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Dear Sh!

I think I have an abnormally tiny clit. I have never come very easily and never through oral sex, and it was only when I slept with a woman that she commented what a tiny clit I have. I guess this is my problem. Does anyone know of anything that can help with a tiny clit?

I looked up cosmetic surgery but the only thing I can see is G-spot augmentation - so has anyone had that or does anyone have any advice about a tiny clit - any ideas mucho appreciated...

Hi there,

We're sorry to hear about your orgasmic problems, but there are good news:

There is absolutely no link between clit size and sexual responsiveness or function.

A tiny clitoris certainly does not mean tiny orgasms, or no orgasms at all.

Rather than looking at commercial cosmetic surgery sites which encourage feelings of “abnormality,” take a look at educational sites instead. The clitoris is a complex structure: the "tiny" part on the outside is just the tip of the iceberg.

Vibrators are great 'first clitoral orgasm' providers

A vibe delivers steady, sustained and intense stimulation that is often enough to turn pre-orgasmic women into "yes! yes! yes!"-women.

Take a look at our clitoral vibes. Different vibes for different folks, but for pre-orgasmic women, but a super-strong clit vibe like the intensely powerful Wand Vibrator is likely to make your toes curl with pleasure.

Cordless Wand vibrator in purple - Sh! Women's Store

Not being able to orgasm has nothing to do with clitoris size 

Lots of women find orgasms tricky or elusive, and it has nothing to do with the size of their clitoris. Not being able to orgasm is usually down to 3 things:

  • Not being aware of how our body works
  • Not experimenting with what pleasures our body likes best
  • Learning how to 'be in the moment

We recommend talking a look our our orgasm course for women, Becoming Orgasmic. This is a fun, and educational online course that guides you through anatomy, masturbation, and the importance of keeping your mind connected to the task at hand (so to speak), for your orgasm to reveal itself.

Remember, whatever you do - enjoy every minute of the discovery process!

Best Wishes

Team Sh! xx

Learn more about the clitoris here!

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