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Q&A: Toys To Find The Prostate

Q&A: Toys To Find The Prostate - Sh! Women's Store

Dear Sh! Just a quick question - is there a toy out there suitable for finding a man's prostate? We've tried with a small dildo, but I'm not sure what I'm looking for or where to find it! Can you help? 

Hi there,

Thanks for getting in touch! The P-spot is a highly erogenous zone and can produce powerful orgasms. Grab some lube and we'll guide you in :) 

Where is the prostate? 

The prostate is located inside the butt of of cisgender men and people assigned male at birth. It’s a small muscular gland that can produce immensely pleasurable sensations when stimulated in the right way.

an illustrated diagram of the prostate

Stimulating The Prostate

We recommend starting with just fingers and a generous squirt of anal lube. If you're worried about hygiene or have long fingernails, don some latex gloves or pop a condom over your fingers.

The prostate is located on the front wall of the rectum. If your man is on his back, you want to feel upwards, towards the front of his body. If he's on all fours, gently slide your finger in and downwards. 

Using one or two fingers, see if you can feel a walnut-shaped bump through the rectal wall. Having their P-spot stimulated can feel like suddenly being on the edge of orgasm, so he'll know when you find it! 

Sex Toys For Prostate Play

We have some great toys for prostate stimulation. Prostate massagers are sex toys designes specially for P-spot play. They are safe for anal play and feature a curved tip to better find the right spot. It's crucial to start small, and slowly let him get used to the sensations. He might find it feels a bit "backwards" at first - this is normal. 

Make sure he's fully turned on befoe you go P-spotting, and make sure to take your time. Anal play is not an activity to rush!

A hand holding a prostate massager in black silicone


Hope this helps!

Best Wishes,

Team Sh! xx

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