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Different Ways To Enjoy Lube - Sh! Women's Store

This blog post is about different ways to enjoy lube - the best sexual accessory there is!

When it comes to having great sex, lube does not get the recognition it deserves. Old-fashioned thinking will have us believe that as long as a woman (or vulva-owner) is properly turned on, there should produce enough love juices to swim in it.

Not so, friendlies!

There are many reasons why a vagina might be feeling dry or uncomfortable, and most of them have nothing to do with arousal. Perhaps due to dehydration, tiredness, hormones or medication.

Or, maybe you've been enjoying a particularly long sesh, and the well has finally run dry, so to speak...

You can feel incredibly turned on and ready but still, have a bone-dry vag. Just one of those things.

Lube can make a huge difference to your pleasure, and it's not just for penetrative pleasures (another myth).

If you have yet to discover the benefits of using lube during play, read our recommendations about how it can be easily incorporated into sexy activities.

Lube is a great addition to masturbation

Have you ever considered adding some slick lube to your menage a moi sessions? Dry skin is common during the winter so if you are using your hands, a good lube will reduce the friction and make it a much more pleasurable experience. Lube makes your juice parts slip-slidey and will often enhance sensations.

And if you want to amp up the heat, even more, check out our range of vibrators.

Use a drop of lube inside condoms

If you’re tired of hearing dudes complain about how condoms ruin sex, try squeezing a couple of drops of condom-safe lube inside the rubber before you slip it over his peen. The added moisture helps him feel more, if he's missing the wetness of your lush love-box. Great for ensuring that sex is both pleasurable and safe at the same time!

a pair of hands opening a single condom

Use lube to add flavour to oral sex

Who doesn’t love oral sex? Oral sex is a tasty treat for everyone involved, and a soft tongue licking & lapping build up arousal in no time!

We recommend giving the banana-flavoured Frutopia ID lubricant a go; it's a firm favourite with guests in our classes.

Don’t just reserve flavoured lube for genitals. Why not use some lube on your nipples to increase sensitivity?

Use lube for sensual massages

There is nothing sexier than the physical touch. A hybrid lube (water-based lube with a dash of silicone to make it smoother and more long-lasting) can be used all over the body for long, slow massages.

Stat at the top and work your way down and around their body. For an explosive finale, add a generous amount of lube to your juicy parts and rub, bump & grind together without any penetration. This is super-effective for creating intimacy and intense orgasms.

Always use lube for anal play

This is probably the most common use for lube. If you want to try anal sex, you'll need a bottle because you'll need a fair bit of the slippery stuff.

Sh! Pure Plus anal lube is extra thick and long-lasting. This ensures the delicate membranes of the tush are protected during all finger, toy & penis play.

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