
For Lesbian & Queer Play: Designed by lesbians, for lesbians (and everyone!). Our silicone dildos celebrate queer pleasure with inclusive, body-positive designs.
For Strap-On Sex: Heart-shaped bases lock securely into O-ring harnesses. Choose your size based on your partner's comfort level.
Why Choose Sh! Silicone Dildos?
Every silicone dildo is handmade in the UK using platinum-cure medical-grade silicone – the safest material for sex toys. We've been crafting unique, non-realistic designs since 1992, prioritizing your safety, pleasure, and body positivity.
All dildos include care instructions, sizing details, and our expert advice. Whether you're seeking your first body-safe dildo or adding to your collection, our handmade silicone dildos offer unmatched quality, safety, and individuality. Ready to find your dream dil? Browse our complete collection!
Silicone Dildo FAQ's
Yes! Silicone is THE best material for sex toys because it's non-porous, so it can be cleaned easily, and even sterilized and contains no dodgy Phthalates, used in cheaper dildos. Silicone warms quickly to body temperature, doesn't absorb lube or body fluids and feels velvety sensual in use.
We started handmaking silicone dildos in 1993 because mainstream dildos were huge, phallic and made from potentially toxic materials. Whilst some mainstream dildos have become better since, we carry on making our silicone dildos in the UK, as they offer a greener alternative by reducing dildo miles!
Purple Cupid 3 Silicone Dildo is the bestseller, with the Purple Marble Cupid 3 a close second. This shape and size of this design seem to hit the hot spots for the majority of our dildo-loving customers.
Depends what kind of play you're looking for! A vibrating silicone dildo will deliver a subtle buzz to both partners, when worn in a harness for strap-on sex. The bullet vibrator is removeable, so you can use it for other sex play:) If non of this appeals and you want your dildo to purely penetrate, then a non-vibeing silicone dildo is your best choice.
Yes. Silicone is the safest material for dildos. It's a stable, hypoallergenic material that is the safest material for dildos.
All Sh! silicone dildos come with our signature heart-shaped base, making them safe for both vaginal and anal play.
Silicone dildos are easy to clean (always clean before and after each use)
- Remove bullet vibe (if applicable) & clean separately.
- Spritz with sex toy cleaner or wash with anti-bacterial handwash and hot water. Rinse off.
- Sterilize: boil in pan for 3-5 minutes or wipe with 10% bleach solution/rubbing alcohol. Rinse thoroughly.
- Leave your silicone dildo to air dry before storing it away for next time.
- Always use water-based lube (never any other kind of lubricant).
- Take care not to break surface of silicone dildo
- Keep away from sharp teeth, nails, pets or scissors (don't ask!)
- Store your silicone dildo away from fluff, direct heat and other sex toys.
Platinum silicone (also called platinum-cure silicone) is the highest-quality medical-grade silicone. It's cured using a platinum catalyst rather than tin, resulting in purer, safer, more durable silicone. All our handmade dildos use platinum silicone – the same material used in medical implants!
We handcraft every dildo in our UK studio to ensure quality, uniqueness, and ethical production. Handmade means we control every step – from silicone mixing to final finishing. Each dildo is individually poured, which is why marbled designs are one-of-a-kind. Handmade also means supporting a small, lesbian-owned UK business instead of mass-produced imports!
Our trademark heart-shaped base serves two purposes: it's anal-safe (prevents toys from slipping internally) and strap-on compatible (locks securely into O-ring harnesses). The wide base ensures safety during solo or partnered play. Plus, it's adorable and celebrates our lesbian-owned roots!
We recommend water-based lubricant with silicone dildos. While high-quality platinum silicone is generally safe with silicone lube, lower-grade silicone lubes can sometimes degrade the toy's surface. Water-based lube is always safe, easy to clean, and works beautifully with silicone toys.
Yes! Silicone is completely latex-free and hypoallergenic. It's perfect for people with latex allergies, sensitive skin, or chemical sensitivities. Medical-grade platinum silicone is one of the safest materials for body contact – it's used in medical implants, baby bottle nipples, and other products requiring absolute safety.
Why Choose a Silicone Dildo?
Silicone is considered to be the best dildo material, bar none. It’s the dildo-connoisseur’s choice for its look and feel, and also for its safety and ease of care.
A SILICONE DILDO IS SAFE
An odourless, non toxic and hypo-allergenic material containing no phthalates or latex, silicone is the best choice if you are allergic to or have concerns about other dildo materials.
A SILICONE DILDO IS EASY TO CLEAN
You can even sterilize a silicone dildo by boiling it for 3 minutes or washing it in the top rack of a dishwasher.
Ease of cleaning isn’t just about sex toy safety for you. If you’re planning on sharing your dildo with a partner, or if you’re looking for an anal dildo for solo or pegging play, silicone is the ultimate choice because of this ability to fully sterilize after every use....
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