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How to Give Great Blow Jobs - Advice at Sh! Women's Store

Giving great blow jobs doesn't require too much in terms of prep: A little bit of know-how on penis anatomy and lots of enthusiasm, and you're ready to get to it.

If you feel unsure about giving blow jobs, our easy-peasy tricks will help you feel more confident while making it fun and pleasurable for you, too.

Our Favourite Blow Job Tricks

  • Using a blindfold enhances every sensation. Your partner will feel every lick, nibble and kiss much more intensely. This also works in your favour if you're feeling shy about being watched while working your lip magic. 
  • Flavoured lubes makes a yummy treat taste even better! Choose a flavour that makes your saliva glands watering, and drizzle a generous amount over the tip and shaft.
  • Temperature play is a great blow job trick. Take a sip of a hot drink to get your mouth nice and warm before going down on the penis. Then take a sip of a cold drink and go down again. Alternating hot and cold will keeps their interest up and offer sensual sensations.
  • Saliva is your friend when it comes to great fellatio, so don't worry about dribbling or making a mess. 
  • Try humming whilst giving a blow job - the "hum" vibrates around the penis, creating exciting new sensations.
  • Many penis-owners complain that their partners forget about their testicles (the "party bag"). Gentle kissing or light tugging usually goes down well. Try stroking a warming lube over the pleasure package for extra sensuality. 
  • If your partner is game for trying a little light anal play, a fellatio session is a perfect time to explore. Cover your fingers with a latex glove, drizzle some anal lube over your fingers and slowly stroke and explore the area. The anus is rich in nerve endings, so stimulating this area can offer intense pleasure. (Hop on over to our anal advice and prostate advice sections to learn more).

Learn More About Blow Jobs with a Shush Life Course

Our sister-site Shush Life offer a fun and empowering blow job course. Mindblowing BJ's consists of 9 virtual sessions that you can view from the privacy and comfort of your own bedroom.  

 

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