Rubber Sh! Harnesses
Designed by lesbians, welcome to our unique range of strapon dildo harnesses. Each strap on is individually hand-made, with love & care - Enjoy!
Designed by lesbians, welcome to our unique range of strapon dildo harnesses. Each strap-on is individually hand-made, with love and care – Enjoy!
Handmade Strap-On Harnesses by Lesbians, for Everyone
Since 1992, we've been handcrafting strap-on harnesses in our UK studio. As a lesbian-owned business, we design harnesses that work – comfortable, secure, sexy, and built to last. Every harness is individually made by skilled craftspeople using genuine leather and durable hardware. We refuse mass-produced, poorly-fitted harnesses.
Instead, we create adjustable, body-positive designs that celebrate all sizes, shapes, and sexualities. Whether you're exploring lesbian strap-on sex, pegging, or partnered play, our handmade harnesses deliver quality, comfort, and confidence.
Why Choose Handmade Leather Harnesses?
Handmade leather harnesses outperform fabric alternatives in every way. Leather provides superior support during thrusting, doesn't stretch or lose shape, and looks undeniably sexier. Our soft, supple leather feels comfortable against skin even during extended wear.
Adjustable straps accommodate waist sizes from petite to plus-size (typically 28-48 inches). Reinforced O-rings hold dildos securely without slippage. And because they're handmade in the UK, you're supporting ethical, woman-owned craftsmanship rather than mass-produced imports.
Our Handmade Harness Styles
Classic Leather Harnesses: Traditional jock-style harnesses with adjustable waist and leg straps. The most popular, versatile design. Perfect for beginners and experienced users alike.
Thong Strap-On Harnesses: Sexy, minimal designs featuring thong-style backs. Less coverage, more skin contact, sexier aesthetic. Perfect for those who find traditional harnesses too bulky.
Corset Harnesses: Stunning corset-style harnesses that combine strap-on functionality with fetish-wear aesthetics. Statement pieces for special occasions.
G-String Harnesses: Ultra-minimal designs for maximum skin-to-skin contact. Lightweight and comfortable.
Plus-Size Harnesses: Specially designed with extended straps and reinforced stitching. Comfortable, secure fit for larger bodies.
Compatible with Our Handmade Dildos
Every harness features interchangeable O-rings to fit various dildo sizes. Our harnesses pair beautifully with our handmade silicone dildos, double-ended dildos, or any dildo with a flared base. Choose from our curated strap-on kits for perfectly matched harness-and-dildo combinations, or mix-and-match to create your custom setup.
How to Choose Your Harness
For Beginners: Choose a classic jock-style harness with simple adjustment. Pair with a slim dildo for comfortable first-time strap-on play.
For Lesbian Couples: All our harnesses are designed by lesbians, for lesbians! Choose based on aesthetic preference and comfort level.
For Pegging: Classic leather harnesses provide excellent support for female-to-male pegging. Adjustable fit and secure O-rings are essential.
For Plus-Size Bodies: Look for harnesses with extended straps and generous adjustment range. Our plus-size designs fit comfortably and securely.
For Sexy Aesthetics: Thong or corset harnesses combine functionality with fetish-wear appeal. Perfect for special occasions or visual excitement.
Handcrafted Quality Since 1992
Every strap-on harness at Sh! is handmade in our UK studio by skilled craftspeople. We use genuine leather, reinforced stitching, and quality hardware that stands up to vigorous play. Our harnesses aren't mass-produced – they're individually crafted with care and attention to detail.
All harnesses include O-rings, adjustment instructions, and care guidelines. Whether you're buying your first harness or adding to your collection, our handmade designs deliver comfort, durability, and lesbian-designed authenticity. Ready to experience handcrafted quality? Browse our unique collection of strap-on harnesses!
Shop Strap-Ons by Type
Our handmade dildo harness designs are unique! Ultra-comfy, stylish, & practical to secure a dildo to your hips or thigh for strap-on or pegging play with your partner. Complimenting our range is the orginal underwear-style Rodeohs... Read about how to choose a dildo harness & get your strap-ON!
Ready to strap on something special? Explore our unique dildo range, specially designed for strap-on play!
Strap-on extras to add something more to your strap on session; An extra dildo or buzz for the Strap-On operator? Extra sensations for the strap-on receiver? You'll find all the ways to enhance your strap-on play here!
Our strap-on dildo kits make strapon shopping easy. Specially selected from our best-selling products, each kit contains everything you need for a night of strap on seduction; hand-made silicone dildo & soft leather harness, plus lubricant & toy cleaner, all gift-packaged in a gift-style storage box.
A Strapless is a U-shape double dildo, designed for lesbian or pegging couples to enjoy close, intimate strap-on style sex, harness-free. Strapless dildos are best for slow grinding & subtle moves, rather than wild thrusting. Every Strapless we select is body-safe & ergonomically in tune for body-to-body contact.
Why Buy Your Strap-On from Sh! Women’s Store?
- Award-winning & women-owned
- Expert-led advice
- Designed by lesbians
- Handcrafted in small batches
- Discreet UK delivery, free £60+
- Expert-led advice
- Designed by lesbians
- Handcrafted in small batches
- Discreet UK delivery, free £60+
What are the different types of strap-ons?
Check out the pros (+) & cons (-) of each style of strap-on harness, and discover for yourself just how secure, comfortable & sensual your harness can really can be.
2-Strap Harness
Wide-Back Harness
Boxer or Thong Harness
Rubber Strap
Thigh Harness
Strapless
How to put on a Sh! adjustable harness
Shopping for a complete strapon set?
Just starting out? Make strap-on shopping easy with the whole kit and caboodle. Our sets include everything you need; a best-selling dildo, harness, lube & toy cleaner. Your strap-on or pegging journey starts here...
Why Strap?
A dildo slipped into a harness creates a 'strap on' - a toy with fabulous play potential for any couple who enjoy penetrative sex together. Seen traditionally as a lesbian sex toy, since time vulva-vulva couples have understood the deeply connected, intimate pleasures of strap-on play. But as more penis-owners discover prostate pleasure, more and more vulva-penis couples are coming to Sh! to buy a strap-on for pegging.
Pimp Your Strap
Ready to add a little 'oomph' to your strap-on sessions?
Dual Dildo Holder
BENEFITS STRAP-OPERATOR
Dildo Base
BENEFITS STRAP-OPERATOR
Panty Vibe
BENEFITS STRAP-OPERATOR
C-Shape Vibes
BENEFITS STRAP-OPERATOR OR RECEIVER
Vibrating Dildo
BENEFITS STRAP-OPERATOR & RECEIVER
Vibrating C-Ring
BENEFITS STRAP-RECEIVER
Strap-On FAQ's
What is a strap on?
A strap-on is couples sex toy that allows one partner to penerate the other using a dildo that's held in place with a harness. This leaves hands free to explore and pleasure elsewhere...
Who uses a strap-on?
Any couple, whatever their gender or sexual orientation can use a strap!
How to choose my strap?
Which is the best strap-on?
When it comes to strap-ons, we believe one size does NOT fit all. By choosing an individual dildo and harness, you will always have the best strap-on for you in both size and fit.
Why don't you sell all-in-one/fused strap-ons?
By using a separate harness and dildo, you can not only clean the dildo thoroughly, but you can also use different-sized dildos to satisfy different desires, orifices or partners...
What is a strapless dildo?
Instead the 'operator' grips the smaller, egg-shaped portion inside their vagina. The longer shaft extends in front to penetrate their partner vaginally or anally.
Can I share my harness with a partner?
To share thrusting duties, you will need an adjustable harness, such as 2-Strap Harness, Super Harness or Corset Harness.
It needs to fit the person with curvier hips. The slimmer partner tightens the straps when they want to be stapon-operator.
With underwear style, partners need to be same clothing size if they are going to share.
How to clean & care for my strap-on?
Read more about how to clean & care for your strap-on here.
Dip into our strapon & pegging guides for everything you need to know about having fabulous strap-on sex.
Strap-On Advice
Discover how strap-ons can unlock new dimensions of pleasure for all couples. From prostate stimulation to role reversal and enhanced intimacy, explore the versatile world of strap-on play with expert guidance on choosing the right harness, dildo, and techniques for unforgettable experiences.
Explore why Sh! Kits offer the best value and pleasure for strap-on play. Learn why we don't recommend all-in-one strap-ons and discover how our curated kits save you money while delivering maximum satisfaction and versatility.
Explore Sh! handmade strap-ons, the UK's top-rated choice for quality and pleasure. Discover why our artisan-crafted dildos and harnesses are beloved by lesbian couples and increasingly popular with straight couples exploring new intimate experiences.
Dear Sh!, I've just brought your corset-back leather harness to go with the dildo I also bought from Sh! I have quite a pronounced mons pubis and delicate skin, so I've been looking at the bumpers. And I'm going around in circles as some look pretty aggressive with hard bumps. What would you recommend if I want padded protection for me (the giver)? My partner wants it pretty hard and I want sufficient padding so I don't end up bruised and sore...
Discover how to use a dual dildo accessory to transform your strap-on harness into a pleasure tool for both partners. Learn how this innovative attachment holds a dildo on the leg straps, providing penetration for the wearer while they pleasure their partner.
Thanks to P for this honest review of the Sh! 2-strap leather strap-on harness, a bestselling classic loved for its quality craftsmanship, comfortable fit, and versatile design. Discover why this harness remains a top choice for strap-on play and pegging.
'Hi, we are a lesbian couple looking for a vibrator that can be used with a harness to allow for some vigorous thrusting. We have a double dildo harness, and the receiver is very happy with the dildo we have, but the harness wearer wants to have a vibrator with clitoral stimulator. We have tried various things, but they do have a tendency to drop out at the wrong moment. Any suggestions of dildos or vibrators, or mix and match that might work? Thanks!'
Learn how to choose and wear a strap-on harness with our comprehensive guide. Discover different harness styles, how to achieve the perfect fit, and step-by-step instructions for putting on your harness for comfortable, confident play.
Discover the world of strapless dildos and how they enable harness-free strap-on play. Learn how these innovative double-ended toys work, their benefits for couples, and expert tips for successful use during intimate play.
Hi, I'm looking for a harness that's ok for men to wear to give their partner double penetration, i.e. there's space for a man's penis and space for a dildo as well. Also, my partner would like to use a harness for either single penetration or double penetration on another woman. Any ideas?
Pegging Advice
Strap-ons are no longer purely lesbian sex toys. Straight couples are getting in on the strap-on action and have been foor a while. Here's our advice from a Scarlet Magazine (remember?) article in January 2005 (wowzers!). Strap-on sex for straights - are two c*cks better than one?
Dear Sh! I'm a man who's really interested in trying out pegging. Unfortunately, I'm living out of the UK and don't know anywhere here I can even buy a dildo, let alone get expert advice. Help!
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Get expert advice on pegging and strap-on play for couples. Discover essential tips for beginners, how to choose the right harness and dildo, and techniques for safe, pleasurable experiences that bring partners closer together.
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Dear Sh! My girlfriend and I were wondering: Would a vibrating dildo be good for us to use during strap-on pegging? Any advice would be appreciated!
Dear Sh!, When we're both up for pegging, my girlfriend and I enjoy using a Twista dildo in our strap-on for a bit of pegging anal play. Even though we use loads of lube and take plenty of time, I'm getting the feeling that the dildo itself is a bit long for me...
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