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Hi Sh!
So I bought a G-spot toy but I don't know how to use it, how far inside should it go, because it can not go inside... Like less than a quarter of if can, and it hurts, so I give up and I really want to use it but it's painful and hence I think I'm using it wrong. Thank you and I'm sorry for this REALLY awkward question, wait I haven't asked my question, sorry, how do you use a G-spot vibrator?
Hello there,
Many thanks for your email!
First of all, we are a little concerned about your vaginal pain. We'd recommend getting that seen before using your G-spot toy internally again. It might be as simple as a little tear in the delicate membranes, but the pain should be checked out.
Are you comfortable with other kinds of penetration, i.e with fingers and/or penises? It is possible that the girth of the toy is wrong for you - a toy that is too big will be uncomfortable. An intact hymen could also make penetration a little painful.
Always use a good lube for all sex play, including when experimenting with using G-spot vibrators. Add lube to fingers, toy, and vagina - you might find this makes all the difference.
The G-spot
Let's move on to the G-spot - a bit of knowledge on the whereabout of this erogenous zone is a good place to start.
The G-spot is located about half a finger in and up on the front wall of the vagina. Lube up a finger and gently slide it inside. Feel for a ridged area on the front wall - this is the area known as the G-spot.
Playing with a G-spot toy
It's crucial to be fully aroused before going G-spotting. The G-spot grows with arousal, making it easier to find and stimulate. Inserting a toy into a body that isn't yet ready for it can make the experience uncomfortable and painful. Play with your nipples and clitoris (and any other areas that turn you on) before inserting your toy vaginally.
A toy designed for G-spot pleasure doesn't have to be inserted deep into the vagina for it to be able to stimulate the right area. The most important part of the design is that the bump or upwards curve reaches the G-spot. There is no need to insert the toy further in unless you enjoy deeper penetration.
We recommend 'juicing the G-spot' - firm, circular motions on the area. This tends to work better than fast in-and-out motions. A G-spot orgasm takes time but is worth the extra effort!
Good luck!
Love, Team Sh! xx
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