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What's Hot This Christmas? Gift Guide For Lovers

What's Hot This Christmas? Sexy Gift Guide For Lovers - Sh! Women's Store

The holiday season is fast approaching, and it's time to order the perfect sexy gift for your loved one. Or loved ones, if you have several beloveds.

Choosing the right Christmas present can be daunting - but our gift guide will help you find a present that brings happiness & orgasmic joy to your special someone.

Before we move on to the fun part, take a moment to read through our advice for successful sex toy shopping.

Consider Their Desires

Do they have a particular interest, or have they mentioned fantasizing about trying something new? Do they love massagesvibratorsnipple play or spanking? Pick a sexy Christmas gift related to their desires. You could even create a gift basket filled with their favourite things!

Think Outside the Sex Toy Box

Get creative with your sexy Christmas gifts! Consider gifting experiences instead of physical gifts, such as an online sex course for the two of you to enjoy together. 

Set a Budget

Before adding toys to the basket, set a budget. This will help you avoid overspending - we want you to enjoy your shopping experience, not stress over how much you spent. You can get great toys at affordable prices, like this cute bullet vibe at £12!

Be Organized

Avoid the last-minute rush by doing your Christmas shopping early. This will give you plenty of time to find the perfect gift, and it will arrive in good time. We expect most people will be shopping online this year, so remember to factor in how busy delivery services will be. 

So, now you know how to go-ho-ho about shopping without breaking a sweat. Next, let's look at what's hot at Sh! this Christmas!

Sexy Christmas Gifts

Remote control toys are especially great for couples, so if you are looking for something sexy to share with a lover this Christmas, we reckon a beautiful remote control toy will hit the spot.This well-designed lay-on vibrator fits snugly into the pocket inside the pair of  accompanying black lace panties.

Taking it in turns to be on the receiving end of vibrating thrills is so much fun, but so is teasing and tempting if you are in charge of the remote control. With 10 erotic settings to explore, you'll never be a short of pleasure! A bottle of Orgasm Drops make for the perfect accompaniment to this gorgeous Christmas gift. 

Vibrator, remote control and lace panties in black lace in a gold circle


Orgie Noriplay Ultra Slide Body-To-Body Massage is specially formulated to be super-slippery and allows lovers to perform body-to-body Nuru, Japanese erotic massage. Keeping you both warm (hot!) on long, dark winter nights, this erotic massage is like no other. Drizzle onto your lover's body and use yours to massage away the Christmas stress...

Sh! Satin Ties are luxurious and seductive to gift (and use). At a versatile 39 inches long, these ties can be used to restrain your boo to the bedposts for long sessions of sensual lovemaking. For a truly sexy Christmas gift, why not include a matching satin blindfold?

Naughty Christmas Prezzies

An arousal oil like the ON Ultra will most definitely put a smile on your lover’s face. A small drop (or two) massaged into the tip of the clitoris, and its 10,000 nerve endings will be quivering with delight. Made from natural oils and essences, the ON Ultra Arousal Oil, funnily enough, smells like Christmas. Definitely one for the stocking!

Discreet Lipstick vibrator has the buzzy benefits of a vibe without the obvious design. It looks nothing like a sex toy! If your lover is shy, or have curious children who like to explore bedside drawers, this lipstick sex toy is discreet enough to not draw much attention...

Merry Clitmas Suction Snowman is festive and seasonally-appropriate. Melting hearts everywhere, this sex toy is a true gentleperson who always lets the recipient come first! Dressed in a red hat & scarf, Snowman offers 10 levels of intense clitoral suction sensations - but an orgasm may happen already at levels one or two...

A white snowman suction toy in red hat and scarf, in a gold circle


Those are great Christmas thrillers if your beloved has a clit - but we have naughty gifts for penis-owners too. 

Babes, trust us, gift your lover a six-pack this Christmas. We're not talking about a membership to the nearest gym - no, this present is way more fun!

The pleasure-loving folks at Satisfyer have created a set of 6 one-pop cups for penis masturbation, and we don't know a fella who wouldn't love one of these in their stocking on Christmas morning. These cute sex toys are super-stretchy and designed to stimulate the entire shaft. Pop the soft egg over the tip of the penis, then massage, pump and stroke all the merry way to orgasm!

Gifts for a Lesbian Christmas

For someone new to sex toys, High Fly Finger Vibe offers a fun & friendly introduction. 

Satisfyer High Fly Finger Vibe is a versatile finger vibe for solo and couples' play. The ergonomic design lays comfortably between your fingers and makes it easy to use. Erogenous zones love the smoothness of this finger vibrator, and focused pleasure can be enjoyed by using the tip. Ten intense vibration settings and a waterproof design are dreamy and offer lots of pleasure. Add a bottle of lube as an extra Christmas treat. 

glass dildo lasts for life (unless you drop it on a hard surface). These toys are marvellous pleasure-givers and far more versatile than you might think. Glass is temperature-responsive and can be warmed up for cold winter nights or chilled in the fridge if a hot flush creeps up. 

Glass dildos can be enjoyed with any lube, and they are fully waterproof for fun in the bathtub. If your darling loves good vibrations from time to time, simply slip a vibrating cock ring over the glass dildo and Bob's Your Uncle! (That will only make sense if you are British - for non-Brit customers: The dildo is dressed up and ready to go to a sexy Christmas party for two!) 

Show your #WLW love with our bestselling strap-on kit. In a stylish gift box with a magnetic lid, your lover will find a handmade leather harness, a hand-poured Cupid 3 silicone dildo, a large bottle of water-based lube and a small bottle of sex toy cleaner to ensure your pleasure kit is always spick & span. 

A red gift box with a bottle of lube, a bottle of toy cleaner and a black leather strap-on harness. A purple dildo is in front of the box.


If you & beau are lovers who prefer taking turns wearing the strap-on, the harness in this kit is perfect. Make sure to size it for the partner with curvier hips; the other can simply tighten the straps when it is their turn :) 

The Cupid 3 dildo features the Sh! signature heart-shaped base, making it safe for anal play if that's on your Christmas menu of delights to enjoy. 

Vegan Christmas Presents

If a leather harness isn't your thing, but strap-on sex is, we have a beautiful handmade vegan harness that tick all the boxes.

This stylish harness is perfect for strap-on & pegging play with our Sh! dildos. A neat front panel holds the dildo close against the pubic mound, ensuring it feels intuitive for penetration.

The Intimate Earth Organic Enhancer Kit is a cute Christmas stocking filler for Vegan lovers. A sweet organza bag holds 5 sachets of organic pleasure gels to try out:

  • Clitoral Arousal Serum
  • G-Spot Stimulating Serum
  • Salted Caramel Oral Pleasure Glide
  • Melt Warming Glide
  • Anal Relaxing Serum

A rubber tawse for spanking naughty Christmas elves is our next pick, this classic paddle shape leaves a sting and a blush. This gorgeous Christmas gift is lovingly handmade in our London studio using top-quality 3mm thick rubber and shiny chrome studs - zingy! (Now, where is that naughty elf?)

A black rubber spanking paddle in a gold circle


Kinky Christmas Gifts

A pair of handmade wrist cuffs is a gift many kinksters would love to see under the tree this year. These leather cuffs are lined with faux fur and are super comfortable. One size fits most, from 140mm - 200mm wrists. Just leave enough space for one finger to slip between the cuff and wrist to ensure the cuffs aren't too tight. 

The cuffs feature D-rings for restraining your lover to bedposts or a chair if the mood for D/s games takes you. Matching ankle cuffs are available, as is a vegan version of the restraints

If your lover adores firm, internal pleasure, we recommend taking a look at Doley. This aluminum vibrator is deliciously smooth, weighty and utterly delectable. 

This delicious steel vibe offers 9 pleasure modes, including continuous vibration, pulses and sensual waves. It's USB rechargeable and ready to deliver pleasure as soon as Santa has left the building...

Stainless steel is a temperature responsive material, and this vibrator can be enjoyed warmed up or chilled for extra thrills. Any lube can be used for extra slipperiness, and we recommend popping a small bottle into the gift box. 

This textured dildo whip vibrator with short strands is sure to be a winning Christmas present with a partner who loves spanking and vibrations.

The dildo handle offers nine vibrating modes, controlled via a single push-button. The silicone vibe is classic in design and works for clit-teasing and vaginal thrills, delivering powerful vibrations.

A black dildo vibrator with whip strands

Feeling inspired by our gift guide? Shop our sexy Christmas gifts here!


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