Giving great blow jobs isn’t about complicated techniques or secret tricks - it’s all about enthusiasm, a little know-how, and the right mindset. With just a basic understanding of penis anatomy (don’t worry, no biology degree required!) and a willingness to have fun, you’re already halfway there.
Whether you're a beginner or just looking to level up your skills, our easy-peasy tips will boost your confidence and make oral pleasure enjoyable for you and your partner. Because let’s be honest - when you're having a good time, they’re having a good time. Ready to become a BJ pro? Read on!
Our Favourite Blow Job Tricks
Flavoured lubes make a great treat taste even better! Choose a flavour that makes your saliva glands water, and drizzle a generous amount over the tip and shaft. Lick and kiss it off while making yummy noises. Don't worry about getting your face sticky - it makes it all the better!
Temperature play is a great blow job trick. Take a sip of a hot drink to get your mouth nice and warm before going down on the penis. Then take a sip of a cold drink and go down again. Alternating hot and cold will keep their interest up and offer sensual sensations.
Saliva is your best friend when it comes to great fellatio, so don't worry about dribbling or making a mess. Make the most of it - slippery blow jobs are fun blow jobs!
Try humming whilst giving a blow job - the 'hum' vibrates around the penis, creating exciting new sensations. Your mouth becomes a warm vibrator *wink*
Many penis owners complain that their partners forget about their testicles during blow jobs. Gentle kissing or light tugging usually goes down well. Try stroking a warming lube over the pleasure package for extra sensuality. There is also a trick called 'tea bagging' where you suck an entire ball (or both if you can fit 'em) into your mouth. This tends to be more palatable with shaved balls, but that's just our opinion. Love pubes? Get your face in there!
If your partner is game for trying a little light anal play, a fellatio session is a perfect time to explore. Cover your fingers with a latex glove, drizzle some anal lube over your fingers and slowly stroke and explore the area. The anus is rich in nerve endings, so stimulating this area can offer intense pleasure. Hop on over to our anal advice and prostate advice sections to learn more.
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Our sister site, Shush Life, offers a fun and empowering course on how to give great blow jobs. Mindblowing BJ's consists of 9 virtual sessions you can watch from the privacy and comfort of your bedroom. All you need is a dildo or a vegetable of a suitable size, a bottle of lube, and a steady internet connection. Our friendly educator takes care of the rest!
Here's what one customer said:
Just gave the best BJ in my life!
This is a great course - lots of tips and (much needed) anatomy education - but mostly it improved my confidence and desire levels by 100%. I got as turned on as my husband and can't wait to do it again. Thank you!
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